| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:10:24 PM |
Do you do any of those things?
Dude, and I know you mean well. I owned 2 retail businenesses for 12 years, in Michigan. I had more money than I could spend. I still have toys in Michigan, quads, motorcycles, boats, ect. I have a good paying job now, I just payed CASH for a Firebird Formula, with a 5.7 liter LT1 engine. I just bought a new house a nice one in Arkansas. I have a shitload of hobbies, friends, what not. I feel ****ing alone every day of my life since I split with my girlfriend 3 years ago, I loved her, and no amount of money or hobbies or occuping my time will ever change that. No girl I meet, no matter how much sex with other women (cuz I tried that) will substitute for love. I feel numb now, I dont think I can ever love anyone again, I have met some decent girls, but I didnt love them. Love cant be bought, it cant be taken and it is so preciouse.s There is nothing more valuable than love. Once you had love and its gone, nothing really matters in life anymore. some of the girls I met I wished like hell I could love them, they were good, I couldnt, I cant lie to myself and I dont live a life of deceit. Emotions, love is an emotion are not easy to control and they cant be turned on and off like a light switch. We can pretend to restrain them but that is really to ignore them, and in effect lie to yourself. If society advocates me to be a liar then I choose not to be a member of it. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:14:51 PM | | Yes it's no fun being alone ALL the time and yeah there are times I feel like throwing in the towel and giving up on finding the right man but I refuse to give up, I have not been in a relationship for 7 years! But that's ok I would rather be alone than in a relationship for all the wrong reasons. When I am about to give up and think there nobody out there for me, I pick my chin up off the ground and keep looking ahead with optimism, there has to be someone out there for me! | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:24:27 PM |
here has to be someone out there for me!
why does there ? Its like we all think we deserve to be happy, its something that is coming to us here on this earth. Maybe this is exactly what we deserve, the design of the gods, to be alone, to be miserable, every day we wake up alone and we suffer. Every day we go through life in agony, because we know we are alone, our life is pointless, and we go home from our jobs to an empty house or our dog or cat is waiting on us (not the fecking same) so do we deserve anything else, why is it just going to happen for us ? | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:46:40 PM |
It's still a bit surreal to see somebody trying to start a fist fight at their keyboard
No physical pain will ever equal the emotional pain of losing your love for 3 years. Maybe the dude will beat my ass, I am not a big guy but I am quick, I will hit him a few times, I am not really afraid of the pain, I hope he kicks my ass maybe the physical pain will make me forget the emotional pain, maybe I will knock him out, either way I win. You always win a fight if you have nothing to lose because you didnt lose anything. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:55:50 PM | | We have all been disappointed somewhere along the way in our own lives and that’s why we are here. To find the special someone who will help take away that disappointment and brings love and happiness into our lives once again. No one cares to be alone, but it is the first step we must take until we find the person that was meant for us. You are still young and you will find the right person or he will find you. It was best for you to find out now that he would run and not 5 years from now and 2 or 3 children later. If I may make a suggestion, download a picture with your profile. He is out there looking for you, but he can't see you. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:04:02 PM |
If I may make a suggestion, download a picture with your profile.
I agree with that. There are too many shallow people out there. Even if your an obeses female, there are more guys than you know sitting behind their keyoards who are obeses with pictures of Brad Paisley in their profile, but you dont want to waste your time with the shallow man that will just have some animal sex with the obeses girl but go no further with her because she is over weight. If your overweight you probably got a better chance of hooking up on the internet than not because most of theses dudes on here or fat and live in their moms basment, LOL | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:48:25 PM |
It's still a bit surreal to see somebody trying to start a fist fight at their keyboard.
any;how with all that said, I was a golden gloves boxer in high school, when I went in the Army after high school I studied martial arts, so yeah the bigger man might beat my ass, I am not seeing it though, but I am not afraid of a good ass beating. Just fair to let you know, your gonna get hit too boot. I am a speed fighter, I will hit you at least 3 to 8 times before you will hit me, they will not be power shots but they could hurt you, if you want to throw down lets do it. Pain is my friend, its the only one I got anymore. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:06:32 PM | its guys like u that give the good guys a bad name.
I know. Aren't you jealous? | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:45:02 PM | MIMIMI, my brother, you are in the pain you're in simply because everything in your head is about you. That pile of shit you own, your little stories - nothing but you, so who would care, or why? Of course you're miserable.
