RoRo1
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:50:28 AM | one woman i dated had better material things than me for sure, but realy in the end who cares? i didnt really care for her car, house or other stuff. i dont need anyone to pay for my stuff, but i dont want to support anyone either...
"Most men I know who are single, want a young hottie, but they don't want to spend any money on her." - those guys need to think a bit more logically. i mean, they might as well be trying to date big name actresses and supermodels. | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:58:51 AM |
Instinct is a great thing, look, listen and learn - especially in the early days of a relationship and you will find out ... and move on if necessary.
For the most part, this is true with a lot of different issues....having common sense and just paying attention to the other person's conversation and mannerisms (and watching the way they treat others). | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:02:29 AM | | I would rather date a homeless man off the street and be happy than date a rich man and be miserable. I would never date someone according to their finacial status. His income, car, house etc is completely irrelevant. Im more interested in him! | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:06:19 AM |
homeless
Not me. His character makes him what/where he is today. If he is homeless then his recklessness could well make me homeless too! A man's (or a woman's) status reflects their personality and drive. I would be seeking someone in a similar position to myself. | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:11:18 AM | | I beg to differ. There are a lot of women who make lots of money and still like shopping a lot and expect men or are use to men spoiling them so there ya go. It does not necessarily mean a woman's broke or poor to have those traits so dont generalize them as such. You also have a lot of broke/poor women who settle for less and get less. As for you men, dont kid yourselves. In today's society (especially with the cost of living in California) very few women can NOT afford to work and plenty are single which means they own their own car, their own home, have a decent paying job etc. and are not waiting on your paycheck to start the party when they've been doing so on their own for years. I hate to go there but if you look like Frankenstein and are continously trying to date Cinderella, there's usually an ulteria motive that comes with it. Not fair, but it happens. | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:20:28 AM |
I would rather date a homeless man off the street and be happy than date a rich man and be miserable. I would never date someone according to their finacial status. His income, car, house etc is completely irrelevant. Im more interested in him!
Not me - I tend to hang around with people who I have more in common with. So that excludes the homeless and the rich  I would be uncomfortable at either extreme (though I guess the rich guy's place would be literally more comfy lol).
I'm more likely to be with a guy that is in my age range, my income bracket, etc. If he seriously owns NOTHING by our age then unless there's a compelling reason for his misfortune, he's out of my league. Similarly, a guy that has wads of cash and heaps of fancypants possessions wouldn't relate to my world and would also be out of my league. Unless, of course, there was a compelling reason lol. | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:34:08 AM | I find that people who gripe about money are those that have too much month and not enough cash. If people would learn to live on a budget (nasty word), we'd all be a lot better off. Each and every one of us has to realize that we are responsible for our own financial destiny. None of us should expect another to financially support us.
What my pet peeve is on money is people's attitudes about money. It really is a love/hate affair. It shouldn't be. If a man has a crappy attitude about money, trust me, I won't be dating him. I'm not interested in one who can flaunt their money, that's boring, it's tacky! | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 1:56:10 PM | There are a lot of women who make lots of money and still like shopping a lot and expect men or are use to men spoiling them so there ya go.
That is just beyond selfishness. How will they find a decent relationship if they are so into consumerism? But then again some of these rich women can also become the spoilers. so goes both ways.
Maybe all women aren't after a man's money but these women sure are cheap when it comes to dinner, gifts and tickets or anything else that involves money. | |
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| About to drive me crazy....all women are not after your money
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:09:20 PM | Maybe all women aren't after a man's money but these women sure are cheap when it comes to dinner, gifts and tickets or anything else that involves money.
Are you talking those who have money or those on POF? ... & have you actually met any of them to find out if what you say is true or is it your assumption? ... just asking .. | |
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