| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:26:00 AM | | I always seem to move on to a point where I just dont want or fancy them any more so its never really an issue for me. I usually manage to become friends with them even if it was acrimonious at the end of the relationship. | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:40:27 AM | They may have changed as a person but the past is still the same.....
You will remember how they were and why you split.......
Me and my girls dad tried a few times we both thought we changed but things still remained the same none of us could get over past issues. | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:45:19 AM | I had a marriage on a revolving door - I kept taking her back. Than one day I grew a pair of balls and I changed. I realised I did not have to be with the lying cheating control freak, that was one change and the other change was the lock..... When she came back a few days later, she couldn't get in - I was at work and had no intention of letting her in any way.
They don't change - Just your perception of them might! | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:53:33 AM | Undiagnosed , which means they know nothing about the medical condition which in theory means it can return ? Hmmmm ....not convinced by that analogy !!
Ermm,no!
All conditions need a diagnosis.
Some are not in your face obvious from the begining.
EG;(and i dont know that much about this illness)
"why do i have these mood swings and one minute full of beans,the next im like a zombi?"can be the reason someone with thyroid problems decides to seek medical help,but the problem isnt as accute to start with,leaving you with one difficult person to deal with during that illnesses acendancy.
Then she decides (against medical advice) that she feels fine so stops taking the tablets and within 24 hours you are back with the monster you have left and thought was never coming back.
Who would decide to stop taking the pills just becouse there ex partner has came back in a case like this? | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:36:40 AM | Totally OT [sorry]
Sprite57:
Where the devil have you been hiding ? So good to see my old sparring partner back  Ive missed you  johnny. x | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:39:53 AM | ^^^ Hello johnny you old rogue! Ive been busy doing my online job so I dont get much time to come on here. Ive been watching you though. Is that a vibrator youre holding on one of your profile pics?
vvv did you really write that mac? It just doesnt sound like you. Its not silly! | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 12:02:06 PM |
An ex who's personality has been effected by an undiagnosed medical condition.The doc's find that she has grumpy old women syndrome
If the Docs have found she has "grumpy old women syndrome" then it has been diagnosed surely OP ?
All conditions need a diagnosis
But its a fact of life they are not always found !!
With the complexities and symptoms of many diseases/syndromes there are probably as many undiagnosed conditions as there are diagnosed I would imagine and some we will never have an answer for in our lifetime !! | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 12:14:24 PM | "grumpy old women syndrome"
not sure its treatable let alone curable, seems to be a long term and enduring condition for which the only known cure to man is ....sweeeeet lurvin! | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/5/2008 12:28:15 PM |
If the Docs have found she has "grumpy old women syndrome" then it has been diagnosed surely OP ?
Are we getting confused here?
Im working on the presumption that the main reason for the split was becouse of behaviour caused by a medical problem that was not known to be an ailment at the time,but was simply seen as unreasonable behaviour. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 10:38:01 AM |
Are we getting confused here?
You decide !!
An ex who's personality has been effected by an undiagnosed medical condition.The doc's find that she has grumpy old women syndrome
Tablets are issued and shes back to the cute,sexy old funbag that she once was.
The presumption is that both partners are willing to give it a go.Why would anyone serious about helping themselves feel better stop taking the tables contrary to medical advice?
Presumably she sought advice in the first place becouse she knew there was a problem that wasnt just one of personality
why do i have these mood swings and one minute full of beans,the next im like a zombi?"can be the reason someone with thyroid problems decides to seek medical help,but the problem isnt as accute to start with,leaving you with one difficult person to deal with during that illnesses acendancy.
Who would decide to stop taking the pills just becouse there ex partner has came back in a case like this?
did you really write that mac? It just doesnt sound like you. Its not silly!
Awww Stop teasing Sprite, youve known me long enough now to know im multi-talented !! Welcome back btw
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Posted: 7/6/2008 11:25:54 AM | An ex who's personality has been effected by an undiagnosed medical condition.The doc's find that she has grumpy old women syndrome
Tablets are issued and shes back to the cute,sexy old funbag that she once was.
I should have made it clearer that she didnt know she had an illness untill after they split up
The presumption is that both partners are willing to give it a go.Why would anyone serious about helping themselves feel better stop taking the tables contrary to medical advice?
Presumably she sought advice in the first place becouse she knew there was a problem that wasnt just one of personality
yes,sought advice after they had split up due to them not knowing at the time she had a medical problem.
"why do i have these mood swings and one minute full of beans,the next im like a zombi?"can be the reason someone with thyroid problems decides to seek medical help,but the problem isnt as accute to start with,leaving you with one difficult person to deal with during that illnesses acendancy.
My attept to give a clearer example of a relationship thats ended due to behaviour that untill it became apparent could have simply been put down to unreasonableness.
Who would decide to stop taking the pills just becouse there ex partner has came back in a case like this?
And why would anyone stop taking pills that they know are keeping there behaviour and emotions in check just becouse there partners excepted them back?
Im confused as to why you question it and what i think is an exceptable scenario of how illness can ruin a relationship due to it not being diagnosed or even recognised.
Therefore a reason why that couple would want to get back together.
As another example,if my ex wifes biggest problem was her drinking and she stopped,its quite possible that i would except giving it another go,if partly to be there at all times with my kids!
Is that a more exeptable and streightforward example?
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/6/2008 1:04:05 PM | | No, my ex and I despite us having a child together, can't stand each other, well actually that's not true, he hassles me and wants us back together but he won't change, infact he CAN'T change and he had far too many opportunities than I should have given him to show the change...he'd change for a week, then it'd be back to normal. | |
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| If your ex husband/wife/partner changed?
Posted: 7/6/2008 1:10:43 PM |
Anyway , what online job ? Are you a moderator ? That would be kind of ironic given some of your posts and comments ...
Lol definitely not, its a kind of 'sensitive' job. I cant mail you as your restrictions wont let me - too old !
did you really write that mac?
Thats gone right over my head mate, What the feck are you on about ? ha
That wasnt for you silly! downward vvv for the post below, for mac!
Anyway, happy 40th. I wish I was there again. Hope you didnt suffer too much this morning. xx | |
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But I'm not ars*d, whats the worst that can happen ? 
Anyway , what online job ? Are you a moderator ? That would be kind of ironic given some of your posts and comments . eg: 
ha.
Good night. j x 
