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Posted: 7/3/2008 12:17:47 PM | I think it' completely normal to like the woman being in control;
My kinda man
Women have too much power as it is. DONT GIVE THEM ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 7/3/2008 12:29:21 PM | "Not my kinda man"
Damn! Got it wrong again...  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 1:34:13 PM | There are so many on here with the "my kink is ok, yours is not ok" mindset. There is absolutely nothing wrong with power exchange as long as both partners are happy with the arrangement.
If your girlfriend isn't into the sexual fantasies that you have, I think maybe you would be better off finding someone who shares the same kinks. After marriage is NOT the time to go looking for your hearts desire because you can no longer stand going without having your fantasies fulfilled.
You would be amazed at the number of people who are into as much if not more than you are. The BDSM community is easier to get involved with than you think. Google for BDSM munch groups in your area. Most meet at least once a month for lunches and would give you the opportunity to meet others who share your desires.
Happy fishing
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Posted: 7/3/2008 1:36:52 PM | | Being open minded doesn't mean being willing to do things one doesn't want to do. It means not judging people who are into doing different things. I certainly don't get off to things you mentioned, but I don't think much about it either way if others do. Regardless, your idea of what is ``normal'' is your personal definition. ``Normal'' is what the ``average'' person does, i.e., falls within 1 sigma of the mean. There is probably room for dispute as to exactly what that means, but I wouldn't expect women who are into the things you list to be the rule, rather than the exception. That is not a value judgment. It's simply the way it is. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 1:40:41 PM |
There are so many on here with the "my kink is ok, yours is not ok" mindset. There is absolutely nothing wrong with power exchange as long as both partners are happy with the arrangement.
Thank you, well stated! 
~OP~ Just be who you are. You don't need anyone to understand "who" you are except the person you choose to be understood by. There isn't a soul on this planet that doesn't have his/her own quirks. Whether that be in the bedroom or out. Personally ~ your interests wouldn't work in my private life, but mine most likely wouldn't work in many people's private lives. I don't give a ratz-azz about anyone but the one man in my life and myself on this topic! You'll find someone who likes exactly what you like, until then, don't cower to the masses. JMO  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 1:57:39 PM | ok seeing as th3 bard and bigshrek are too shy to tell you, I'll tell you where to go. alt.com is the world's biggest site for people into dbsm.
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sorry, bigshrek tells me it's bdsm | |
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Posted: 7/3/2008 3:33:34 PM | When you have fetishes such as these, you should discuss this sooner than later. Before you commit to each other.
It is important to discuss these things before it leads to "wasted time".
Make a checklist and suggest to your partners that they do the same. Then you can have fun going over the list and remember to both speak open and honestly about it.
Some people are going to accept it and some won't. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:39:36 PM |
I wish more women were open- minded
OK Charles, so a woman has to beat you with a cat o' 9 tails or rape your rectum (damn near killed 'em!) or cut you and suck out your blood or pee on you to have an open mind?
YOU, my good man, are the one with a closed mind. Not everybody is a weirdo, and YOU need to be accepting of THAT.
I hate closed-minded doofuses (doofii?) | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 12:00:50 AM | For those that are getting the freakies about a strap on, it doesn't mean the guy is gay, but rather has learned where his G spot is.
HOWEVER, as stated many times, these things are not for all, and that is ok.
His gf left, cause it wasn't her gig, and she thought he was out of his mind, well that is ok too, cause if she felt that way, and he was really into it, then it wouldn't work.
There are a lot of extremely kicky and out of the ordinary things people seem to get a big turn on with, which I guess is what makes the world an interesting place.
I don't think it is a bad thing to request gently, trying something a tad out of the ordinary, however as stated for some that is the end of the road, because it is way to creepy for them.
