MSG#1,mysticalcatlady wrote:Why won't he give me his phone number, and what should I do now?
Yes something seems pretty fishie to want to meet and actually stay at your house yet hasn't talked to you on the phone and refuses to give out his number. But then again there's been a time or two I wished I'd never have given my number out. Due to late night phone calls at 2 or 3 AM and them be drunk on the other end. Or calling tooooooooooo much when they should have already figured out the calls are not real welcome even tho I was still polite to them.
Then from the other side of the table below
This was his response, "Well I wonder why he would say that..and the fact he thinks its not wise I stay with you if I were to visit..i went thru a relationship before where siblings ruled the roost..i won't do that again..i'm to old for that s_ _ _ _."
I've seen this before where a womans kids was the boss and out of control. It never works out. You really should not have told your guy friend your son said anything.But on the other hand did you ask your sons advice? Or did he simply push his opinion on you as in a controling gesture as if he's not going to allow your guy friend come stay with you?
My opinion, I would trust my own instincts.But in my other opinion I would never let someone come to my house if they wouldn't even call me on the phone. Kind of a one way fishie street if you as me. I agree with an earlier poster on here. "Run Forrest Run"