| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:02:32 PM | | OMG!! So sorry to hear that you have met two of these selfish men OP. I can't say that I have ever run into something like this, but then I've been single for the past 5 years. YIKES!! This is scaring me. Should I just close my account and take my chances that someone at Dominion will notice me when I'm paying for my groceries and ask me out? | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:31:47 PM |
Stop dating guys who learned all their lovemaking skills from pornos!
That was my thought. Are you sure he wasn't trying for a "money shot"?
Did you notice any other "giveaway" behaviours? Was he playing "bow chicka wow wow " type music in the background? | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:47:13 PM | | if it had been just one guy the maybe i could chalk this up to being weird but two guys in a row likely means you're the one with the problem. there is no way a guy is going to wack off right after sex unless he wasnt getting his. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/1/2008 11:48:13 PM |
Hey 2Nutty,
if you have a boyfriend why do you continue to log on to a dating website?
Well, a few of us, lol!, think that being here is fun, in and of itself, and also, from time to time our posts may be useful to others. A good deal of my email is thanking me for either making someone laugh, or the advice. Is this ego stroking? Sure -- it's nice to be complimented; but it's also nice to think I may have helped someone work through something more easily.
As for the OP, certainly as men age, needs change. But that's true for women, too. Ironically, I personally think it makes, overall, for much better lovemaking than when I was younger. I'd have to say that with my mate the lovemaking is pretty much a 24 hour a day thing -- foreplay, play, or afterplay. Anticipation is totally erotic. . . . And glorious is all of it, too. Relax, enjoy, give as much as you can, use your imagination, be patient. The best is yet to come. . . .
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:23:21 AM | | I'm with the laughing libran on this the first thing I thought of is that maybe he is on the small side and could not get the required stimulation to 'get off'. Apologies no assumptions here just thinking. The chance that this happened twice in succession is suggesting the problem may be with you but only some old fashioned communication could answer this. In my practice I would be advising both to discuss the need for either personal gratification or anal stimulation to get to the 'bottom' of the problem. pun intended | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:36:31 AM | Sorry to hear that happened to you what a big disappointment's they turned out to be, if a man did that to me, I would so be laughing my head off at the idiot and leaving him to it.
Better off they stay single and keep their remote handy for the porn channels, cos it sounds like they spent too much time doing that now cant do it normally with a woman!! Their loss  And if a man wants his a*se played with eweweweweweeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!! that hole is for s*it to come out of not putting things into it, urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Msg: 3 - Stress - WTF - this is dating, not 'days of our lives' now that really is baggage of the heaviest kind. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 7:03:31 AM | | wow , thats an odd one ....... as for the not so fresh , do not embarass your partner , suggest " heavily " some shower or bath fun ... then u know your both clean ...... maybe your Va JJ to loose for him , i know i rather shoot outside the Vag...... and if the man has to beat it ,,, your not doing it for him ,,, 2 guys did this ,,, i believe the problem lies with u , not them ........... good luck ! | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 7:27:07 AM | | OMG! I have never been here before but I thought this would be a great one to leave my first reply. It seems that so many men are looking for the "Happy Ending" for themselves and not for their partners. Maybe some of it is communication. The last women I dated was a very poor communicator. She felt that she could not tell me want she liked in bed. I had to drag it out of her. Once I did we had some awesome experiences. This whole thing does make me kinda scratch my head though. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 12:32:30 PM | OP For this to have happened, with two separate men, I'd have to say go to the mirror for the answer. If it had been one man, and no others, I might have a different opinion. Maybe things down there aren't what they once were. Maybe you just didn't do it for them? It's a pretty sad day when they'd actually prefer self love instead.
Sorry but I'd do start doing kegals right away if I were you. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:34:20 PM | | i doubt alot of guys actually do that... of course i was with a girl, i couldnt get off with, but thats because she was unbelievably loose, so think about that factor too | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:55:14 PM | hmmmm....if he pulls out and starts to play with himself then you should play too! very erotic to masturbate for each other....i bet when he sees you getting off by yourself he'll feel the need to jump back on the ride and finish off!
just my opinion... | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 10:56:00 PM | | You are meeting the wrong men & a short disscusion would help you decide before hand. like me, I like going down for your first orgasim & then a good, slow, with increaseing speed, intercourse. that's why they call it intercourse, because you have entered eachothers, most plesurable area's. | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:05:37 AM |
Do you have cable? May I suggest that you possibly try to catch a rerun of SEX IN THE CITY!
Ha! Thanks, zentimes and all who posted!
To clarify, the first guy didn't want to get anal sex from me; he wanted me to give it to him. (It wasn't a lack of vag tightness problem). Now I can be open minded to treat a guy to that now and again, but EVERY time from the first encounter on? I don't think so. Girls, beware of a man who only keeps black towels in the bathroom!
The second guy, I believe, was in a routine that did not include a partner (he kept a bottle of Corn Huskers lotion on his nightstand). I once saw a movie where a man said "the best sex I ever had was with myself". I guess some guys are particular. I didn't mind kissing his thighs, but again, the same old routine every time gets old real fast.
I did learn a lot from all the replies; even the posters who wanted to insult me were funny and I appreciated them!!! Thanks again! | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:47:12 AM | As they were both simular....it sounds like a lot more time spent on foreplay was needed. asking each other what you wanted and liked. by doing that first and getting a fair bit out of the way. then carry on as normal.  | |
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| I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:59:16 AM | That's really odd. I've never pulled out so I could roll over and jerk off.
But it's also really, really funny.
"Hope you don't mind baby, I'm just gonna lay here and pull my meat...do you mind kissing my thighs while I do it?"
Now I want to do it just to see my girl's reaction. | |
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