| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:45:17 AM | .....AND...the wisdom to not *Press* a subject....ANY subject...
when the other party is uncomfortable with it..!!
[Personally...I avoid 'Religion' with a Passion...but, can talk about Kissing...for Hours..!!]
A major ingredient in an adult conversation is * TACT *
Many women will Slam a door , Very quickly, when pushed into something Too fast...
if not given the respect that she wants...
Others will 'Take the Bull by the Horn', and tell you that she needs to
'Go - Play' when the need arises..!!
*SPARKS* are Fun....as long as the limitations are Understood..!!
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/27/2008 7:13:36 AM | Adults should have the maturity to communicate there needs and wants.
If only this were true and you did not have to put should in there, it would solve a shedload of relationship issues, alot of the time the hardest thing many people find is sharing a problem and communication, they talk to thier friends about it, they talk to the parents about it, will they talk about it to the person thats actually involved? hell no.
How many times have you tried to talk about sex with a prospective date and had them vanish without a trace or get angry? | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 9/5/2008 12:54:34 AM | I make special efforts to Avoid discussing sex.....trying to calculate how long
it will take her to ask the magic question...:
'We've been talking all this time ..
and you haven't once mentioned Sex ..
Why is that..??'
~ Unless , of course , She brings it up, on her own..! ~
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 9/5/2008 2:14:00 AM | | I get tired of people not being open and honest. I also get tired of talking to someone openly and then they think it's a invitation to come over, or to have internet sex. Maybe I just wanna talk, or maybe I'm just answering the question that was asked... it doesn't mean that I wanna get it on right then, or even with that person. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 9/5/2008 2:20:40 AM | | why is it that women tend to think that all men are after only sex chat online, i mean i dont no about the other guys online but i much prefer a decent conversation with a MATURE adult. im from canada and we get sex chat online over there all the time but by the WOMEN and yet i find over here that the women are to prudish or immature to discuss anything like it! (only my opinion sorry if i am wrong here or offend anyone). anyway nice to get that off my chest, message me some time one and all? xx | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 9/5/2008 5:41:22 AM | | Well my friends are pretty horrible when it comes to talking about sex. They get very nervous, turn bright red and change the subject. I get excited when I find someone that I can discuss things with openly, without it leading to anything sexual. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 9/5/2008 6:37:58 AM | ^^^^In total agreement with LL!! ( GMTA)
What I find even funnier is that most people can TALK about sex-but have you ever heard them use the correct terminology when referring to a person's genitals. I mean how hard is it to say V A G I N A or P E N I S??? What is perhaps even funnier if not a bit sad is--most people talk about sex well with a stranger but can't even discuss anything of an intimate issue with their own lover??? The key is being an adult and I suppose some of us have grown-up in years but in the mental capacity----I dunno.
Cyber sex/chat what have you really doesn't do much for me----unless I actually was intimate with a person. If someone get's pissy because I won't chat em up all dirty and nasty like-oh well---I tell em to try a phone sex operator cuz I'm sure they'll get their monies worth.
So-let's talk about sex---shall we?!! | |
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