| Express Anger Or Move On
Posted: 6/29/2008 10:12:58 PM | | I have wrecked a lot of relationships by treating women with respect and treating them well. the victems are always a guy who is taking her for granted. he gets dumped and realizes what he has lost. this is devestating for him usually because he thought he had her all wrapped up and she just dumps him out of discust. at this point it is usually to late for him to recover because the damage is done. | |
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| Express Anger Or Move On
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:02:41 AM | Msg 51,
What you've expressed is highly neurotic thinking. If you've treated a woman good, and this is by your definition, and she has dumped you it is because you really aren't as nice as you think you're.
Many so called nice guys aren't really that nice to begin with. Women often find them stiff, insincere, lacking confidence, and not much fun to be with. Show you have some human qualities rather than the game you're probably playing with her. Loosen up and stop worrying about impressing her and be yourself. Remember no man is so terrible he can't get a woman. After all, Hitler had Eva Braun!
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| Express Anger Or Move On
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:08:17 AM | So true. Cannot give...what you have not owned. Own it (it hurts...yes)
and then give it up...
OP, even if it only helps "temporarily"...each step towards the future...helps in the long run. | |
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| Express Anger Or Move On
Posted: 7/1/2008 1:09:41 PM | Op, recognize that you are better than her and then live your life with as much integrity as you can muster and karma will take care of the rest.
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| Express Anger Or Move On
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:18:07 PM | | do what feels right for YOU. if you express your anger, please do it in a safe, reasonable way though. lol i suspect you'll find you're still pining away even after you express your anger, but it'll help temporarily. anger, by the way, is about the mid stage of the grieving process. you're on your way. it'll just take time. meanwhile, try not to dwell on it too much (easy to say, but it'll help). always keep in mind, at some point in time, she'll eventually be nothing but a hazy memory. that'll also help to get you through the rough times. best wishes. | |
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