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Posted: 6/30/2008 6:05:34 PM | I am on board with Msg. 24. Too much dancing around the obvious course of action when there is someone is being directly threatened with physical harm by another.
So...on that note, not much more really to offer on the topic. Something is really "off" , IMO.
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| What Do I Do... Honestly!!
Posted: 6/30/2008 6:25:11 PM | 20 years old and three different men since February? The new guy is the one you posted about moving in with a few days ago, how long have you been dating him 6 weeks?
Babygurl, you need to really decide what kind of life you want, at the rate you are going this will not be the last time you are taking Penicillin between boyfriends and probably end up pregnant and single too. Your baby would get whatever disease you have, is that what you want for yourself?
Don't ever blame someone else because you got drunk a number of times and had unprotected sex with some violent dirt-bag. You want advice? Here it is, show this thread to your Mother and Grandmother and see what they have to say. I'm sure the
two of them have no idea what you've been up to lately. Have a little self respect, no one will EVER care for you unless you learn to take care of yourself first. You are headed for serious trouble unless you take a good hard look at your life right now. don't screw up the only life you have. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 8:19:01 PM | devils advocate here:
After the OP's last post does one not think that perhaps the NEW/CURRENT b/f protests too much? Hesays he hasn't slept with anyone in a year prior to her AND he was tested before her and was OK,.....OP have you seen the paperwork to PROVE THAT????? Funny how since sleeping with the new b/f you started to get symptoms... and "now" he tests positive too??? Hmmmmmm Seems he's taking this news rather well for a new lover.
Just muddying the waters a tad more with all the treading water going on here.
Still I agree that OLD b/f 's current behaviour is uncool.
That said OP DOES admit to cheating on old b/f too so why is HE so evil for being a cheater?
OP, BTW FYI.....
had a STD screening done. It was my usual pap. It come back negitive A routine PAP smear does NOT always include STD testing,... that is another set of criteria for your physician to request the lab to screen for. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 8:41:38 PM | I see the OP's since deleted her profile. But since I suspect that she's looking in on this thread anyways, I'm going to respond.
You are talking in circles, riddles and leaving out portions of your story, yet you want advice? None of us can really guess what the complete story is, because she's leaving enough details out, and changing her story as she dgoes.
The only thing I am certain of is: she doesn't even know for sure where she got this disease.
The reason i think its him that gave me it though was because By your own admission, you're not really certain where you got an STD from.
Therefore, maybe you shouldn't accuse anyone of giving it to you.
If you're uncertain of where you got it from, it's quite possible the person you're accussing got it from you.
Maybe it's time for you to learn to grow the fcuk up and take responsibility for you own behavior. The next STD you get could be the kind that isn't quickly cured with penicilion.
After the OP's last post does one not think that perhaps the NEW/CURRENT b/f protests too much? He says he hasn't slept with anyone in a year prior to her AND he was tested before her and was OK,.. One month ago she started a thread questioning his fidelity
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10067630.aspx | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 8:43:37 PM | Ok.. against my better judgment.. (lol) I'm just going to say this:
They're all horny little 20 year olds, actually like horny 16 year olds, without any real caution in what they're doing. Admittedly she was drunk "and didn't really know what I was doing" nor using the proper protection with apparently any of them? Atleast that's what its sounding like.
It doesn't matter who gave who the STD.. it does matter that she found out she got one, did the 'right' thing in telling other partners. The problem really becomes the insecure imbecile becoming threatening and all that crap. The new boyfriend is giving the OP tremendously ROTTEN advice. I'm not sure what she could possibly see in him anymore. I think the new boyfriend is just worried he's going to get his pansy little ass kicked too by the former boyfriend.
The best advice is to go to the police with what you have. I hope it goes well for you. Another piece of advice, that you probably won't take. Dump the current boyfriend and don't have a boyfriend for awhile. Its ok! You can do that! You had 3 boyfriends it sounds like since February. What the holy hell?? Take care of yourself. Grow a little. Trust me in this -- you're the best person you know that can take care of yourself. Nobody could take care of you better than you could yourself. If you don't feel like that currently, then its time for you to experience that yourself.
Off my soapbox. If I offended people.. sorry.. but it had to be said. Maybe its just my age, or the experiences I've went thru. I hope OP takes it that I'm looking out for her long term best interest. She has a LONG life ahead of her. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 8:43:58 PM | | Police! Police! Police! better safe then sorry. Shouldn't wait til your in the hospital or worse before finally going to the police. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:48:32 AM | so basically pissed off crazy EX and most likely lying current b/f aside, I see the OP pointing fingers at everyone else but herself,....... one should remember that when doing such pointing THREE fingers are pointing right back at them!
as the saying goes: If you lay down with dogs......... | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 4:05:01 PM | OMG whatever....did you REALLY really WANT advice or the attention?!
Get your sh!t together and do what you know is right ok? | |
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