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I'm a very creative person, letting my creative juices flow through my paintings, pictures, and stories. I'm also very visual, as I am mostly deaf, but can hear some aplified sounds. I have two adorable kids, who live at home most of the time. I place high importance and my friendships, and as such, am very loyal to those who become important to me in my life.

Did I mention I had a sense of humor yet? Well, I know what you're thinking, and I have no problems with deafness; there's a lot to be said for getting a good night's sleep! But before you start thinking of the great advantages you could have here, such as sneaking an extra cookie or blurting out your ex's name, you will find that I have a very sharp eye and am an expert lipreader. OK, maybe not in the dark, so you might have that advantage! Whispering sweet nothings to me are really.... nothing. And lest I "talk", or sign in my sleep, you could wake up with a black eye or bruised arms from fending off my "conversations". If you get that far....

I mentioned earlier about some of my creative work, most of it is documentary, about my perception of sound and light. I've enjoyed traveling across the country to exhibit my work. I also love going to the beach, but not always when everyone else is. I can appreciate stormy weather, now and then, just as I do a beautiful day.

I think I would be most compatible with a man who has a great sense of humor, sense of adventure, and good communication skills.

Interests, About Me, First Date.
I'm going to point you back to the first post in this thread, it's got some good info. Read it all, and make some changes!

I like to do the things most wouldnt on a first date. Dependeing on the person,

I have some friends at the akron zoo and Im sure I could get me and a guest in behind the scenes for a private guided tour.

Look there are many things that we could do but it realy depends on the person and weather ither of us have to be anywhere at a certain time.

I'm a very innovative person, letting my creative juices flow through my paintings, photography, and stories. I am very visual, which makes sense as I am profoundly deaf. I wear hearing aids most of the time, but they only amplify some sounds. I both lipread and sign, and thanks to a few years of singing lessons, I have excellent speaking skills.

I work in a museum and, more specifically, with young children. While teaching can be boring at times, the kids are always delightful and then there are the "AHA!" moments that make my day. Public speaking is also a passion, raising funds for kids. It nicely combines my writing and communication skills for a good cause. My artwork has taken a backseat to my family and career life at this moment, but BC (before children) it had enjoyed packing itself into suitcases and travelling around the country in national exhibit tours, with or without me.

I have two adorable kids who live at home most of the time. I place high importance to my family and my friendships, and as such, am very loyal to those who become close to me in my life. My children, who are KODA's (Kids of Deaf Adults) know the full advantages of deafness, or rather, their benefits. Sneaking an extra cookie, blaring the TV, and playing the drums at night are probably on their list. But I haven't yet found them out, despite my sharp eye and astute sixth sense of "something's up!", or intuition. As far as I know, they are perfectly well behaved, thanks to the previously mentioned singing lessons. No doubt they view my opera outbursts as cruel and unusual, and probably prefer that I implicate the more traditional "you're grounded" disciplinary tactics.

My "fifth sense" is, naturally, my sense of humor. I love playing on words and the catching the little absurdities of life. I enjoy finding others who are fun to be around, and who are also comfortable with themselves, and intelligent.

A fun first date could be over coffee or dinner, to get acquainted and then find something to do. But don't ask me for "walks on the beach" unless you want me to do all the talking. Instead, a visit to the beach would be great, to hang out and enjoy ourselves. I love the ocean, especially when it's less populated. I also appreciate it during stormy weather, now and then, just as I do on a beautiful day.

Life was meant to be lived. Ive been everywhere from the busy streets of London, to the tropical paradise that is Diego Garcia, to the sandy desert of Oman. Know what I found out? Life is passion. Anything you do, you must be passionate about. That is all that is required to be happy.

Go google Mark Twain quotes.

So, to summarize: Funny, Intelligent, Well Traveled, Down to Earth, Honest.

It really does depend on the person. If my date was a big fan of movies, dinner and a movie would be a good fit, with a trip down to a Coldstone afterward for some amazing ice cream and good conversation. Dinner and then a trip to go wine tasting would also be a fantastic first date. I prefer to plan out several options, then have the date pick out which one to go on. That way, it is guaranteed that the date will be enjoyed by all.

I'm a very innovative person, letting my creative juices flow through my paintings, photography, and stories. I am very visual, which makes sense as I am profoundly deaf. I wear hearing aids most of the time, but they only amplify some sounds. I both lipread and sign, and thanks to a few years of singing lessons, I have excellent speaking skills.

I work in a museum and, more specifically, with young children. While teaching can be boring at times, the kids are always delightful and then there are the "AHA!" moments that make my day. Public speaking is also a passion, raising funds for kids. It nicely combines my writing and communication skills for a good cause. My artwork has taken a backseat to my family and career life at this moment, but BC (before children) it had enjoyed packing itself into suitcases and travelling around the country in national exhibit tours, with or without me.