The only way to get is to give. If your mom didn't tell you, then figure it out yourself. All you have to do is put something/someone else first, before yourself. There is no other happiness, and, for that matter, no other love.
Cheers!
Vulf  | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:03:22 PM |
who would care, or why? Of course you're miserable.
thats why we are all miserable, because we dont have anyone to care for us or to care for, so whats your point grasshopper ? LOL | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:04:47 PM |
I know. Aren't you jealous?
No, I could be like you. I choose not to be. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:07:45 PM |
The only way to get is to give. If your mom didn't tell you, then figure it out yourself. All you have to do is put something/someone else first, before yourself. There is no other happiness, and, for that matter, no other love.
Good sentiment shieldvulf, but not very realistic. If you put someone else first, they will take all they can and run.
Michigan man is in a dilemma that most men, well, men that really care about love, have faced.
MIman01, take this for what you will. You cannot take care of someone else if you do not take care of yourself. Clear your head and organize your own mind. Let past be past. Love never goes away, accept that you still love that woman, wish her happiness, and then focal point yourself. Letting go is hard to do, but it can be done, you can do it. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:09:21 PM | I think there ought'a be a country song about "Pain Being My Friend"! Life is all about making choices, sometimes we win and sometimes we lose, but every day that we sit around crying the blues about being all alone is another day gone forever. I've lived alone for so many years, I lost count but I can't say that I hate it. It's way better than being in a bad relationship.
I am surprised that some of the above posters still haven't gotten over past relationships that failed more than 3 years ago. Time heals all wounds but you have to let some things go and move on. New relationships have a better chance of surviving when you start off with a clean slate, with no ghosts hanging around from the past messing things up. 
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:21:39 PM |
Life is all about making choices,
Choices ? If your dealt a losing hand no choice you make will make that hand a winner. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:22:30 PM | | maybe think about the way you approach them and the type of ppl who interest you. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:28:20 PM | Let me just add to my first comment if I may. We were together for a few months. He just got out of a relationship and so did I. He was the one talking about moving in together and getting married and having kids together.......
And he was the run that ran and not me...... | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:43:42 PM | Yes, a lot of American men prefer casual relationships, as with the women's rights who now want their individual freedom has shown men that they don't need to put too much into a relationship any more.
That is sad.
I know. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:44:18 PM | Yes, a lot of American men prefer casual relationships, as with the women's rights who now want their individual freedom has shown men that they don't need to put too much into a relationship any more.
That is sad.
I know.
Try finding a foreign man. They have better family values. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:45:48 PM | | I had been out of my relationship for months.....but he just got out of his.....he told me he never would let me out of his life......and he did......he told me things and he thought i would run.....its so insane. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:50:17 PM | A picture would probally help you get some responds....Most people really need to see a picture of the person they are talking to or trying to get to know, sure "telling" somebody what you are like and how you are in person....Is fine/dandy!......
But you should have at least a picture so the person would know it was you if they ran into in public instead of saying "hey that person reminds me, of the woman/man i know on pof"..... GOOD LUCK! | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:54:06 PM |
I would rather hook up on the rebound than what I experience now, because this shit sucks and I am NOT on the rebound no more and I am no longer happy or care if I live or die.
I am starting to see where you are coming from. Believe it or not, what you are going through right now is good for you, as a person. You are getting hit by the bus of humility, which is a good thing believe it or not. Do not date, that will only prolong your ‘being drug through the dirt’ experience. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:56:23 PM | i know the pains and the suffering of being alone. Since my marriage fell apart about 3-4 months ago, i have had to deal with the silence i was never use too. Being in my place when you have the 4 walls staring back at you in a total lack of sound, can get to you. Lucky i have a few good friends that help me bare the time. What i hate is missing the touching and the holding that made me well up with joy. I hate being sad and i hate being alone. I don't know why a good man like me, it dragged in the road like this...
Mario | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:38:28 AM | | The funny thing is that while I hate being alone I think I've reached a point in my life where if I don't find somebody it's not a big deal. I've always been comfortable with myself and my "me" time and I have a small group of close friends who often have me out and about doing things. It's a situation that I feel comfortable so I find it somewhat odd - hate being alone but like it at the same time. | |
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| i hate being alone
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:19:39 AM | I crave being alone, sometimes.
"I hate" nothing, hatred is a sickness of the mind, and a weakness for those who are small of heart and vision
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