Thus there are groups that a person can indulge their fetishes. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 6:47:49 AM |
As for obtaining valid opinions on your question from anyone within this forum; I suggest for you to look into your heart & disreguard the judgemental opinions that will be placed in response to your honest post.
loved this, zen, not just in reference to this post/thread, but in general when dealing with these forums
OP, i do believe strongly that people need to communicate their needs and desires to their partner, and you attempted to do that.......i think the timing was unfortunate....this is the type of discussion that needs to occur when clothes are on and sex is not on the immediate docket
i'm sorry that you were humiliated when you expressed your true desires........so many people say all they want is for their partner to be honest and communicate.......then when you do and you are humiliated by it, i can see how that prevents you from wanting to try again...
i wish you the best, OP | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:27:13 AM | | I don't permit, allow, or encourage women to use me as a human toilet. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:44:57 AM | Better to be pissed on than pissed off?  | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 9:28:13 AM |
i'm sorry that you were humiliated when you expressed your true desires........
So he got what he wanted, yeah! | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 10:13:45 AM | | i have friends who are into similar things and its hard for them to find someone who does go with it...i don't really get it either why some enjoy it but eh each to there own....i did try it all but it wasn't for me....but ur woman who left ya sounds like she was closed minded to the sexual end of things....just find someone who likes that part of u | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 10:48:29 AM | | I guess it's hard for a woman to understand.I love having a woman humiliate me.Either spitting or peeing on me or humiliating me in some way.I love feeling submissive to a woman. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 2:53:33 PM | sorry, I am too old style for that. The man drives, the woman enjoys the scenery. But no peeing, spitting , or Peccatum Sodomiticum of any sort.
And I am a very open minded woman. But I like to keep some grace and dignity, thanks.
Either spitting or peeing on me or humiliating me in some way Are you sick??? You need a visit to the shrink. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 3:26:51 PM | | Well nowdays people are not so much afraid to express their sexual fantasies. As for me I think everything on there is fine except the golden shower thing...NO, NO, NO and NO. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 10:08:44 AM |  "Afraid" of my sexual fantasies?? oh no, as long as they don't become reality.  Why would I fantasize about being peed on????? | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 10:18:51 AM | C'mon man , spanked ok , maybe call u some names worthless **stard , u wanna be pissed on , f*cked .... u wanna give up all control .... simple answer ..
G O G E T M A R R I E D <<< spanked , u bet verbally lol , ,,, now shes calling a **stard and a million other names ..... pissed on , stay with her long enough u get pissed and shit on .......... go to work all day , as she sits home writing blogs n forumns requesting a guy with a back bone ! N E X T | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 10:29:10 PM |
"Afraid" of my sexual fantasies?? oh no, as long as they don't become reality. Why would I fantasize about being peed on?????
Because you never had the bedwetting phase when you were a child? Or never left it...only reason I can think of. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 10:35:44 PM | | find someone who is into the same things as you, im into alot of kinky things my bf isnt and vise versa..over time we have gotten more comfortable we have slowly eased into things the other person wants to try. if she dumped you for sharing a sexual fantasy then i wonder if she was just looking for an out. or maybe it was the way you approached the situation. and you dont have to be open minded, i definitly have my limits and some things i would consider not being with a guy anymore more if he pushed something i was against, mostly along the lines of pedophila and beasality. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:36:59 PM |
find someone who is into the same things as you, im into alot of kinky things my bf isnt and vise versa..over time we have gotten more comfortable we have slowly eased into things the other person wants to try. if she dumped you for sharing a sexual fantasy then i wonder if she was just looking for an out. or maybe it was the way you approached the situation. and you dont have to be open minded, i definitly have my limits and some things i would consider not being with a guy anymore more if he pushed something i was against, mostly along the lines of pedophila and beasality.
I like a lot of kinky stuff to in the bedroom also.I've always have felt what goes on between two adults is ok.I think you're right though when you say you have to ease into things. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:38:00 PM | | Yes, Charles, but there is no reason to hold it against somebody if they're NOT into that sort of activity. Yes, what goes on between two adults is fine...but that's like saying since gays can get married, I have to marry a dude. I ain't gonna play that ballgame. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:50:46 PM | Frank hon... I'd love too, however Im looking for someone your dad's age.
And don't be humiliated... I feel sorry for her... SHE acted so immature... A single reply of : IM not into that would do... but no need to be a rude sourpuss about it. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 10:02:49 PM | Humiliation ?
C'mon OP. Admit it ! She made you post this, didn't she ?
And you enjoyed every minute of it ! | |
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