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Posted: 7/4/2008 1:51:48 PM | 1.You're over 40 and wondering if sexual text messages from your boyfriend to another female is alright??????
Sounds so teenager-y!
No, it's not really alright.
2. It's your sister?????
Now that's NOT good.
3. He's "moving in with me"?????
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Posted: 7/4/2008 1:55:41 PM | | sorry for your hurt applecandy ... i know what to do about him but what am not sure of is what to do about my sister she is someone i thought i could trust over any man i cant even look at her at the moment let alone talk to her... and no sorry have never been on jerry springer. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 2:21:27 PM | ^^^ Not YET .
You know what I mean. You have my sympathies re your sister. If you stick with that guy , though ...
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Posted: 7/4/2008 2:50:28 PM | Your sister doesnt deserve to be called YOUR SISTER!
I cant imagine of a family member putting you aside for some scumbag..
I wish you all the best.. and hope you eliminate them both from your life. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 3:06:34 PM | | have already got rid of him but just dont know what to do about my sis i love her dearly more than any man that could come into my life. do i forgive and forget ( which i dont know if i can) or just forget her ??? | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:01:07 PM | Well that was quick, (although you hadn't before today, so it was actually slow)
have already got rid of him
About your sister:
do i forgive and forget ( which i dont know if i can) or just forget her ??? Forgiveness is always wise. It messes up your body/mind if you keep a hold of unforgiveness... becomes a horrible root of bitterness.
Forgetting a comes with time... it does not automatically come with that initial forgiveness.
People tend to say "forgive and forget" as if it is one action.
Forgiving is letting go of anger towards her... I'd advise to do that.
I'd not advise turning your back on your sister because of one problem, no matter how big the problem is/was.
She's your sister.
Now when there are constantly "problems".. then it's wise to distance away from all that. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:13:30 PM | Yeah its sort of in the sense that its behind your back so hardly a friend of his..........i hate all that clock and dagger crap like they cant tell you because you will die or something or they want to feel they got one over on you its so childish and boring.
Got something to say SAY IT | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 4:28:05 PM | Give your sis an ultimatum hun, if she continues to txt him she is really disrespecting you and u will have to consider breaking contact with her for a time - but if she quits txting him, then she means business with you and you can start to build bridges with her... it's all about communication (which I am sure you already know, sry if im stating the obvious but just trying to help). For what it's worth I will say a lil prayer for you.
As for HIM - I aint even got anything to say! He's just a loser and a****ead!!!! Don't GO BACK even if ur sis breaks contact! He's not worth it and will only hurt you through someone else! I just don't understand the audacity of some ppl if I'm entirely honest with you!
Dazzy. x | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 9:38:05 PM | | How the heck did he get your sister's phone number, btw??? A friend of mines boyfriend stole my cell phone number out of her phone and started to text me. I called her up and told her what he was doing and he told her he was just contacting me for advice on their relationship and she BELIEVED him!!! I had only met the guy one time for 10 minutes! Why would he want my advice? She was very foolish! He was saying stuff like "what would you do if you liked your boyfriends friend? "I believe we met for a reason"...if your guy could do this to you with your sister and go behind your back, HE IS NO GOOD! Run for the hills, sweetie! You deserve a winner not a LOSER!! You and your sister need to stick together and kick this loser to the curb...don't allow him to play the two of you and against one another. Good luck to you, dear! | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 10:42:58 PM | I had a sister that I think actually cheated with my husband. Could never prove it, but something sure happened. Anyway, I still let her in my life, because I wasn't positive. But after years of other bull shit, I just decided I'd had enough, and even though I'm around her at family gatherings, I don't actually have her in my life. One day I just decided, I don't care if you are a family member or not, I don't have to put up with a bunch of crap, or Jerry Springer behavior. So basically I go to family gatherings, but don't let bull shit from my family enter my daily life. I live a very mellow life, no bullshit or chaos, and that's how I like it. So I quit letting people that want to live the Jerry Springer lifestyle, into my life. It makes life sooo much better.
Personally, if I had it to do over again, I would have kicked both their asses to the curb, stepped over them, and gone on with my life.
I don't think either one of them are worth your pain. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2008 11:14:26 AM | if it is a commited relationship, it is cheating.
mind you, depends on what the messages are about. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2008 11:37:41 AM | | no i dont think it is cheating they are only chatting afterall | |
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