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 guys4theforums

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:01:33 AM
MSG#1,mysticalcatlady wrote:Why won't he give me his phone number, and what should I do now?
Yes something seems pretty fishie to want to meet and actually stay at your house yet hasn't talked to you on the phone and refuses to give out his number. But then again there's been a time or two I wished I'd never have given my number out. Due to late night phone calls at 2 or 3 AM and them be drunk on the other end. Or calling tooooooooooo much when they should have already figured out the calls are not real welcome even tho I was still polite to them.
Then from the other side of the table below
This was his response, "Well I wonder why he would say that..and the fact he thinks its not wise I stay with you if I were to visit..i went thru a relationship before where siblings ruled the roost..i won't do that again..i'm to old for that s_ _ _ _."
I've seen this before where a womans kids was the boss and out of control. It never works out. You really should not have told your guy friend your son said anything.But on the other hand did you ask your sons advice? Or did he simply push his opinion on you as in a controling gesture as if he's not going to allow your guy friend come stay with you?
My opinion, I would trust my own instincts.But in my other opinion I would never let someone come to my house if they wouldn't even call me on the phone. Kind of a one way fishie street if you as me. I agree with an earlier poster on here. "Run Forrest Run"
 forumbuddy

Joined: 2/21/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:25:38 AM
OP: block him and forget him.
You deserve a man who can at the very least TALK TO YOU!

Then go get yourself a copy of "He's just not that into you"
 Catinka2008

Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 7/9/2008 12:10:47 PM
Whatever the case, he's being misguided and rude in thinking you would have him stay in your home when you hardly know him. Please be careful.
 Sunshyne276

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/9/2008 12:20:17 PM
Has he said why he hasn't called you or given you his number?

#1 - If you don't know each other well enough to exchange numbers, you don't know each other well enough for him to stay in your home!!

#2 - His defensive response definitely raises a red flag to me! You have the right to express your concerns.

If it were me.. I would simply tell him that I have some thinking to do, i'm not sure where things are going, or should be going.

His defensive response to your concern could mean he DOES have something to hide. Or, it could mean that he has a bad attitude.. Or both.

Be cautious with him.
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