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 yarimelma

Joined: 5/4/2008
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/2/2008 4:47:32 PM

I have been hooking up with this guy for several months.



I am dating other men and not waiting



he is much younger


haha!!
I'd be surprised, if it did work..
 The Artful Codger

Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/2/2008 4:53:29 PM

What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?

I blame the cherubic archer:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WTJ2tGhJl4


 75october09

Joined: 4/18/2008
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Posted: 7/2/2008 5:14:30 PM
OP

I think you are moving too fast for this guy I would talk to him and ask him how he feels.
I can;t say for sure if he is trying to play but again its best to have a talk.
Remember us guy don't mature as fast as women.
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/2/2008 5:35:11 PM
^^^^^

I think you are moving too fast for this guy I would talk to him and ask him how he feels.

VVVV

I have been hooking up with this guy for several months

Sounds to me like the guy has had waaaaaaay tooooooo much time.
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2008 9:31:17 PM
3beckhams

You inavertibly explain to us in your post that your relationship is based on .... SEX.

(1) "Been hooking up (aka: sex) with him for several months.
(2) When he is with you -- you have the best time --- (sexually?)
(3) We had another fantastic night after that (Sex)

Wow ~ you really sound like a gal to he will want to bring home to meet mom, pop and the entire family!
What is wrong with you? Dont you realise sex will attract a male but cannot cement the relationship with him. You have to make yourself desirable other than under sheets.

You must start viewing yourself as something more than an object for a couple of hours.

What makes a man FALL IN LOVE with a female?
It usually happens once HE ADMIRES HER FOR HER QUALITIES AS A HUMAN and not simply a sextoy!

Seriously think about investing on locating a book that will enable you to improve your "self image"!
 JasonGrimm

Joined: 6/9/2008
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Posted: 7/3/2008 12:38:11 AM
If you sitting on your bike doesn't do it for him, I think he's hopeless.


I was thinking the same thing! Who is this guy?? Cute, nice, and a bike, I'd marry you if you lived nearby! I love bikes. I was thinking of buying a Gsxr750.

Seriously though, I don't think I personally ask for much but it seems hard to come by where I live these days.

Cute, honest, good heart, loving, intilligent, and the ability to work together as a team in life and communicate with each other.

All you have to do is communicate with him. I don't see your age as a problem. I've gone out with woman much older then me.
 spiderette

Joined: 6/28/2008
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Posted: 7/3/2008 1:02:08 AM
the real and most succinct answer is: put the shoe on the other (i.e. your own) foot. what makes you fall in love? it's pretty well the same things for men. slight differences due to raging hormones (men are a bit more visual and women are a bit more concerned with whether the man is a good 'provider', but both want decent looking and not flagrant bums lol), but other than that, very few differences, generally speaking. if the other person meets most of your hidden agenda, you're gonna be nuts for that person, no? let's just hope it's mutual!!!
 CuriousCandy

Joined: 6/25/2008
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Posted: 7/3/2008 3:55:41 AM
If it felt right, you would not have to ask the forum.

Always go with your gut - seems as if you know that you got played.

It is probably bet to move on - there is a great guy out there for you, and the longer you dewll on your experiences with the MIA guy, the longer you are keeping Mr. Right away.
 75october09

Joined: 4/18/2008
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Posted: 7/3/2008 7:55:14 AM
TheGoodMan,

I wasn't talking about me LOL
 3beckhams

Joined: 6/12/2008
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Posted: 7/3/2008 2:51:58 PM
Thanks to all, I am never contacting him again and I have learned my lesson about asking too much of someone that is not willing to give. I am a great catch that just got caught up in the moment. As for the ***hole that said he had a book for me to read, this was not just sex we were very close at one time.
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:13:39 PM
You stick to that story sweetie!

