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 deborah815

Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:00:12 PM
Oh man, save me from these creeps who think they're God's gift to women. I wouldn't say a word to his girlfriend, poor thing, recovering from a miscarriage and living with this moron. What goes around, comes around, as they say, and he'll get his. I doubt if you are the first woman he's "hit" on and you won't be the last. Let another woman deliver the bad news. Hopefully, he won't approach you again. WHAT AN A**HOLE.
 ambitious_libra

Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:09:22 PM
report him to human relations or manager, theres no reason to feel guilty for doing so not worry bout looking like a ****, there is not reason to protect jerks like him , keep in mind theres alot of people that will say things and do things to someone to see how much they can get away with they will test u and it will get worse if u let them
 prettywoman327

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:15:53 PM
I would just ignore him but first I would tell him what a jerk and a creep he was. His girlfriend is going through enough right now. Let her at least recover from her loss before she has to face the fact that she is involved with a creep.

Linda
 fly0nthewall

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:15:53 PM
Report it to HR and leave the poor girlfriend out of it, OP. She's got enough to deal with right now.
 carrela

Joined: 11/13/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:28:34 PM
Tell him he looks like your next husband and that you've been in love with him since you first laid eyes on him. That should get rid of him Seriously though, go the HR route that others have suggested. Tell him that if he makes any further advances, you'll contact HR regarding harassment. Keep it polite, firm, and clear. As for the girlfriend, if you don't know her well, let karma take care of it for him.
 whatsallthis

Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 7/6/2008 1:14:24 AM
I have never understood why so many men think that women are sexual playgrounds and that they have a season pass. Apparently the few promiscuous women out there give men the idea that all women are "looking" for something, and that somehow equates to sex. My father fooled around constantly on my mother, my exe's father fooled around on her mother and kept a woman on the side. Men like this make all men look bad.
 JasonGrimm

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/12/2008 10:10:04 PM


If those suggestions don't work, then try looking him directly in the eye, and give him the biggest baddest stink eye that you can give, and you know us women we have the look of stink eye down to fabulous art. Then say, "Are you for real?" roll your eyes and just walk off.


That's very true! I've seen many a man be stinkeye'd even from accross the room it sends their heads turning and egos shot down. lol I think some women have laser beams in their eyes so when they do the stink eye it shoots an invisible ray.
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