I have two adorable kids who live at home most of the time. I place high importance to my family and my friendships, and as such, am very loyal to those who become close to me in my life. My children, who are KODA's (Kids of Deaf Adults) know the full advantages of deafness, or rather, their benefits. Sneaking an extra cookie, blaring the TV, and playing the drums at night are probably on their list. But I haven't yet found them out, despite my sharp eye and astute sixth sense of "something's up!", or intuition. As far as I know, they are perfectly well behaved, thanks to the previously mentioned singing lessons. No doubt they view my opera outbursts as cruel and unusual, and probably prefer that I implicate the more traditional "you're grounded" disciplinary tactics.

My "fifth sense" is, naturally, my sense of humor. I love playing on words and the catching the little absurdities of life. I enjoy finding others who are fun to be around, and who are also comfortable with themselves, and intelligent.

A fun first date could be over coffee or dinner, to get acquainted and then find something to do. But don't ask me for "walks on the beach" unless you want me to do all the talking. Instead, a visit to the beach would be great, to hang out and enjoy ourselves. I love the ocean, especially when it's less populated. I also appreciate it during stormy weather, now and then, just as I do on a beautiful day.

The man I would like to meet must also have a sense of humor and good communication skills. Someone who has a positive outlook and is respectful of others. Highly intelligent men also appeal to me, though the degree level does not matter as much as personal accomplishments and being grounded. Someone who is a hard worker but also knows how to relax and have fun. Appreciation for the "finer" things in life that can include the offbeat and unexpected at times. And lastly, but not least, a man who can care for himself but likes to both give and be cared for.

If you like, I'll leave the snake in the cage, but he's very lovable.

I can enjoy a conversation about nearly anything and admire intelligence along with some goofiness.

Some girlyness is required but not a lot. Confidence is always great.

I'm a sucker for green or hazel eyes and girls that are short but there is still beauty in all the others.

I enjoy someone affectionate and doing things they like.

I know if I enjoy what they want they'll enjoy what I like.

Most of the time though it won't matter as long as my time is spent with someone worthwhile.

I have my priorities in line along with goals. When I have the inspiration I like expressing my self with poetry/writing. If you like I'll show you some of what I've written.

Don't worry about any lies or BS, I'm not that kind of guy. Just be your self, be real, tell the truth and if anything is meant to be or happen it will.

I might be soft but I can be the bad boy at the same time ;) I'm very real about everything in my profile and would like to find someone equally enjoyable.

You can find me on aol AIM & Y! IM at 'Etangorf' and also at w w w my space com/ etangorf

Hi,

*I prefer distance from Ann Arbor or South Lyon of 50 miles or less. Much farther is simply too difficult to really get to know someone.
***I "could" lie here about my age, like most people seem to be doing.... But I didn't. I really DO look like my pics, most are recent and I am very active!
I'm honest almost to a fault, and affectionate and hope you value those in a relationship as well.Write me... I'm off now for the summer! :)
**NOTE: I am tall,5'8", I prefer that you are 5'9" or taller(w/o shoes) , non smoker, I can't handle the smell of smoke, and single/ divorced.

Hey I'd love a review! I know I have the qualities that most women would like in a relationship and I'm confident about my looks but nothing seems to be working for me on this site. I have talked to a couple of people but I cant seem to get any good 'bites'. If anyone else would like to give me their opinion I would appreciate the look. I keep my method of 1st contact is simple. I normally just say hi, make a compliment to them, and ask if they would like to chat. I know my pics aren't the greatest but I don't have much else to post.

Totally useless. You're given way too much credit. I've made my own changes and I'm doing well so reconsider the 'advice' you are giving out. A piece of advice to you, get a colonoscopy and ask the Dr to not put your head back afterwards. Don't even bother responding.

c) Main Pic - With the brown shirt, you can't even see the snake in the thumbnail.
Pictures - You only have two, they the both look almost exactly alike. I'll leave my comments at that.

nothing seems to be working for me on this site

I'm doing well

I am a web designer and programmer, and I love what I do. Unfortunately, although the work pays well, nobody seems to want to hire web designers full time these days, so I reluctantly work as an independent contractor.

[standing on soapbox... cue sappy vote-for-me music]

Look... I know a lot of you have been burned by jerks who only seem to have one thing on their minds. I assure you, I'm not shallow--I just want to learn about the whole you. What color are your eyes? Do you have a beautiful smile? Do you really own a Harley? It honestly doesn't matter what you look like to me, but there is something to be said for attraction. If you don't find me attractive, then I fully expect you to keep looking. Don't be ashamed of who you are -- be real, be honest, and you will attract people who like you for who you are, not for some fake ideal of what you think people want.

[/climbing off soapbox, missing and falling flat on my face. Cut the music!!!]