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 ActiveJon

Joined: 4/30/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:40:39 PM
After having spent a certain amount of time with anyone, i'll break down a situation, common interests, personality, where can i see the leading to.

It will always come down to these factors... generally first date and sex don't mix as i'll lose interest fast.
If the call back occurs (2nd date) not enough information was gathered from the prior encounters.
If you make it to the third date i feel it's appropriot (not manditory) to test sexual compatibility if your still interested

No guidelines just common sence
 kevin44lovesyou

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 9/3/2008 9:08:03 AM
if you and male are happy then thats fine if you both find the instant attraction but thats between you and the male concerned let nature and destinytake its course.
 vagabond09

Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2008 9:18:20 AM
Re the Opost

No, there is not one rule for women and a different one for men. There are no rules, or in other words, each person, be it man or woman, has his/her own rules. For some, that is chaos, for other that is pluralism and freedom. Each person does and follows what rules FEELS right for her/him and hopes to find another with the same specific rules or "feels right" timing!

Land of the free. No one ever said that freedom is easy. That is why many still miss the non-freedom of communism (yikes)! Even in dating ideology! lol lol
 pokerjimmy

Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 9/3/2008 9:26:29 AM
There ARE no rules. We'll keep coming back as long as we want you.
 minnesotasteve

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 9/3/2008 3:08:36 PM
The only solid rule I have is "One guy movie for every Chick flick"
 bella4you

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Posted: 9/6/2008 10:39:24 AM
Here's the problem. The replys that r posted r from women and no offense to anyone but you do not see the gorgeous hot body guys responding to these type of questions.

I would like to see the guys ages 25-40 answer these questions. Especially the guys that date very frequently and are true players. I want to know what they think!!!
 Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008
Msg: 107
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Posted: 9/6/2008 10:43:37 AM
Geez this scata gets old. Further, I thought this was ask a guy??? I guess men answer in Ask A Girl, but we all know that once they do they must walk around for the rest of the day with their giblets sticking our their unzipped flies.
 kevininlasvegas

Joined: 6/2/2008
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Posted: 9/6/2008 1:10:45 PM
If a woman wants sex on the first date, I go to the bathroom and disappear. If I wanna date a nymph i will hang out in bars.
 Dumpling-Girl

Joined: 7/20/2005
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Posted: 9/6/2008 3:45:39 PM
I can't take a man seriously if he gives it up on a first date with me. What a slut. I only respect the ones that resist a bit.
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
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Posted: 9/6/2008 4:05:49 PM

As a female Im asking all men out there for honest opinions..........

If a female has sex with you on a first date........... do you run for the hills the next day or do you think great I like this female I'll stick around.

Is it one rule for men and one rule for women?


I dunno about anyone else, but speaking for myself, if she wanted sex on the first date, the date would end right then and there and there'd be no 2nd date with that one. If she's willing to have sex with a complete stranger, then how many other strangers has she slept with on a first date? I prefer someone with more dignity and self respect than that.

This is why I'll always choose to get to know her first before there's any sex involved. If I'm that hard up to get laid, I'll go trolling for hookers. Be cheaper and less hassle.

 fish4em

Joined: 8/25/2008
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Posted: 9/6/2008 4:21:32 PM
I may be in the minority for a guy but, I do not expect, nor do I want to sleep with a woman on the first date. Don't get me wrong, I love sex , but as I matured, sex is so much better when I get to know the person first. To me it is worth waiting the extra time. If theres no spark, I'll wait.
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