| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:39:49 PM |
My boyfriend isnt around at the moment i do see him a couple times a week though and we speak on the phone. He was a friend of one of my friends buthe knew perfectly well that im not available,
i am pretty sure i remember you. your boyfriend isn't around at the moment coz he is in jail, right?
no wonder the other guy thought you were available. can't blame him for trying now can we. boyfriend in jail, you out having a good time - sounds perfectly acceptable to me.
I love fairytales................  | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:46:58 PM | ^^^^^ Her boyfriend being in jail has nothing to do with anything. Someone is not free to assume anything about another person's life unless he has asked a question and gotten an answer about it. Many people choose to remain in relationships with someone that is incarcerated or otherwise not around to hang with on a regular basis. Perhaps it would behoove you to adopt the notion there by the grace of God go I because while you might not find yourself in this particular position, when you start pontificating it is usually not that difficult for life to knock you off that pedestal.
OP, the guy is an idiot. The opinions of you and your boyfriend are the only ones that matter and if you were unconsciously doing something to entice, your male friends would let you know and they agree with your beau so don't worry about it.
People do some pretty stupid things when they have been drinking. Chalk it up to that and perhaps the apology will come another time when he has not had as much to drink and is able to see his poor behavior in a realistic light.
Looking at the reposts, she was with her brother and her boyfriend's brother, and the whole drink thing was in the context of buying rounds for the group, not her accepting a drink that he bought for her and no one else and vice versa. Yup, stay home and never go out anywhere again unless you are surgically attached to the boyfriend's hip. | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:55:26 PM | WHO CARES about the whole "accepted a drink/bought a drink" issue?! That's what people in bars do! I have bought drinks for other women, men with their girlfriends, single people, married people, the bartender, etc. You start chit chatting it up, and that is what we do! It DOES NOT MEAN, "Hey...I am buying you a $5 beverage...that means you are somehow enamored with me!" Sheesh!
Dude felt rejected...and he forgot he was in an adult establishment, and not Romper Room! Ugh. | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:55:30 PM | This is what I LOVE about the forums ....
Full DRAMA just like the soaps. Endless entertainment. From drinks to yelling to BF in jail ...
Quality reading, not like those trashy reality TV shows | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:57:04 AM | | Yes My boyfriend is in jail not that i see how thats relevant, I love him, i'm happy to wait for him, i dont think we are botheing anyone by being together | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:02:49 AM | So this jerk would rather you hide in your apartment so that it doesn't signal you're available for a hookup? Should you go to a convent while your boyfriend is away? Sheesh.
Forget this nutjob - you did nothing wrong (as far as I can detect in your post) - you accepted a drink, you bought one for him in return...sounds friendly enough. This guy has problems. Not you. | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:14:01 AM | | urgh ive had the same thing happen. just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you are dead and you can't go out just like everyone else. that guys sounds like hes got some serious problems. | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/11/2008 12:44:19 PM | | If he was a stranger then you should not have accepted the drink, but since he KNOWS who you and your BF are then he is just crazy and probably drunk. | |
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| Am i really screwing with their heads??
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:31:24 PM | | This guy has a chip on his shoulder. He probably thought he could get you drunk and "land" you in one night. Technically, you probably shouldn't have accepted the drink without including the "I have a boyfreind, are you sure you want to buy me that drink?" disclaimer. I can see the logic coming from the suggestion to buy them one in return, but it can be misconstrued as you liking them back. In that way... I guess life is just a trial and error learning process anyways. Now you know. | |
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