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 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 101
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Posted: 9/23/2008 11:28:41 AM
CONGRATULATIONS! :-)

When did u recieve the notice???? Did u get it on ur first try? Some people I know tried at least 3 times! *yikes*
 Xavery

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 9/23/2008 9:00:00 PM
You mean you don't only have to make the beauty requirement but you have to pay? Also, you mean you can try more than once to get onto that site? What do you mean they want pictures of your butt? Something smells fishy or should I say fowl/foul in beautyland.

Don't you people get it. They are flattering their users by telling them they are beautiful. It is the old spider and the fly story. You know the one where the spider tricks the fly into the web by telling her how beautiful she is.

 Xavery

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 103
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Posted: 9/24/2008 8:39:34 PM
^Sure, they will tell you are beautiful so you will give them your money. They really don't give a rat's hynie about your looks. For them it is all about money. And what could be better than being able to experience cyberspace with the beautiful people. They will tell you whatever you need to hear so you will fork over the dough.

I was almost interested in this beautiful people website and then I read you need to pay to be a member and you can apply more than once and I started thinking photoshop, photoshop, photoshop - get the healing brush and blow those blemishes away.
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:21:11 AM
Actually, LOL. I got voted into the US one by a HUGE margin....so I don't know what is wrong with the Canadian site where someone named ****ass and who bends over and shows her panties gets in. LOL. Just shows what some guys think is beautiful. Gives a WHOLE new meaning to the term "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". And I also got into hotenough....so yah. Canadian beautifulpeople.net? Don't know whats wrong with them.

ps. So if people try out and they don't get in, don't sweat it. In any event, there are a ton of people who look amazing in photos and look sub par in real life....ALSO, ultimately, it's not just looks. It's how you carry yourself and your personality. The most amazingly hot guy can looke really good on paper but when you meet him and his attitude doesn't follow, it completely ruins it. Same goes for girls. While I have some friends that are not necessarily the most beautiful people physically...they're attractive but their faces aren't particularly beautiful....yet they would easily outshine women like Heidi Clum b/c of the way they carry themselves. Guys throw themselves under a bus for these girls all the time!
 sassybabee

Joined: 9/22/2008
Msg: 105
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Posted: 9/29/2008 10:20:24 PM
i checked the site out...decided what the hell i put in a pic. But apparantly for me to join the site i have to lie about my age. Cause there is no choice for someone born in 1970 only 1973 and up. Seems to me they think only beautiful people exist after that year LOL
Crazy shit LOL
 Hal 9000

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 9/30/2008 12:59:22 AM
Some people got in because they had a good photographer, and some extreme editing over and or touching up to ehance their their plain features for a fleeting shot or wore some flashy shirt or gave off some glam vibe in order that they could emulate what they had gleaned from having read too many fashionista magazines. Better yet, the uglies of which I am doubtless to be ranked amongst, are allowed to join the shameful wall of tagged uglies where they may be further humiliated by being demoted to the ranks of the non beautiful through a impartial and democratic process!
 Its Better Together

Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 107
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Posted: 9/30/2008 5:59:55 PM
Perhaps they should have called the website "www.narcissistic.net"

Anyhoo..I'm thinking I might start my own website. I'm going to call it:

mydogthinksi'mbeautiful.net

Care to join??
 bodypro8

Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 108
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Posted: 9/30/2008 8:57:02 PM
POF rates people based on their physical attractiveness. Informally. Yes it does. The whole favorites thing. And people check. Don't deny it. I notice the really good looking women have high numbers. If they pose provocatively that will also boost their numbers.
I get feedback on being handsome, handsome in an rugged sort of way. No I won't be trying out for the mannequin site. Those women are major upkeep. As if I even could get on. Wonder if they have a height requirement?
 Xavery

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 109
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Posted: 9/30/2008 9:05:31 PM
If you click on the users similar to a profile you are viewing, you will see some amazingly beautiful people on POF.

I have been thinking about that Beautiful People Site and I think that some of the people on there must be a little insecure, because they need a website to validate or confirm their beauty. It makes me think these people must not feel so beautiful inside and I don't think this healthy.

Although, I have to say I don't think all people on that site are like this. JB has been honest about her experiences and in some way they are funny.

