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 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 350
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I can't stand the whole "checking each other out" scenario. It makes me very anxious. Like I have to be 'perfect' in his eyes (just like my pic) otherwise he will run. That is what stops me meeting guys.

On the other hand, if I was at my local gym and a guy happened to ask me out (hasn't happened yet.......lol) then I would say ok. Why? Because I would know that he's already seen me and liked what he saw and vice versa. It didn't become a huge thing.
 komodo
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 351
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Time to come clean: What keeps you from meeting someone?
Posted: 6/10/2009 7:39:53 PM
Don't know really. Can only guess, I'll never know (how could I?). My guess, would be; in the wrong place at the wrong time? Mistaken ideas? Stereotypes, profiling? Who knows, if you figure it out let me know
 mascot1
Joined: 5/3/2008
Msg: 352
Time to come clean: What keeps you from meeting someone?
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:01:42 PM
don't want to like them, don't want to not like them. In other words, I don't want to keep my mind fluttering through the "does he like me back?" nor do I want to think of the best way to say "not interested".
Never sure completely what I'm after, as many guys I'm sure are too, sometimes I think I want to go for long term, other times, I just want to be left alone. I don't want to put someone through that, so I keep from meeting anyone. Plus after everyone sees how long this is, not many are going to want to meet me!
 uknowmenot
Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 353
Time to come clean: What keeps you from meeting someone?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:47:59 AM
I am afraid that the person might be a nut case. I have heard some negative stories about online dating than again I have heard some positive stories.
 spikey_fridge
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 354
Time to come clean: What keeps you from meeting someone?
Posted: 6/11/2009 10:08:57 AM
it's when they chat online f rever, i lose interest. i'd rather meet soon as possible and see how it goes from the reality not the virtual
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