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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 9:47:50 PM | Also, why buy cloths, whatever woman you date will have to run out and buy you a new wardrobe no matter how well dressed you are. It is an overgrown little girl and her ken doll thing.
Only if she the one paying for them with her own money, cuz she sure ain't gonna use mine. | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:05:45 AM | Sandals and socks kill me! If your feet are that cold, put shoes on! If you were sandals, get a pedicure. This goes for women and men. I hate to look at nasty feet on men or women. A person is all glammed up and the feet kill the whole thing.
I do look for cheap shoes. Cheap or ugly shoes can sour the deal. I also look for foot size. Small feet are cute | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:08:59 AM | "Also, why buy cloths, whatever woman you date will have to run out and buy you a new wardrobe no matter how well dressed you are. It is an overgrown little girl and her ken doll thing."
So true Zebra210! I love to dress my men. It is so much fun! I goe by men's stores looking at the mannequins thinking about what would look good on my man, the right sweater or shirt. Sigh... | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:27:39 AM | | I don't know if it is true for some but not for me. I personally could care less what kind of shoes, clothes, watch etc a man is wearing. I don't believe in the whole "the clothes make the man" theory. If I am attracted to them all care about at that point is learning if what is on the inside is as attractive. What is a pair of shoes going to tell me about that? | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 1:16:00 PM | Not all women care about shoes. I rarely notice them. I think that a lot of women notice shoes because they like shoes themselves and spend time thinking about them. Shoes tend to fit even as weight fluctuates or increases; they never (as far as I know) make your bum look bigger than it really is.
Shoes are also an investment and I'm sure you can tell a lot about a person by all the types of investments they make. The person who has one or two pairs of comfortable, practical functional shoes that well serve the purpose of protecting their feet will have a rather different character from the person who buys many impractical, fashionable or elegant shoes which may serve no practical function and which may even damage rather than protect the feet that wear them. The person who discards shoes which are functional but no-longer in perfect condition, or who invests much energy in preserving their appearance is again a different character from the person who hold onto shoes that still serve their purpose despite not being as shiny as they once were... I love a man with battered well-worn shoes who will not be easily parted from them. *smiles* | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 5:15:24 PM | Shoes is one of the last things I look at. I start with the head (hair; eyes; teeth) and work my way downwards. It is what it is. If he's comfortable wearing Birkenstocks but he's a Pierce Brosnan or Clive Owen look-alike; screw the damn Birkenstocks. He' be hot in bare feet.  | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 6:09:18 PM | As long as they're not so worn that your toes are sticking out and the soles flap on their own, I couldn't care less about shoes. The lone exception is this particular fashion faux pas:
We are scared he is wearing sandals with socks...white sport socks.
I amend that to wearing sandals with ANY color socks. And I'm not a fashion plate by any means. As long as a guy is dressed appropriately for the situation, I don't much care what he wears. I'm a jeans-and-tshirt gal most of the time myself, so I am fully aware that I've got no business telling other people what looks good. | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 6:17:09 PM | You can actually tell a lot about a person by looking at their shoes. Women realize this which is why they put so much effort into their shoe collection. They're light years ahead of us on this one.
What type of shoes you're wearing and what kind of condition they're in says a lot about you as a person.
If you take immaculate care of your shoes, it's probably safe to assume that you take good care of most things in your life since shoes are likely to get beat up just from everyday use, and you make a point to keep them looking good. | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 6:35:56 PM | Shoes are not high on my list of things to check out. I usually work top-down when checking out a guy.
There are only a few things that will turn me off, shoe-wise.
Birkenstocks and socks are definitely a pet peeve. X husband used to do that, and I was embarrassed to be seen with him in public like that.
The other thing that gets me is men in too-fancy dress shoes. Tassles gotta go, along with that high-polish shine. You're at work, not a fashion show!
"Naked with black socks" - LMAO! | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:19:57 PM |
When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
No but if she finds him unattractive she will look down to avoid eye contact thus hopefully avoiding having to converse with him.