I conclude from what JB has said and what I have seen on POF recently is that sex really sells.
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 10/1/2008 11:13:30 AM
LOL....my experiences are funny eh? LOL. Yea...if u show your panties and u bend over in a seductive way, u are guaranteed access into BP. Some of the girls, I couldn’t even see their face. There was this one girl who was sprawled out on a car in a bikini and bent over…and her face was turned opposite the camera so u couldn’t see her face….and the amount of green buttons she got! LOL. They couldn’t even see her face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL. One guy told me that most guys don't vote positively if they can't see the girl’s body. So yah! LOL. I don't really have a problem with the concept of the site though....only because it is kind of true....everyone wants someone who they are attracted to....so no...I don't have a problem with the concept of the site. The problem I have is when they tell people "oh ur not good looking enough! and u can't join b/c ur not physically attractive enough". That’s HORRIBLE! Who are they to say that someone isn’t good-looking? That can do crazy things for someone’s self esteem and it reinforces a false ideal that beauty is all that matters...and that is crap! As the person above said, on POF, u can add people to your favorites and you have the option of having ur photo be rated. And he was implying that this is the same as beautiful people. But this is not so! B/c nowhere on POF does it categorize an individual into good looking or not good looking enough. Yea...the best looking chicks/dudes get the most hits or one might argue gets the most favorites (even though I have to disagree b/c someone who signed on in 2005 will obviously have more favorites than someone who signed on in 2008 and that has nothing to do with looks)……but there is no one telling someone “oh ur just not good looking enough”…and this could potentially damage a person’s self esteem and that’s the problem I have with sites like BP and Hotenough.com…even though I did get into them! LOL! But I was doing it solely for experimental purposes! LOL
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 111
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Posted: 10/1/2008 11:16:23 AM
Also, if all these people value is their looks, what if one day they get hit by a truck and they're completely disfigured???? Then what are they going to do?

Seriously, it's about the total package! For me at least!
 bodypro8

Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 112
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Posted: 10/1/2008 4:13:53 PM
Yes JB, you're right. The Beautiful People site is a little more one dimensional than POF, I presume, because I have never checked it out. Also, the favorites feature is not a reliable measure of attractiveness, because when I see an exceptionally attractive woman with low numbers it tells me this: she just came on the site or she culls non-starters.
Sometimes I ask em. It is always one of the two. If you are unattractive or say, for instance, short, then one needs to compensate with something else. Like being funny. But I don't feel funny. Not today.
 -anomaly-

Joined: 9/18/2008
Msg: 113
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Posted: 10/1/2008 6:13:37 PM
//signs up.

LOL

I'd love to see what the Rejection email looks like.
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 10/2/2008 7:01:17 AM
Hey! I actually don't think u would be rejected. Use this picture, the third one or the last one on your profile. U are very pretty. But hey, I saw some pretty people get the boot and someone named b_it_cha_ss with her panties showing get in so I dunno. Try out for the US one!
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 115
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Posted: 10/13/2008 6:44:00 AM
U know whats really funny? There's a show now called beautiful people. It's a reality show of the guys who came up with these beautifulpeople site. It's about their journey to launch a beautifulpeople.net site in Canada. And one of the guys said that the Canadian beautiful people would have the most ugly people/ "least attractive" were I think his exact words...out of all the beautifulpeople.com sites. I just find that funny...b/c here these people are judging and dissing people based on their looks where the owners themselves think they are ugly. The only reason they came to Canada was for all the money they would make. One of the owners was ****ing anc complianing b/c he would rather have set up a site in Brazil! lol
 IncognitoGuido

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 10/13/2008 8:37:16 AM
Everyone who has signed up for the BP site should have to read a book my Son just read that is part of his grade 9 english class (might be a bit too complicated for some of those who have signed up, but maybe their parents could read it to them...) It's called UGLIES and is a great story about all this crap
 ritawayward

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 10/13/2008 10:42:36 AM
YA its hilarious how JB got No flack and put downs on her intelligence when she talked about this site and then JOINED (which I did not and said so)yet a few pages back I was skewered for clarifying what common physical traits are often used to determine "beauty" as a guide from that industry in which I formerly worked. I also said I didn't agree with such a narrow criteria and didn't fit it in many ways.
Didn't matter got fried! Nice!
 crashingchloe

Joined: 9/25/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 10/13/2008 11:16:31 AM
Who would of thought this topic would generate so many pages...lol...