Cant wait to read your next plea for group guidance with yet another one of your sex hook ups stories in the not too distant upcoming months!
 3beckhams

Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 7/4/2008 5:18:47 AM
I would exspect that response from a man that is on a dating site becuase he is not getting any. Relax dude, take your anger someplace else.
 eyesofdeepblue

Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 7/4/2008 5:27:17 AM
Zentimes -

Vous ne vous comportez pas comme un adulte. L'attaque des gens est inutile, aussi bien que très immature. Partez OP seul.
 Brokensmile2

Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 7/4/2008 5:59:56 AM
Sound`s like your though plane and his are of course not the same. if a man is in..than hes in , dont chase him...he has to come to you, than you will know, he sounds mixed up, but maybe hes not...maybe i am...lol.. I can only speak for myself of couse, but, if it was me and i felt that way toward`s a women nothing would hold me back,,but im the type of guy where its all......or nothing, all in. some men dont play cards that way.. they are affraid to jump all in, whats his background? has he been hurt? and only want`s one leg in and one leg out, so he dosent go thru that again..? or.....or....lol ,he just maybe unsettled in his maturity and really dosent know what the heck he wants...yet. I cant stand women who are unsettled and want to but yet do not...gezzzzz.. somebody make up their mind...lol
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 Caleta26

Joined: 10/28/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2008 7:41:19 AM
Telling the truth at all cost.... Is a turn on
 pokerjimmy

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Posted: 7/4/2008 10:26:56 AM
I don't have time to waste because this is my last one.

He's not into you. He'll bang you...end of story. You think I'm wrong, but you'll find I'm not which is why YOU'RE confused, but I'm not.

Want to know about a man. ONLY look at his actions and ignore his words. Okay...looking at JUST his actions...is he into you?????? LOL
 eyesofdeepblue

Joined: 5/8/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:04:21 PM
Caleta,

Drawing sunglasses on a photo using a black Sharpie Marker looks wacky. Turned on now?
 Vancer

Joined: 10/29/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:09:57 PM
I don't think Caleta's sunglasses look whacky.
They are very cool looking. Plus he likes potato. He is being honest is all.
Anyone who doesn't have sharpie drawn sunglasses and can't admit to liking potato is whacky.
 Higmo

Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:10:03 PM
Sometimes even the guy doesn't know why it doesn't work. even though you think you may be a good fit for him, none of us can get inside the others head to see or feel what their thought processes are or their emotions. You may want to consider making yourself a little less available, not to play games, but you can test if he's there at his whim and convenience..or he simply wants the thrill of the chase....good luck!javascript:smilie('')
 eyesofdeepblue

Joined: 5/8/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:08:27 PM
Strait_up...

How many times have you given your heart away during your complimentary "photo shoots" ?

Be strait _up with us....Mr. I am always looking for new stars in my night sky
 zebra210

Joined: 11/23/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:51:10 PM
If you want him to be in love with you, so you can control him, the key is to give him frequent, excellent, BJ's. This is what makes a man fall in love with a woman.

Ever wonder why an ugly girl has a handsome man? Same reason.

If you want to keep him, make it impossible for him to leave.
 pnayplayr

Joined: 12/17/2005
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Posted: 7/5/2008 7:35:46 AM
*not a guy*

but this actually reminds me of my bf. after 2 yrs now, we still don't talk everyday of the wk. when we're together it's "amazing", but from the day we started dating, he doesn't always give me a ring on a regular basis. i just got used to it by now. lol!

he brings me to his work gatherings, sometimes i help him *at work*. his family all loves me, and so does his friends, so i know just because he's not calling me he's not interested or banging some chick. so ya...either he's that *kind* of a guy, or he's not that interested.
 HGSS

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Posted: 7/5/2008 9:37:34 AM
Funny question to ask if you've been on here for any length of time ... they have to be willing to meet you first, but then if you agree -- they'll cancel out knowing you'll see them for who they really are ... so what makes a guy fall in love with a girl? ... I had hoped being open & honest would at least get them to meet but obviously that's not what they are looking for in a woman ... so your guess is as good as mine ...
 Friendlione

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Posted: 7/5/2008 11:29:32 AM
It has been my personal experience that women always seem to desire to spend more time together than I do. It doesn't mean that I don't like the girl. It doesn't mean that I don't want to keep seeing her. It doesn't mean that I don't like calling. I simply find that meeting once a weekend or even once every other weekend is sufficient. Perhaps nothing gives. He might just require more space than you do.
 kazlucky7

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Posted: 7/5/2008 12:45:43 PM
its a game of give and take
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