| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:38:09 PM |
OP: I really wish that you were more openminded. You would have such a better time! The more turned on I make my man, the hotter I get!!!! And the fact that I am in love makes it so much better....
Very nicely put 2nutty!! | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:55:44 PM | | Yea um one guy pulls that and it's something strange about him but two different guys unable to achieve orgasm during sex with you ...????? You might want to stop pointing your fingers at others and consider what you may be doing wrong. Just my opinion based on the facts as you stated them. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 2:02:39 PM |
I wonder how long you dated these guys before becoming intimate? Sounds like you needed to spend more time getting to know one another.
My thoughts exactly. It seems to me that most people today get intimate way too soon and then wonder why the sex doesn't work out.
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 2:14:28 PM |
What's up with this? don't men want a woman any more? You don't need me around to pleasure yourself. Next time it happens I will go watch TV.
Stop dating guys who learned all their lovemaking skills from pornos! | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 2:33:01 PM | Re the Opost
Other than the LM not being that hot (sorry), or him not being able to come after like an hour of penetration or more (fatigue), the only other reasonable explanation I can think is if they were not wearing a condom and did not want to finish inside. But I would noy know, I always wear one. As per the anal, Yikessss! Gross to the max! | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 2:35:36 PM | I may have to call paramedics from laughing so hard  however, all seriousness aside, you have either found two very strange men, did you happen to meet them both in the same gay bar?, or, you might need to find some of those exercises to help you get a grip on things | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 3:09:28 PM |
how old were these guys? your profile says your 53... maybe its a thing older guys like????
I'm 52, and have come to expect this behavior from my sex partners. More often than not, once guys reach a certain age, they need more and varied types of stimulation to "get off". I'm all for sexual exploration myself, and really get excited by seeing a guy become intensely sexually aroused, so I usually try to do what they ask. However, as OP stated, sometimes they guy is not particularly clean back there, or he may be asking me to do something that I find REALLY distasteful; so I try offering an alternative method of stimulation, hoping that just doing something different than the same ol' same ol' will be enough to do the trick for him.
I don't feel that I necessarily need to be "getting something out of it" when I'm attending his desires, just knowing that I'm able to bring him to climax is enough for me. Oh, don't get me wrong, I do expect to have my needs filled as well, just saying that EVERYTHING we do together doesn't have to be about me. It's ok to take turns when it comes to giving and receiving. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 3:52:23 PM | This seems to happen when men spend a long time being single and having to pleasure themselves (particularly to climax) or flitting from partner to partner - they forget how to make love to a woman, or perhaps some young men just don't have the experience yet.
You need to let him take time to get to know your body whilst he gets to know yours, learn to take pleasure from each other and grow within that. Stop all of this selfishness within yourself and take the initiative in this respect - show him what you can do for him and what he can do for you as most men love to please their partner physically. You can't have paradise straight away - it takes time! | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:10:34 PM | First off...I will sat that my bf and I pleasure ourselves with help in other places from the other. Here's my thing...never had a big O with a man until him. Now I am addicted! Sometimes I can come very easily other times it takes a long time and I get all tender. Therefore I just finish myself because I know EXACTLY what feels fabulous! ( and what hurts) And he gets to explore and kiss me all over....
Hey 2Nutty,
if you have a boyfriend why do you continue to log on to a dating website? | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:34:32 PM | Dont be so restrictive. Mutual masturbation is another form of love making. Watching each other get off can be very hot. And as for anal play, if you both shower and wash well before it, it can be a great turn on. If hes not willing to clean up for you and asks for anal play, hes inconsiderate and needs to be reminded. If he wont listen to that..hes no good for you.
And yes, as a man gets older, it can be more difficult for him to achieve orgasm from the pressure of the vaginal walls or the mouth. Remember that women's vaginas get a bit looser when they get older too, there can be problems with adequate lubrication, etc...so we do have to make some adjustments for each other. It gets more difficult to remain erect in less than perfect stimulation situations as you get older and so direct pressure and precise movements are often needed to acheive orgasm for men.
If having him masturbate with you turns you off, I suggest you might want to be a bit more open minded and understanding. Try masturbating for him to see, this might open up some new sexual ground for you. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:43:34 PM | I dont know about the anal thing but um maybe they werent getting the "tight" feeling they needed? I have heard of guys saying women are very loose....AND I AM NOT TRYING TO INSULT....but if they are pulling out to masterbate? Do you offer to help them along? Like a blow job or doing the hand job for the guy? maybe they were bored? Try mixing it up a little...
Good Luck.... | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 5:10:01 PM | WOW! I know in todays world people are sexually pretty sick but this is out there. You are lucky he doesn't have a 14 inch penis or he woudlnt' even need you at all!
You chose him so let us know why you did? I'm extremely curious. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 5:12:05 PM |
OP: I really wish that you were more openminded. You would have such a better time! The more turned on I make my man, the hotter I get!!!! And the fact that I am in love makes it so much better....
Very nicely put 2nutty!!
OMG; IMHO you've got to be kidding. Any man that thinks this is normal activity is out there. This guy is a nut and is pretty into himself. The world is a mess. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 6:02:46 PM | 3yearsfromnow - you said
First off...I will sat that my bf and I pleasure ourselves with help in other places from the other
yet in the same post you say
Hey 2Nutty,
if you have a boyfriend why do you continue to log on to a dating website
Kinda hypocritical don't you think? You just claimed to have a bf yourself yet are still logging into a dating site (to respond to this forum)
**slowly shakes head and walks away **
And before you slam me for having a bf and being on a dating site - yes I am but I am open about it and NOT putting others down for doing it either. I am here for the forums only as my profile clearly states. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 6:14:24 PM | | I'm guessing Lil Brooker is going in the right direction... Once you wear out a pair of shoes, you can slip right in them without untying the laces... Although I'm older and tight as a drum - but - everbody's different... Try the kegels.... | |
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