to the men who say men bolt if they don't get sex (tease or not): yes, they do if they're into it mainly for the sex, BUT if the man is that hooked on her, he'll wait whether it's a month or whether it takes walking down the aisle with her. i've seen it happen to people time and again both ways.
This is nonsense. I could very much be into a girl, both sexually and her as a person - someone i wanted to be with, possibly quite seriously. I would not wait for marriage, which to me needs a least a year of being together and then a six month engagement to happen. It's simply a matter of lifestyle/religion/etc...
I'm not going a year and half without sex by choice, in a relationship. a month ok maybe..especially if we don't see each other that often. Plus, while it isn't everything, sex is important in the relationship. I don't want to get married to a girl not knowing if she and I have the same idea of a good sex life. I could be marrying a frigid sex phobe who hates oral, wants the lights off, and only has sex if intending to procreate. how would she know beforehand if she's a virgin. and if she's not a virgin or religious, but a girl whose just decided she's not having sex for a year or two to make some guy prove he cares about her...talk about an ego trip, or maybe she been abused and can't have healthy sexual relations.
the guys who wait for marriage, generally share the same religious beliefs. and lots of young couples like this get married simply because they are getting horny. I don't think it's a great way to decide who you are going to marry, that you're 22 and can't stand the sexual urge anymore. that's madness in my view.
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