| How to let go? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:20:53 PM | | I hope you do pray for me, everyone can use prayers. I just want to make the right choice when I do meet someone. I hope they will be kind and loving. With Gods' help I know that I can make it. Do pray for me. Thanks for taking the time to write me. | |
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| How to let go? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:26:00 PM | | I am so sorry you lost your husband 2 years ago. I hope you are doing well, and that you have found happiness. You have a very positive attitude that is good. I am so glad you are moving on. I am also. In fact I went out tonight with a really sweet guy tonight. He seems very kind. Who knows maybe my time is coming. Thanks for writing me and I will say some prayers for you while I'm saying some for myself. Have a great day. | |
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| How to let go? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:35:40 PM | You most probably will and can always love him...as long as you are not still IN LOVE with him...there is a big difference....like you still can care about him but not care for him.
It is best to do whatever you need to do though to let go otherwise your energy will not attract the one who should be with you. | |
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| How to let go? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:36:49 PM | I don't want to be bitter, I would rather just wish them all the happiness in the world and mean it. Sometimes people just grow apart, it that a reason to not want to see them happy? I do wish them all the happiness in the world. I know that I to will find happiness. I also know it just takes time and patience. I love God and I know he would want me to forgive and forget. I choose to do so. I am not bitter at all just lonely at times. I know that some people to get bitter but that is not who I want to be. I am not cutting you down or anything I know each person deals with pain in a diffrent way. Who is to say which way is right. I hope you have a really wonderful day, thanks for writting.
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| How to let go? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:40:18 PM | Sounds like some good advice to me. I do intend to move on. I'm just waiting on the Lord to move me toward a good and faithful friend that is looking for the same in return. Thanks for the advice  | |
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| How to let go? Posted: 10/25/2008 11:05:18 PM | It took me a 2 month trip to Germany and a 2 month vacation to FL to get over 20 years. Thank goodnes I have family in Germany. I've been dating now close to 10 years and I have had some good ones and some bad ones and a few real bad ones, but I learn from each date or relationship. Now I've meet a real nice woman who was marreid to a drunk for 30 years. She admits that it was 29 years too long and is happy now. Count your blessings and move on! Just because god loves a drunk does not meen we have to. I know I dated a couple and I know it was not for me. It was always someone elses fault and never theirs. The dog made me drink!
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