| Need advice with threesomes
Posted: 7/5/2008 12:45:12 PM | uhh.. so she wants the woman to pleasure herself.. but wants you to find her.. and your not going to touch this other woman in any way shape or form??
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| Need advice with threesomes
Posted: 7/5/2008 4:07:17 PM | OP,,,you might want to think long and hard about going thru with this. Your gf doesnt want you to touch the other woman. Ill bet you if you or her do find this other woman and this happens,, your gf will accuse you of all sorts of stuff, "i know you were THINKING of touching her you bast*rd!". Know what i mean? lol
Not a good idea. lol | |
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| Need advice with threesomes
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:23:16 PM | So she wants to cheat but not you; man you are crazy if you do that.
3 somes are so unhealthy for a relationship its not funny. I would dump a girl that asked for this. Too much drama for me. This isn't hot, its sleazy and dysfunctional. Sex is sex and she is saying, let me cheat in front of you but you do nothing. wow | |
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| Need advice with threesomes
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:41:40 PM | | Sounds like a selfish **** to me. How is she going to make you do the work to find another woman and then not let you enjoy her also? | |
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| Need advice with threesomes
Posted: 7/6/2008 1:04:51 AM | OK QuaryPath~...here's my read on this...
My guess is that this woman is in the same general age range as you.
I'm also going to suppose (based on your profile info) that you take a pretty assertive role in dating...IOW, you don't wuss out.
Some women like to be 'given permission' to do things they've always wanted to experience...but they're still scared.
She's also a bit afraid about losing you, but wants to set an opportunity that if she likes it, she'd like to find a middle ground where she can satisfy her desires and possibly any voyeuristic desires you may have, too.
As far as how you find one...well, the first thing you do is that you together write a profile about yourselves including some mutual pics. The hard part will be finding a girl without her help because to the girl, this will feel like a come'on scam, so somehow you're going to need to assuage that. Basically there are a lot of guys on those sites advertising like it's for their wife/SO but when it comes time to meet, suddenly wifey can't be there that night. Probably the only thing I can suggest is that you make it clear that you must do a first meet-n-greet with your SO before you move it forward.
Good luck.
Oh...and don't expect some wonderful porn movie experience...the movies never really trasmit the clumsiness, the emotions or the aftermath very well. As hard as it is for 2 people to have a relationship, tripling the dynamics can be very unsettling.
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