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| Re: Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 3/20/2005 11:22:31 AM | First, I will say that both men and women cheat. The only reason it's being called "Man Bashing" is because women are the only ones posting. I know there are guys out there that can speak up.
A marriage is 100%- you're in or you're out. You're not in 60% and the other 40% is spent in someone else's bed. If you're not happy at all, deal with it or get out, as said before.
I know the pain of being cheated on. It was not a good feeling, I would have hurt if he had said he wanted a divorce, he had found someone else- yes. But at least I would have more respect for him as a man and as a human that way.
Did I ever want to cheat on him? No, not one time. I loved with all my heart. And it cannot be said that he cheated on me b/c I didn't give him sex whenever he wanted it. There was not a time in our life together that I ever denied him or turned him down.
But that's my .02.
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| Re: Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 3/20/2005 12:23:32 PM | i agree w/butterfly.
its not cool 2 sleep w/ a married man. thats sumones HUSBAND. he pledged 2 love her until death do them part, and i think its sleazy to go and sleep w/ sum1 else.
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| Re: Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 3/20/2005 12:35:23 PM | shadowred....nima....wayne:
never cheated on my husband...he cheated on me.....
divorced and decided to see what the big deal was in cheating....
finally understand:
no strings no obligations no expectations
just complete freedom to relax and have some of the best sex out there! just a bit of honesty on this thread...it needed it...lol | |
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 3/21/2005 5:31:09 AM | It is neither sexy or a challege for me. Where is the challenge in sleeping with a married man? If the man is married and his wife is not a part of the sexual activity then it is cheating. I have no interest in being a mistress/**** buddy/or anything else to a married man. My opinion, men if you are married and unhappy enough that you need/want to sleep with someone else than it is time to get out of the marriage. One of my biggest pet peeves is people who cheat. | |
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| Re: Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 3/21/2005 10:43:45 AM | Open marriages are a right of the people envolved in the relationship. However, they are still married and not to inform someone outside the relationship of this is dishonest. The reasons on why they have decieded to have an open relationship is not relevant, but honesty with those they intend to sleep with should be a priority. | |
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wayne
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 4/4/2005 4:57:46 AM | | I find that women dont have the same sex drive that i have, im 25 and have been married for 3 years. I am here for the 2 kids, but as for sex lets face it, if i want to get it more often i have to go elsewhere. Going about it safe and discreet keeps the family life going good and therefore keeps me around to be a father, which im good at. | |
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a married man Posted: 4/4/2005 5:07:51 AM | | And i will add, there is nothing worse for a guy than being turned down for a week straight...... we do have a natural instinct and desire and will go elsewhere eventually. Women are so pissed off to find there man cheating on them yet its the guy who should be pissed off, you get into a relationship having lots of sex and feel really fulfilled and so you decide to get married. Not far down the road the wife is played out for sex and the guy is stuck with a HARD ON. Its depressing for the guy that bugs his wife for sex and then she just turns over. The last thing guys want to do is masturbate, we want the real thing!! We dont mind holding off but women will make the guys hold off excessively. Instinct takes hold of the guys eventually. | |
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a new subject Posted: 4/4/2005 5:20:17 AM | | Some of us get married not being cheaters. I went a good period without sex and then ended up cheating on the wife. I did the wrong thing and told her what i did because i felt guilty. The family life was torn for a the summer, 2 months she left. She does make an effort to keep me happy now. Its too bad that it had to get out of hand, its kinda personal but i will say that i went weeks with out getting that juicy beaver, before i cheated. When she left I had some really nice hotties willing to start from square 1. I had my fun but I am back with the wife again. We had only 1 kid at the time, and now we have a 1 month old daughter. | |
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a new subject Posted: 4/4/2005 5:35:21 AM | | I don't personally find it stimulating to fuk a married man, nor do I not bother with them because it's easy for me to get laid. I simply do not bother with them, because THEY ARE MARRIED and that is OFF LIMITS. Besides, I am not into sloppy seconds...Get out of the marriage, get it cleaned up, and then we can talk about it...If you're married...I'm not interested! | |
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a new subject Posted: 4/5/2005 3:02:53 PM | | Actually, I dont know about other woman on here, but I almost got with a married man (didn't know till after the fact) and I felt dirty as hell. If you want to go and sleep with someone, get a divorce, THEN find someone. If I was married, I would respect my husband more if he did that to me instead of cheated on me. Just because you are unhappy doesn't mean you have to do that. Divorce her, then do ur thing dude. | |
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| Do you women think its a turn to to FU$% a new subject Posted: 4/5/2005 5:26:21 PM | | Sweet beaver: All I can say is if you still have feelings for your spouse don't do it. I went without for almost a year (twice) and was rewarded for my loyalty by her cheating. Sounds bad, right? Wrong. I didn't cheat and you know I can still look at myself in the mirror in the morning without guilt. I can still look at my kids and know that I didn't blow their trust in their dad. Just my two cents. | |
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