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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:24:01 PM | | sounds like you were with cybil and then her other personality showed up.I agree you dodged a dysfunctional relationship bullet ...move forward and run the other way from her. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:05:41 PM | Well since I have infinite wisdom and a 10% feminine side and responded based on a history search not a forum search:
""""knew this girl for about TWO MONTHS. We date for a few weeks seeing each other almost every day (like 4 a week). Eventually she comes over... text me and call me, which is fine by me...Im not the type of guy to pressure a lady, I go by what they tell me is comfortable. So after a week or so she comes over and tells me she wants to hang out in the bedroom. She goes straight for my bed which leads to cuddling for a few nights,
....next few nights she iniates some making out. ..she more or less offered to get intimate and it just sort of never happened.
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Well since OP has urgently needed to delete his profile, I can only assume his wife saw this online. Unless, the couple is very very young or never ever had a GF or BF.
Yes, OP, wherever you are AND ANY GUY LIKE THIS, if you've been dating more than a couple dates, and "cuddling" or "makeing out" more than a couple times with a WOMAN (or in this case a girl), and SHE WANTS MORE..?? MAN UP AND GIVE IT TO HER!!!
Here is how you do it (from an expert,   )..Ok so you are having the most incredible conversation ever with your cousin, get closer and closer, no touching yet, closer, keep talking , tease her to death with your intimate hairs breathe conversation, KISS HER when she leasts expects it, AND A BIG ONE, use your tonge like a tennis ball at the bus stop, put your hand on her ELBOW, that's a very exogenous zone (if your lucky she will squirt). Assuming all is going well and she says "I was hoping you would do this years ago", KEEP GOING, now use your tongue like a giant scrubbing bubble, SUCK ALL HER AIR OUT, then blow her up like a living love doll (that's my fantasy).
To make the next move, unzip your fly, and undo the button. Show her "what you came her for, now eat it!". I guarantee you she will, guaranteed. But if she doesnt, look at her like a wounded puppy and say "what's wrong, I'm a nice guy, a guy on POF said this is what women want". | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 3:29:23 PM | so you are having the most incredible conversation ever with your cousin, get closer and closer, no touching yet, closer, keep talking , tease her to death with your intimate hairs breathe conversation, KISS HER when she leasts expects it, AND A BIG ONE, use your tonge like a tennis ball at the bus stop, put your hand on her ELBOW, that's a very exogenous zone (if your lucky she will squirt). Assuming all is going well and she says "I was hoping you would do this years ago", KEEP GOING, now use your tongue like a giant scrubbing bubble, SUCK ALL HER AIR OUT, then blow her up like a living love doll (that's my fantasy).
Ew. Just ew. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 3:38:35 PM | | Fishbill. There are so many things wrong with that post, clearly most glaringly your suggestion to act out your lewd fantasy with a cousin. This is Ask a Girl, your inappropriate thoughts can be kept in whatever dark confine of your mind it came from. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 4:26:48 PM |
Ok so you are having the most incredible conversation ever with your cousin, get closer and closer, no touching yet, closer, keep talking , tease her to death with your intimate hairs breathe conversation, KISS HER when she leasts expects it, AND A BIG ONE, use your tonge like a tennis ball at the bus stop, put your hand on her ELBOW, that's a very exogenous zone (if your lucky she will squirt). Assuming all is going well and she says "I was hoping you would do this years ago", KEEP GOING, now use your tongue like a giant scrubbing bubble, SUCK ALL HER AIR OUT, then blow her up like a living love doll (that's my fantasy).
To make the next move, unzip your fly, and undo the button. Show her "what you came her for, now eat it!". I guarantee you she will, guaranteed.
I hope this was posted tongue in cheek, with uber-high dose of sarcasm.
Still.... I hear dueling banjos and pig's squeeling.
Gross, that's all I can say.
Now, did OP close his account or was his ManCard revoked?
That girl was certainly fed up with making all the moves...
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 4:37:17 PM | Seems like things were going good til you did an outing with her friends. One friend said she approved, but she may have just been saying that to be nice. I'm thinking it had something to do with friend's approval. They may have been saying things to her about you that weren't so kind and she figured she better not act too interested in you. She may also have other men they have seen her with and may have been telling her...you gave up so and so for this guy? Or so and so is better...forget this guy.
