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Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/2/2008 1:21:52 PM
I do like her, she's cool but I like her Ex aswell and dont want to piss him off either Should have thought about that before your time spent...hind-sight I want to avoid anything blowing up in my face.. Ouch!!! 3 months is not a long time between some break ups...I hope this all ends well. I say in some senses you did nothing wrong...for you are two consenting adults. but By your quotes it seem that you are holding some reservations about what happened. Good luck.

Spoken For

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/2/2008 4:59:10 PM
Ok, OP...if you have NO intention of ever dating either of them, and you don't want anything to blow up in your face, I think I'd take a long step back and avoid allowing anything to happen with either of them, ever again. Just say no!

LaFets

Joined: 6/9/2008
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/3/2008 2:25:05 PM
It just causes too many problems. I've been there and it was a disaster!

deborah815

Joined: 4/25/2007
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/3/2008 3:59:07 PM
Recipe for disaster. People get killed over stuff like this. Don't mean to be an alarmist but I read about this kind of thing in the papers all the time.

oceanvictoria

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/3/2008 4:06:41 PM
This was definately a faux pa and you will now have to deal with the fall out whatever that entails, your best case scenario, she is humiliated by the entire thing and wants to forget it, you obviously not sure about relationship, Are you asking to compare notes, i have none to share, however having heard these similar stories they generally dont turn out well, you lose credibility with friends and are not trusted.

LaFets

Joined: 6/9/2008
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/10/2008 10:52:57 AM
Recipe for disaster. People get killed over stuff like this It is a recipe for disaster. My b/f and I split up for almost a year. I slept with a couple of guys, including a friend of his. When my b/f and I got back together he was and still is very angry about it. The other guy told everyone about having sex with me and humiliated me and my b/f. If he had the chance I think my b/f would lay a serious beating on the other guy. I've told him he could end up in jail if he did. I think that fear is the only thing keeping him from doing it. I have worried that if they meet in a bar and booze is involved it could get dengerously out of hand.

dont waist ur time

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Sleeping with someone you know Posted: 7/10/2008 11:14:43 AM
R to the H hate to say this but i hope u realize now how much these idiots on here like to always act like they r better then everyone else...like give me a break all these ppl never ever ever would do anything against the law or even go against the mighty bible ...WOW... to me bro just say F**K It and bag er a few more times then if u actually do like er and she is into u then who cares about the ex...if he gets carried away....hell walk into an alley with the chump....bust his teeth and then watch for his mates......but dont let some Ex ruin or run what u or her may want in a relationship......to me all the rest in these forums except a few like to bash the OP every chance they get....and Y might we wonder.... cause thier dinks with no lives..... now comes the bashin on me .....but get the hint ....im the type not to care Peace R to the H......enjoy what u got going with her...dam 99% of the guys on here want anything...at least u got it....even if just once i bet it was well worth it...... and i have been threw this in the past a bunch of times......i never cared about the ex... actually i enjoyed pissing them off Peace All

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