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 Professional Lurker

Joined: 4/26/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:20:16 PM
Couldn't they just seek out menopausal women with no AstroGlide? Yesh, talk about a self serving practice. Hopefully the people who are practicing this learn how to enjoy sex with a woman who is aroused and liking the experience.
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:27:42 PM
There is a great deal of evidence indicating that Homo sapiens originated in Africa.
This topic helps to explain why many of them choose to leave.
 Kickin Back 2008

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 11:08:50 PM
Wow, I had not heard of this and I am literally nauseated. I could not imagine a guy telling me that my normal body function and reaction from arousal was something he would like to rid me of. Once again...WOW! How unsettling to know this. I am sure they have their reasoning and they actually see this as a good practice, believing it serves their purpose just fine. I am just thankful that our society has not become accustom to this practice. I don't know many males or females that would find pleasure with this. There is a reason our body creates lubrication. It enhances the feel and helps protect from many infections, not just due to STDs. It may not be as painful to a man because of his anatomy, as his foreskin moves and may become irritated, but most likely would not rip and things of that nature.

Then again, has anyone seen what is out there in America? People are into some painful and sick stuff. I guess if they are willing to do it and it suits their fancy, who am I to judge? It's different when you are forced though, I must say. But this goes to show that everyone is once again into and willing to do anything to achieve pleasure.......
 Calysta

Joined: 3/29/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 11:16:34 PM

Just don't have sex for 6 months and the girl will be back to being tight as if she's a virgin


You don't even have to wait that long if the girl knows how to squeeze her muscles down there.

How do you think women tighten back up after giving birth...We do "exercises" lol

Well at least I do
 Loz Hunter

Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 7/2/2008 2:09:57 AM
Isn't it a clue to a man that if she is dry as a kleenex tissue then she is not aroused? By not aroused meaning, 'she' dont like you matey bugger off, and the woman may be changing her mind too,
 robw23

Joined: 4/30/2008
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Posted: 7/2/2008 2:35:58 AM
why would anyone with half a brain even respond to a thread when it is obvious they are just taking the piss???? jeez, u might as well make love to a wooden fence with a knothole in it! some people need to get a life! sheesh
 Tim61

Joined: 3/2/2007
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Posted: 7/2/2008 3:34:19 AM
OMG !!! NO Way !!! you have got to get your woman sexually eroused and wet before you decidd to make love, These Africans have no idea of what making love & having Great sex is all about don't they ever think about their partners how uncomfortabl;e they would feel ? if for themselves too .

I mush prefer to get my girl nice & wet before we get dowwn to having good sex, best for the both of us to enjoy.

Give me Wet sae any day

Tim
 navywave

Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/4/2008 6:34:58 AM
Boy nemo, are you mis informed. SO, by your theory, a woman who has been screwed by 300 times if you leave her alone for 6 months she will be as tight as a virgin.? Not with out a helluva lot of kiegel exercises
 LowRiderBABE

Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/4/2008 6:48:39 AM
what is the meaning of dry sex....really...cause for me the dryer the better..cause you can feel the penetration alot better...
 MrCappy

Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:00:28 PM
Dry sex sounds bad n painfull ,,, my advice for the Khalhari Bushmen is , no lube shes dry , spit on box , nature gave u salive for many reasons , this is one of them ..... when do these people have time for sex , i only ever see the looking for water , food , firewood ?
 Jeff_21740

Joined: 6/26/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:11:31 PM
Come on.... Seriously???? Who in the hell wants to have dried up friction sex? For that matter how can you? If it isnt wet I have to agree that the woman either isnt into IT or isnt into YOU... move along.
 Angus Og

Joined: 8/1/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:20:08 PM
I can't say for sure but I imagine "dry sex" is practiced by guys with tiny ****s. I mean... If they are so small their widdle weewee is like a blade of grass in a box car then I suppose they might want to dry that su*ker out in hopes of acquiring some stimulation? Ya think?