I think it was good you were respectful and took things at her pace. I personally don't like aggressive men so that would be a turn off if i kept saying ''let's not rush'' and then they were all over me. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:25:33 PM | | I agree with L. My first thought was that you did something (or didn't do something) that was the dealbreaker as far as she was concerned and she just didn't want to let you know what that was. Let it go. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:11:07 PM | | That's what I was thinking...he did something that became a deal breaker...and she didn't bother hashing it out with him...meaning she also probably didn't like him enough anyways to work it out...if she did he would know what he did wrong...and sometimes it's just as little as maybe paying too much attention to another girl ie. the friend and not enough attention to her to make her feel secure and he failed to take more initiative to redeem himself and the relationship. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:14:12 PM | I think all but one poster has missed what's really going on here, so I'll do my best to explain it.
This is classic behavior of a serial dater. The girl in question was just out to get some attention -- likely she's still getting over someone and not ready for a relationship. It is also possible she has low self-esteem or maybe she just likes free lunches. In any case, the OP offered attention up in spades. After presumably wining and dining her, he talks with her about who-knows-what all night long, ultimately giving her all the attention she could ever want and, in the process, helps heal some of her past wounds. Trust me: she never liked the OP. She was using him.
The signs are everywhere. To begin with, she says she didn't want to "rush things". But in reality this was only meant to conceal her true intentions (i.e. attention seeking). Think about it: seeing each other almost everyday/4 days a week, "staying up all night talking", and a constant barrage of text messages. This is not exactly a girl who doesn't want to rush things!! And the OP bought it. Knowing this guy can be played, she later offers to be his girlfriend... likely giving her more access to whatever attention she was seeking (and perhaps making her feel better in the process). And then she pushes for sex looking to boost her self-esteem. And this works... for a while.
But then her friends at the campsite repeatedly show their approval (genuine or not) of her new beau (e.g. telling how much they like him; asking them to kiss). This irritates her. Why? Because she doesn't want to be perceived as tied down with some guy that, in fact, she doesn't even like. So at the end of the night, realizing this guy has exceeded his usefulness, she decides to dump him.
Looking to break it off, the girl complains about the OP being "so distant" at the campsite. In reality, this was just a smokescreen to conceal the reason for why she broke up with the OP. The real reason is that she wasn't attracted to him, and he now served no purpose but a nuisance. And no surprise: when the OP actually calls her on her bs (i.e. she was the one acting cold all night), he never hears from her again.
Girls like this will go hot on you one moment, then absolutely cold the next. Sometimes this creates confusion that ends up keeping the guy around to feed her more attention; other times, as in this case, it just signals the end of the line. | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:33:40 AM | N NO NO you're all missing it...look what ahppened at the camp with the friends...maybe he hit on one of them and he isn't tellign us that...maybe one of the friends got creeped out by a look or something...the campfire/grounds is where itall happened...it was fine beofre then to a point...then BAM...so I think he may have flirted with the friend that gave him the I think you are swell...he maybe got a big head...both heads, and did something dumb...and she's too classy to bother getting all drama case about it...just puts him on ignore...the campfire people...that's the common denominator  | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/8/2008 5:36:13 PM | On another note...don't try to cover up the behavior...women aren't as clueless as you think...we know...you may as well fess up to it...it is what it is...you find the friend attractive if not more and that's why you got preoccupied with her...may as well accept the situation for what it is and no amount of covering up will save your butt anyways  I was dating a guy...I had an inkling he had liked one of my bestest friends...i let him know what i was thinking...he denied and denied and denied and insisted and begged...but I ended it anyways b/ it was obvious to me he did...about 10 years later he finally confessed his infatuation for my friend  | |
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| Looking for the infinite wisdom of all you ladies!
Posted: 7/8/2008 8:49:53 PM |
To be fair, we, men are all perverts. I know the men are going to refute this as well, we all singularly know its true.
Ok....First of all, Who the hell gave you the right to speak for all men?!! Second of all, you are full of $h!t!! I really feel bad for you if that's how you really feel. All men are perverts and all women are crazy? Sounds like someone is BITTER. Next time how bout you hit the therapists couch instead of coming on a public forum and presuming to speak for all men.
(Wishes Cassandra could wack away with the MoBat.)
Oh and in regards to the OP. I am officially revoking your man card. She went right to your bed???? Ok, I'm kinda dense sometimes but that would shoot a flare off in my head. That was a bright flashing neon sign, vegas style. What did she have to do get naked and beg for it???
(STAMP) Man Card Revoked. Turn in your package, provided that you can get your balls back from wherever you left them. | |
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