| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:38:06 PM | | run away, he is just trying to keep you on the line just in case. | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/7/2008 5:20:20 AM | | I know what you mean hunni, thats what I had a feeling he was doing I just wanted to know what everyone else thought too. I guess you dont want to believe that someone you cared so much for could change like that and be nasty. xxxx | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/7/2008 7:19:42 AM | | he's obviously using you until something better comes along | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/7/2008 7:28:52 AM | Honey there are beautiful ppl in this world like yrself, and all they do is think of others , worrying why they got hurt cause they gave it 110% to save their relationships...
the sad part is yr ex partner couldnt see that hes not emotionally evolved at the same stage as you have, in that sense or so it seems...everything happens for a reason even if it rips our hearts apart it opens up a new door to us funny creatures ...a new understanding..
we all have different reasons for break ups>
but the truth is why be with someone that is so unsure of even himself or where he is going wether you have kids or not love is just not enough..being strong for yourself that is your greatest power! | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:11:31 PM | | you're worried about your ex not moving on after only 4 months? haha...try 3 years! my ex and i broke up almost 3 years ago, i've dated, mingled, had fun...but he's had only a handful of first dates, and hasn't had sex with anyone since me. we've stayed friends, but i'm really worried about him not moving on. if your ex still hasn't moved on after a year, then you have reason to worry, but i wouldn't overthink it too much this soon. | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/9/2008 6:34:39 AM |
Is it any wonder why we as women b*tch about how men can't seem to grow up! - And we perpetuate the situation by doing crap like that!
Quite right outlaw yet there are still women lined up in droves for these type of men
as in picking out the cutesiest pup in the litter but what about who cleans up the poop? omg!
Yet when you pick only with your heart and little of mind the end results your heart decided on might not be as good as first thought.imo  | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/9/2008 6:52:23 AM | No it ain't easy ...believe me
But you are an attractive young woman
Can you imagine if you were my age and trying to make a fresh start???
The thing that gets me through the day ...laughter
Please remember
That which does not kill you makes you stronger
Good Luck | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/9/2008 7:05:15 AM |
Remember, it is better be lonely because you are alone than lonely because you are in a relationship that is not working
This is fantastic advise. I'd rather be alone forever than go back to my hellish marriage!
Some responses on hee are a bit harsh. Applcandy has simply asked for some friendly advice here not to be abused!
I think you know the answer hun and you deserve so much more. Its so hard to let go even if you know how damaging it is to hold on. Its awful loving someone who doesnt love you back, been there done that. It hurts for ages but those feelings do fade eventually. Give yourself some dignity and hold your head high xxx | |
|
| Is my Ex Moving on???
Posted: 7/9/2008 7:16:56 AM | | Cut him off at the knees. Do not attend any function with his family or as a couple. File for divorce, this man will not change and neither will you until you make the decision to move on yourself. Do not discuss anything but finances and children when you talk to him. Good luck. | |
|
Home
login 