Do you see a handsome guy wearing bad shoes and say ''oh my god he's nice but the shoes kill the deal".
No i would just ask if his mum was still dressing him
What does it say when a woman looks at your private parts? | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:14:41 PM |
A terrible pair of shoes will attract notice, and a nice pair of shoes will compliment you. This goes for both genders.
Right, but I think you mean complement, saying compliment changes the entire meaning of the sentence.
ML's shoes: "damn you sexy..."
ML: oh stop shoes..really *blushes*
ML's: "No, you are sexy...."
ML: *beams with sheer joy* | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:17:07 PM |
No they don't they look at his wristwatch. 
*thinks of the other recent 'women and shoes' thread... http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10132581.aspx*
Post #22 :desertbulldog
Why are mens shoes so important to woman. I dont think a guys shoes have anything to do with the kind of person he is at all. But every time I have a new pair of shoes Its like women treat me like im a different person, smiling winking, compliments. Certain women (gold-diggers) will look for two things on you: your shoes and your watch. As long as you have nice shoes and/or an expensive watch, it really doesn't matter about anything else you are wearing. Those two items are the biggest indicators of wealth, and thus they are important.
Good thread all in all, worth the On Topic read
I guess I'd never thought of shoes as a deal breaker, but I don't like men in jeans with sneakers. I don't care if they are signed by Michael Jordan ~ no sneakers with jeans. JMO
What do you suggest someone wear with jeans then?? | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:13:27 AM |  lol
i look at the teeth first...
but i suoppose the comment i read earlier is true,
you can tell by the shoes how well off someone is, and what sort of person they are.
i really dislike it, if a guy wears a dark suit, and brown shoes with it.
i see that quite a bit.
not that i like suit-weares alot... | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:59:19 AM | Not for me it isn't. When I see an attractive guy I first look at what he wears and how he wears them, i.e. does he have his shirt hanging out and boxers showing? Or is he dressed tidily with no "layers"? of course if I weren't to focus on clothes, then I'd look at his eyebrows and eyes...
For your next question, I only own 2 pairs of shoes, 1 for sports/casual, 1 is a pair of fluffy white boots for extra cold days. But some women I know love shoes and own lots of pairs.
If I saw a handsome guy wearing bad shoes I might wonder why he isn't wearing nicer ones to match his pretty face lol | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:02:50 AM |
I guess I'd never thought of shoes as a deal breaker, but I don't like men in jeans with sneakers. I don't care if they are signed by Michael Jordan ~ no sneakers with jeans. JMO
What do you suggest someone wear with jeans then??
I'm wondering what kind of pants does she like sneakers with? | |
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| When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:16:47 AM | I don't look at shoes all that often..or at least I don't think I do.
I have noticed, however that people in general spend a lot of time looking at other's feet!
I currently have a french manicure on my toes, with a cute little flower in the middle of my big toe nails, since I recently had a pedicure, and at least four times a day, people are talking about how nice my feet look. (In the summer, I wear my thong flip-flops, because no shoes isn't so great on the feet, and anything more feels like a sin.) More often than not, it's men noticing.
With that, I think it's really important to take care of your feet and footwear, because I figure if there are 5 people a day that say something, there are probably another 10 each day that notice but aren't going to say anything.
If someone's shoes are falling apart, i'll usually notice. If a man is wearing shoes that don't go with his attire (ie: dress shoes with jeans, sneakers with a suit, sandals with a suit, flip-flops with the wrong outfit, etc.) I will normally notice right away, but it's not something I look for in someone I find attractive. Normally the first thing is eyes, smile, then look for a ring...then depending which angle i'm looking from, i'll check out the rest.
So short answer is NO, but keep in mind that even if someone doesn't find you attractive, it's likely that there are a few people each day that are looking at your feet, so depending on your level of concern with that, you should be conscious and take care to present them properly! | |
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