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Posted: 7/1/2008 1:53:25 PM | I don't have a cervix anymore, but I remembered when I guy hit that sucker because he was too long. It hurt like hell. Now a have a pelvic vault that is only so long. It kinda got sewed across the top with a hysterectomy. So, I know I cannot take anyone longer than 8 anymore because there is no space. That would probably hurt like hell hitting the end of that also. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:50:09 PM | | Dude - that would HURT. Maybe she could penetrate your bladder with her fingernail. Like that idea? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:03:07 PM | | Navywave...that's called a "cuff" and what I have as well. (Not all hysterectomies performed, are finished up this way...Docs should give you the choice.) It was explained to me, that it only shortens the area by a very small amount...not even measureable...but I have found hitting the edge of such is pleasant...nothing at all compared to hitting the cervix...which, pre-hyster for me...was terror! | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:11:41 PM | blueskies123
that just means he already tried to do it and got told off
Why does any man need to go far in anyway? It's not a gold mine | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:55:05 PM | what type of idiots would want to do this?
that would just hurt. i've heard about long guys hitting the cervix, and every case i've heard of, it hurt the woman. so unless she's a major masochist, i don't think any women would be into this. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:02:30 PM | Garbageman: "Dude - that would HURT. Maybe she could penetrate your bladder with her fingernail. Like that idea?"
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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:18:57 PM | Ohhhhh, this is the best thread going! LOL!
Ahhhh, no....you can't "penetrate" the cervix....you CAN however BANG on the door! (most don't have to worry about ever getting that far)
I would seriously dispute the validity of the article you read suggesting that it increases "sensation" in women having trouble orgasming. I strongly recommend at least a good 5 minute orgasm (HERS) BEFORE you go banging on the door, after that....she's not likely to complain if you tear the damn door off the hinges! There's "pain".....and then there's....."ahhhhhhh pain!" LOL! | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:23:52 PM | If you end up penetrating a lady's cervix please take her to a hospital for medical attention. It's not designed to work that way and she will no doubt be bleeding and in a great deal of pain. In the meantime buy yourself one of those cozy little whack off things that looks like a flashlight with a vagina at the end...
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:43:18 PM | Back in the Dark Ages, before the Internet, we kids would gather in alleys and empty garages to trade stories about the “secrets” we had “discovered” concerning sex. One of them i can recall involved a local hooker who had a glass eye. If she liked a guy, she was said to be willing to take out her eye and let the guy fvck her brains out.
OP, is this is how you heard about penetrating a cervix ? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:52:59 PM | This post and thread are painful to read!
Okay,I get the point ladies,and thanks David for sticking up for me.I must add that that article I read was from the 70's, and probably written by a guy who was only in it for profit anyways.Some of the other tips did work very well though.
And just for the record,the girl that wasn't into it, had a child, and worrying about pain wasn't the issue for her, it was more a matter of her not being very adventurous in bed, being impatient and wanting to stick with what we knew worked.
Also,I am not into giving or receiving pain for sexual satisfaction,I posted this out of curiosity only.Thanks for you're responses. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 4:08:56 AM | Call me weird but, I prefer to pleasure my partner. Not impale her.
Ive "bottomed out" by accident a few times and it was painful for both of us. Besides, the best nerve-endings are near the front of the vag. If youre looking for extra fun, concentrate there. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 4:26:53 AM | OP: Clearly, not everyone who claims to be an expert on female anatomy actually IS an expert on female anatomy....so.... Here ya go: From Psychology Today, July 2006.
Pelvic Floor or Vaginal Orgasms
These occur through stimulating the G-spot, or putting pressure on the cervix (the opening into the uterus) and/or the anterior vaginal wall. Located halfway between the pubic bone and the cervix, the sensitive G-spot—named after its discoverer, German physician Ernest Grafenberg—is a mass of spongy tissue that swells when stimulated. Because it's difficult to locate, experts have developed a few guiding techniques:
Lying on her back, the woman tilts her pelvis upward so that her vulva presses flat against her partner's pelvic bone. According to the Bermans, this allows the penis to make contact with the G-spot, simultaneously stimulating the clitoris. Putting pillows beneath her buttocks makes angling her pelvis easier.
Whipple suggests placing two fingers inside the vagina and moving them in a beckoning motion. The fingertips should stroke the frontal vaginal wall, just where the G-spot is located.
Her Benefits
Pain relief: Orgasms help alleviate menstrual cramps. In addition, studies have shown that a woman's pain threshold increases substantially during orgasm.
Enhanced mood: According to University of Virginia researchers, orgasms boost levels of the female sex hormone estrogen, which in turn betters your mood and helps ease premenstrual symptoms. They also release endorphins, the body's natural painkillers and depression fighters.
Increased intimacy: Oxytocin, a hormone that promotes feelings of intimacy, jumps to five times its normal level during climax.
Easier rest: Oxytocin also induces drowsiness. For women, sleepiness comes about 20 to 30 minutes after orgasm. Men, on the other hand, usually drift off after only two to five minutes.
Less stress: Stress in women is highly correlated with arousal difficulties, lack of libido and anorgasmia, the inability to reach orgasm, according to one 1999 study in the Journal of the American Medical Association. Just 20 minutes of intercourse, however, releases the lust-enhancing hormone dopamine, triggering a relaxation response that lasts up to two hours.