Other wise I'd have to say the practitioners of such behavior are nothing less than sadistic. Can you imagine the pain?
 Angus Og

Joined: 8/1/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2008 12:23:15 PM

she is not aroused? By not aroused meaning, 'she' dont like you matey bugger off,


That explains it
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Posted: 7/7/2008 3:44:47 PM
seeing as a number of replies seem to have missed the OPs original point lets read it again class.


Dry sex is a sexual practice of minimizing vaginal secretions by using intravaginal desiccants, by wiping out the vagina, or by other methods before and during sexual intercourse, thus making the woman's vagina dry and tight. The practice is supposed to generate extra sensation for the man during intercourse but may be painful or uncomfortable for the woman. The practice is common in Sub-Saharan Africa and is of concern as it increases the chances of transmitting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) including AIDS, due to vaginal tearing.

Furthermore, the practice of dry sex is generally incompatible with the use of condoms (which require lubrication to avoid breakage). It may also result in vaginal inflammation and/or traumatic lesions which in turn may increase the transmission of STDs in other ways.


I think some responses have been somewhat dismissive of the true subject nature, namely that women in some countries around the world have yet to achieve equality with their menfolk and subsquently get used as sex objects and chattels regardless of the results i.e in this case possibly intense discomfort for the women short term and greater risk of infection spread long term amongst the population.

While few people would say that any western society has yet reached perfection with sexual equality given differences in provision of health care for women for example, or lack of childcare narrowing further education and employment prospects, however the OPs example is a fairly extreme example not much less repugent then the taliban's habit of stoning to death rape victims for having sex outside of marriage.

So it would be nice to see responses that reflect the seriousness instead of the usual flippant throwaways that reveal certain individuals preoccupation with self. However, the real purpose of these forums is not to engineer social change but to allow the unwary to expose their prejudices and immaturity to the watchful, adding another team exercise to the selection process. So maybe I should throw some more rope into the pit.
end of rag.

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 xdamianax

Joined: 5/27/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 3:50:38 PM
OK... I'm one who likes a bit of pain with my pleasure... I only have one word for this though...

OUCH????
 Ilovetotravel

Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 7/7/2008 5:11:06 PM
Same here. But, some women take longer to get excited. Have to prime longer. Foreplay, and more foreplay! That's the trick!
 Love-Hate

Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/7/2008 7:12:23 PM
When a girl gets circumcised, basically everything is cut off except for the two outer lips and the both are sewn together and a hole the size of a match stick head is left for urine to trickle out. Having sex is excrutiating and therefore only done with one's spouse. Sex is also very dry as all pleasure zones have been cut off.So it goes without saying that the only person who enjoys this is the man.I lived in Sub-Saharan Africa and seen this practise many , many times.
 Love-Hate

Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 7/7/2008 7:16:36 PM
When you say "these Africans" you tend to include the entire continent. There are countries where both partners enjoy sex on equal terms. But then you have to remember, that in most of Africa the men are still considered way way superior to the women. Women are generally there to please the men, with no exceptions to sexual activities.
 ButterfliesLuv

Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/9/2008 7:46:34 AM
I agree.. the more foreplay the better.... and, ice cubes are fun.....
 BaldyisBeautiful

Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2008 8:23:10 AM
OUCH, OUCH, OUCH --- F*CKING OUCH! And not just for the woman either!

*singing* You got ta lick it before ya stick it!
 soul-whisperer

Joined: 6/13/2008
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Posted: 7/14/2008 7:20:12 AM
Lack of moisture is not nessecarily due to lack of interest... some women are naturally dry, or have hormone problems or your technique is rubbish but I believe it may have been started cos the men probably thought- less moisture, less stuff to infect me with/ less likely to get pregnant something along those lines...
 Blonde_charm

Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 7/14/2008 7:29:20 AM
Only one person I had dry sex with and I think one poster mentioned the reason... he didn't turn me on. No foreplay or consideration, (yes my fault too since I realized I wasn't that turned on) so let him go.

Now... the wetter the better.
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