I never did go look at the site, still have no desire to...what would it prove or disprove?

Beauty will always be based on personal perceptions and of course it helps if you wear less clothes apparently...


CC
 Forumwhore

Joined: 9/23/2008
Msg: 119
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Posted: 10/13/2008 12:04:27 PM
PPffftttt...
Lets just call it what it is... Shallow people.
The only people I want to validate my "beauty" are the people who are closely connected to my personal life, not total strangers on some pathetic vanity website.
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 120
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Posted: 10/15/2008 9:09:49 PM
Well, I joined just to check it out. I did it out of mere curiously. A beautiful friend of mine had tried to join and got rejected. So I really wanted to see what this site was about and what their “concept” of beauty is. To be honest, my friend was of colour so I wanted to see if there was any racial biases on that site….that’s originally why I joined. However, I do not visit the site and my profile is inactive…I don’t have 25 or so bucks a month to waste on that thing. Anyways, if you would read my comments you would see that I have no problem with the concept of the site...i.e. everyone wants someone they are physically attracted to...however, it is the fact that they put people down and categorize people into "ugly" or "not attractive enough" that I disagree with! No one has the right to tell someone that they are not beautiful enough. I personally cannot make anyone so I will not make a person feel insignificant because they don’t fit societies mold of what looks good. In addition, beauty is subjective…what maybe beautiful to some may not be beautiful to others. Also, placing people into such demeaning categories can break a persons self esteem….it also sends the false message that beauty is all that matters! I didn't read what you said so I can't comment on your posts or on why anyone may have put you down based on your opinion! I am sorry you had to experience that.

Oh and yea crashingchloe, it definitely helps if you wear less clothes! LOL *roll eyes*
 Xavery

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 121
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Posted: 10/15/2008 9:24:25 PM
Are you saying that once you are accepted onto the site you are charged a monthly fee and then categorized? So even if you make it onto the site, you may end up in the ugly group. This is becoming really funny.

If a bunch of so called beautiful people on a beautiful people web site decided that I was ugly, my self-esteem would not be broken. I would just think what a bunch of losers and blame it on all my clothing.

This beautiful people site is really begin to sound like a scam. I doubt that the people on that site have any notion of what really beauty is and are just spending 25 dollars a month to raise their self-esteem.

I would like to get onto that site to shake-up people in the forums. Do they have forums? What do they talk about?
 ritawayward

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 122
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Posted: 10/16/2008 8:46:12 AM
I didn't read what you said so I can't comment on your posts or on why anyone may have put you down based on your opinion!

That's easily enough solved page 2 and 3 msgs 49 ,54, 57

I think its a case of ageism since you are such a beautiful,sweet, YOUNG thing!
No one would cross you ... male OR female and the proof is here! They haven't.
I doubt you will be aware of your power until it is gone!
There will be other things to take its place but, likely none so obvious and in some cases, valued.
 Jamaican Beauty

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 123
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Posted: 10/21/2008 5:36:11 PM
Xavery: “Are you saying that once you are accepted onto the site you are charged a monthly fee and then categorized? So even if you make it onto the site, you may end up in the ugly group. This is becoming really funny.”

Well no….you get voted onto the site and then that’s it I think. I haven’t been on so I am not sure. I know that there are discussion groups though….some topics are like some of the ones on here. “What do girls look for in guys and vice versa”. But like I said, I haven’t been on much so I don’t really know much.

Ritawayward: “I think its a case of ageism since you are such a beautiful,sweet, YOUNG thing!
No one would cross you ... male OR female and the proof is here! They haven't.”

Awww, thanks but I doubt that…. I am sure someone will cross me sooner or later. lol
 Chrystalriver

Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 124
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Posted: 10/21/2008 8:01:05 PM
I dated a guy very briefly who was quite attractive, but he just wasn't my "type". He spent a LOT of time admiring himself in the mirror and was shocked that I would break up with him.

I think I dated the same one lol lol lol
 Chrystalriver

Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 125
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Posted: 10/21/2008 8:03:19 PM
JB they do refer to themselves as online pimps.
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