| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/6/2008 12:50:53 PM | Wow, talk about making a guy feel like King Kong or macho man...
No problemo with this little fainting spell, providing it's not a serious medical issue, ya know? | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/6/2008 1:59:05 PM |
Wow, talk about making a guy feel like King Kong or macho man...
No problemo with this little fainting spell, providing it's not a serious medical issue, ya know?
I agree with SlingDad, haha. Probably not much of an issue. Just warn the guy before hand so he doesn't freak out when it happens, lol. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/6/2008 2:24:11 PM | | I don't just date on pof , and I do need to ask masses cause I don't have a friend circle that large. And I didn't think I would stick out in someones head there is many posts on here so I would just be lossed in all the other posts. But thanks for pointing it out that someone might notice me. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/7/2008 2:50:21 PM | No, it's not gross.
If the girl hadn't told me beforehand and passed out during sex, I would freek! I'd be terrified that she just died. I'd be checking her pulse while my heart would be pounding in my chest with horror. I'd be watching for breathing movements with my hands shaking. By the time I'd be calling 911, I wouldn't be able to stop shaking from head to toe because I wouldn't know what just happened and would be thinking you died.
This is something you must tell a guy before having sex. Please don't be shy about telling about something like this. I highly suggest you see your physician, if you haven't already, and tell her about what happens when you go into an orgasm. I have forgotten whether a woman's blood pressure rises very high just before an orgasm like it does in a guy. A guy's blood pressure rises almost dangerously high, as well as heart rate, just before an orgasm. You may have high blood pressure and don't know it. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/7/2008 5:02:24 PM | Aqua-dragon;
If this is truly for real and a medical condition for you ... Then can you explain to us why you neglected to seek medical advice from a physician prior to the end of your long term relationship?
(2) Why would you seek advice in "ASK A MAN" on a dating site and not within the forums of a medical site?
It sounds to me as if someone here may be trying to score some additional attention via the route of "pitty /victim" from males on a dating site. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/7/2008 6:57:07 PM | it's no big deal. I don't know why you worry about it except you'd better know who your with really well when you have sex.
Being unconcious around some men could be dangerous | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/8/2008 4:10:45 AM | this is really interesting,I've never heard of it before but like a few of the guys said,they have.the one guy said he had 2 or 3 women that did it,so it must be somewhat common. don't worry about it,just mention it before hand.I would imagine any guy about to get some isn't going to be to worried about it.just make sure you know a guy fairly well anyway....in case he tries the the old 1 second,2 second let's stick it in here trick. forget I said that. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/8/2008 4:22:31 AM | | Aqua, about 15 years ago I was with a woman that absolutly went unconsious after what was apparently an orgasm, It was kinda scary for a minute, because we did it outside and I thought I killed her!, had thoughts of cops showing up and arresting me forrape murder etc, but she came around after about 30 seconds of rubbing her face and asking her if she was ok, she said that happens every time she has an orgasm. I just said thats kinda interesting but man iIwish she would have told me so I knew to expect it. anyway so thats actually the funniest experience I had. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/8/2008 11:26:03 AM | Zentimes I have stated previously that I have seen someone about it and it was not a medical issue and it is terrible to assume that I was just trying to get attention when there is some many ways to get it. You seem to be a very untrusting person who thinks there is malious behind what woman say, I am truly sorry that you have trust issues as well. Enjoy your day and be good  | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/8/2008 7:48:54 PM | Aqua I don't have trust issues with women ...but I cannot stomach individuals who will seek attention at all cost!
I do want to thank you for taking the time out of your hectic schedule to communicate to me your "dime store" psychobable.
May I in turn suggest that should you really need for this "SUPPOSED SITUATION" to be resolved then why seek advice from horny males on a DATING SITE inside the forum of ASK A GUY? It seems fairly obvious.... you think its going to be some lame "turn-on" to some males!  | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/8/2008 11:08:26 PM | | Yes, please, give the guy a heads-up so he knows not to call 9-1-1. Let the guy know how you want it handled. I used to be with a woman that, when everything went a certain way, she'd pass out during sex but wanted me to finish while she was out. She didn't tell me before the first time and I freaked out and she wondered why I didn't finish. It took a little getting used to but we worked it out. So, yeah, definitely a heads-up is good. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/9/2008 9:45:04 PM | Zentimes why would you are part of the masses and to refer to the males on this site as horny males put you in the same pile. Why in the world would you want to single me out to start a conflict and attack me, when you your self are also on the same site reading and posting your veiws?? If you found my post just a ploy to get attention and pity then why would you that has figured me out want to post and play the game. I have talked to a Doctor and he told me I was in to danger, and it was not all that uncommon. I post to hear what men in particular say cause they would have more information about it and how they would feel about being approached by such situation. And as for the relation ship part I have not had lots of sexual partners I was with my spouse since I was 17 yrs old till the my current age of 32 yrs so maybe I do have some worry on approaching men in regards to my issue. I never thought passing out was a turn on I do think different. thanks for your thoughts just the same.  | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/10/2008 6:26:08 AM | | As long as you don't pass out through boredom. No, I think it might be a bit of a medical issue, how is your blood pressure all that sort of thing? Have you had any traumas in the past or anything? I would seek medical advice. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/28/2008 9:53:09 AM | | Aqua, I must re-suggest for you to seek medical attention. Find a female internal specialist with many years, at least 25 years, experience of medical practice behind her and get yourself checked out. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/28/2008 5:47:00 PM | I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's not gross by any means. I've got a couple sexual oddities that I don't feel comfortable sharing with a woman until I am very close with them and mentally ready to make love.
So don't feel like your alone. You're not the only one in the world with sexual traits that make you interesting.  | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/28/2008 6:12:03 PM | I thought women always passed out during sex? At least if it goes past an hour.
Seriously, you have 2 choices:
1. Tell him ahead of the time. I can tell you I find the idea of someone having an orgasm that intense erotic as heck. (And you have verified with a physician you are in no danger.)
2. Wait until he asks.
Either way, it is not gross or a turn off at all. I think most North American men feel, the more intense and longer the woman's orgasms, the better lovers they are. This would be the ultimate compliment to a man. The ultimate achievement. That is why some people think you are boasting. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/30/2008 8:52:27 PM | | "I thought women always passed out during sex? At least if it goes past an hour." If that was true why aren't there any women from this site claiming, "Oh, I'm always passing out in the middle of an orgasm! Honey, it happens to all of us!" Aqua needs to see a doctor. | |
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| shy to tell men that I pass out during sex Posted: 7/30/2008 9:00:57 PM | | A friend of mine had a guy that would pass out, but it wouldn't be for just a little while. The first time, she called a friend who was a nurse to find out if this was something to call an ambulance for. She did get him revived, but he was close to having to explain to a bunch of EMT's that he passes out during sex. | |
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