From: Pregnancy Resource Center....Charting Fertility cycle:
Cervical Position
During your cycle, your cervix changes position. Monitoring cervical position can help you predict ovulation. Observe your cervical position as a daily part of fertility charting - and you can do this in conjunction with monitoring cervical mucus. Try to examine yourself at the same time every day.
When conducting any self-exam, make sure that your hands are clean. Gently insert one or two fingers into your vagina - and by reaching back you should be able to feel your cervix. During the exam, ask yourself the following questions. Is the position of the cervix relatively low (easy to reach) or high (less easy to reach)? Does the cervix feel relatively soft or firm? Does the opening of the cervix feel open or closed? Is the cervix dry to the touch - or relatively moist - or very moist? Note that the answers to these questions are relative, so over time you will be able to draw better conclusions about cervical position.
Prior to ovulation, during the first half of your cycle, the cervix will feel relatively firm (like touching your nose) and dry to the touch - and the position of the cervix will be low in your vagina (easy to reach). The entrance of the cervix will feel closed. However, as you approach ovulation, the cervix will become increasingly soft and will increasingly moisten in order to create a more fertile environment for the sperm. The entrance of the cervix will feel open and begin to lift. At the highest point, the cervix may be a bit difficult to reach and the entrance of the cervix will increase in size. The feel of your cervix will be softer - like touching your lip. At this point, you are at your most fertile time. Following ovulation, the cervix begins to return to a firmer state and the entrance will begin to close. Also, the position of the cervix will again drop and become easy to reach.
So, there ya go...."and now you have....the rest of the story" (thank you Paul Harvey). The cervix will NOT bleed if you ram into it....unless you're banging a virgin. It is breaking the "hymen" which covers the cervix during the females first sexual act that SOMETIMES (not always) causes bleeding. Even a cervical biopsy causes no more than perhaps a drop of 2 of blood UNLESS there is a serious condition present (like cervical cancer). Also, the cervix has NO feeling. The "pain" that has been described is ACTUALLY caused by jarring the uterus....and if you're a VERY lucky boy...by ramming it into some of her other internal organs, but the cervix itself has no nerve endings (Gawd....as if child bearing weren't painful enough....would we really need hours of having the cervix (which is normally about 1.5 to 2 inches thick) squished paper thin and then dialated to 10 cm. throbbing like a toothache)??? No, not so...the cervix has NO feeling.....it's just like the cork in the bottle.
As the fertility experts will confirm, the cervix does change position during the natural menstrual cycle, perfectly normal. It's just nature's way of helping those little eggs that are screaming to be fertilized be more co-operative with those little sperm that can't read a roadmap. Compare this to when you testes are closer to, or farther from your groin area.
And lastly....as the article from Psychology Today states, the female orgasm does increase her tolerance for "pain", therefore.....like I said.....AFTER she's had a good orgasm...she's probably not going to care if you break the door down....she may even cheer you on  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 4:50:13 AM |
A while back,in an article on sexual techniques, there was a discussion about how to get you're penis inside her cervix.I've never tried it (past gf's wouldn't let me)
Uh... I think you've been given some bad information. Hitting the cervix during sex is not a mood enhancer. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 6:07:18 AM | | I had to cross my legs in order to read this thread......ouch. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 6:15:57 AM | | ha ha ha im laughing my head off here, you cannot penetrate a cervix lol , its impossible and would be absolutley painful if you could, it hurts like hell dilating in childbirth !!! someone is winding that poor guy up !! my advise would be dont even try it or it would be returned by a sharp blow to his balls !!! ha ha .... | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 7:43:09 AM | | I didn't read any of the other posts, but WTF?!? Somebody gave you the wrong info OP ....Penetrating the cervix is impossible unless she is in labor and trust me sex is the last thing on any ladies mind when they are dilated and in pain .....I mean it hurts when a man thrusts hard enough to hit the cervix....Better go back to sex ed | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:03:58 AM | | This'll teach the OP to go asking questions about things he doesn't understand. Better that he keep his misconceptions to himself rather than suffer the ridicule of the educated masses. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:21:57 AM | | That's a bit mean, surely asking about things you are unsure about is better than believing untruths. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:33:17 AM |
That's a bit mean, surely asking about things you are unsure about is better than believing untruths
I completely agree with you luvin guy..... the only ridiculous questions are those that are not asked. Much better to ask and get informed than to go around being completely ignorant on a topic.
OT: While one can't penetrate a womans cervix with his penis, I am one that actually enjoys the sensation of it being rubbed/hit/stimulated once we have really picked up the pace and gotten things going.... especially the feeling of him sitting right up against it, staying deep and just moving it a wee bit.... oh yeah..... for me that feels amazing. ~sigh~
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Posted: 8/7/2008 8:31:01 AM | No, no to trying to penetrate the cervix!
I love it when a man thrusts deep and hits my cervix. There is a tiny moment of pain and I like that. Once my partner gets to know me sexually he knows what I mean when I whisper "hurt me baby" during sex.
My current bed partner like to pin my legs back and thrust deep over and over again..."bottoming out" and hitting my cervix repeatedly and making me scream. Last night it felt go good and hurt so bad I wasn't sure I could take it anymore...I'm sure the neighbors MUST have heard me screaming. LOL | |
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Posted: 8/7/2008 8:45:49 AM | | I think the OP just started this thread to brag, subtly, about his penis size. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2008 8:58:13 AM |
This post and thread are painful to read!
Very. I'm sorry to have opened it and am happy to no longer have a cervix.  | |
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