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 kazlucky7

Joined: 5/16/2008
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/5/2008 12:45:43 PM
its a game of give and take
 HGSS

Joined: 1/4/2008
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/5/2008 5:16:43 PM
A game of give & take ... not likely ... more the girl giving of time & energy ... the guy taking ... until she realizes it ... & he wonders why he's by himself ... go figures ...
 gladysca

Joined: 2/21/2008
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/5/2008 5:46:38 PM
I HAVE HAD THE SAME EXPERIENCE OR SOME WHAT OF THE SAME...ALL I KNOW IS EVERYTIME IT'S A REAL LET DOWN BUT YOU HAVE TO TELL YOURSELF NOT TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR PEOPLE BEING RUDE, NOT TO BE TO MUCH IN SOMEONE ELSES SHOES SO THAT YOUR BUMPING YOUR HEAD TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT AND TO REALIZE THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT PEOPLE... SO PUSH ON SISTER...LIFE GOES ON AND TREAT YOURSELF BETTER AND MAKE FOLKS DO THE SAME GIRLFRIEND!!!!!
 3beckhams

Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 54
What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:51:25 PM
amen, thanks, now how do you delete this whole thread off of here, i realized it makes me look really bad if I ever want to meet a good guy!
 kissedbythesun

Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 55
What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:55:47 PM
More than likely, he's exploring his options and does not want the attachment (right now). He can probably tell you're falling for him.

My advise is to use your own intuition...what is it telling you? Also try not to be so "available" everytime he feels like giving you some time. Discipline yourself, as men can appreciate a challenge sometimes. Good Luck.
 The_garbageman

Joined: 12/21/2007
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:10:02 PM

amen, thanks, now how do you delete this whole thread off of here, i realized it makes me look really bad if I ever want to meet a good guy!


You can ask a mod. But it's easier to delete your profile and start over from scratch. I wouldn't worry too much about this thread though. Guys just mainly look at your pics and not all the stuff you write in the forums. I once asked out a woman who called herself black widow and who talked about fun ways to torture her lovers before killing them. She had great pics though!
 acook001

Joined: 2/11/2007
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:57:17 AM
I have been hooking up with this guy for several months. When he is with me we have the best time and he loves being with me.
Once he lied to get out of a date with me and the next time I spoke with him he made an amends and told me he lied becuase he got scared. We had another fantstic night after that. He text me and tells me he thinks about me but has not contacted me in several days. What gives, I really like him when we are together we are an amazing fit.

Well you can't force anyone to fall in love with you, I think. I think it just has to happen. Has to be the right person. The puzzle pieces have to fit. He's probably having a tough time knowing what to do or what to say. I've been like that. Who talks more when you're together? If it's him, then maybe you should take control of the conversations sometimes to let him rest a little. Don't make him do anything he's not comfortable doing. I went dancing with a woman one time and it was very uncomfortable for me because I didn't know what I was doing. Even if he says ok to one of your requests you've got to read him right. Is he really ok with this, or is he just doing it to try to please you? If it's the second case then he'll probably be uncomfortable doing it and associate that discomfort with you, which is bad, of course. Just try to make him feel comfortable around you and I think if you succeed at that he'll have less reason to be afraid. And remember not to push him or go too fast. That's what I think.
 Iamfancy

Joined: 9/14/2006
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/6/2008 3:34:07 AM
Many people believe that the hot body and goodlooks is all we need to find "Love" but then you see him/her with someone not as attractive as you. What did she/he have that I didn'nt? Too much eagerness. I don't mean this to you personally. But that is a possible reason. He turned on the charm and you fell for it like we all do, women and men! There is no answer to your question, maybe he is just a good player?! But keep trekking on and looking. You are hot, so forget him and get out there and show off your hotness!
 gentlemanforLady

Joined: 6/24/2008
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:16:58 AM
a combination of nurturing qualities and strength. she is strong yet nurturing too.
 borntoski683

Joined: 4/28/2008
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What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?
Posted: 7/6/2008 3:43:14 PM
Its only been a few days. Don't freak out. Just give it time and let what ever is going to happen...happen.
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