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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/14/2005 6:02:54 PM | | I bet I can't message you because of your no dating criteria. I'd change it, but that would be a game now wouldn't it? Would love to hear from you! Peace, Johnny | |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 3:19:50 AM | | Long Term Relationship :) | |
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DKD15
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Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 105 | |
| age differance and dateing
Posted: 2/15/2006 7:33:51 PM | | I am taking some night school course and end up meeting a really cool girl. we instianly clicked, the only downer is she is 18 and i am 23. Is it wrong for me to ask her out because of the age gap?. Or is 5 years really not that big of a difference.? | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 2/15/2006 10:21:15 PM | | If you get along at the same intellectual level age has no bearing. It is only a number. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 1:15:52 PM | It doesn't matter, to me. When I was young, in my twenties, I was entranced with 'older' women. Now they're my age. I'm still entranced with them. When I do a search, I look for 29-55...
I remember at my last job, a woman came in, she was easily in her 50's, but she was so attractive, and sexy. It was her vibe, not her body. I just wanted to give it up.
Remember Jessica Tandy? Man, she was sexy. She was "old," too.
It's all a state of mind. I think I prefer older. Younger women turn me on physically, but they all seem so goofy, so... ignorant.
I go into the Starbucks, or the bank, and these girls, they flirt, and they're hot, but... I think about it and I'm like... they have body... but they don't have anything else. Whereas I'll see some woman in her 40's in the grocery store and homegirl is kickin with teh sex vibes... I would rather go there.
Even if we just hang out, and nothing physical ever happens, I bet she can give good conversation. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 2:13:42 PM | It doesn't matter, to me. When I was young, in my twenties, I was entranced with 'older' women. Now they're my age. I'm still entranced with them. When I do a search, I look for 29-55...
I remember at my last job, a woman came in, she was easily in her 50's, but she was so attractive, and sexy. It was her vibe, not her body. I just wanted to give it up.
Remember Jessica Tandy? Man, she was sexy. She was "old," too.
It's all a state of mind. I think I prefer older. Younger women turn me on physically, but they all seem so goofy, so... ignorant.
I go into the Starbucks, or the bank, and these girls, they flirt, and they're hot, but... I think about it and I'm like... they have body... but they don't have anything else. Whereas I'll see some woman in her 40's in the grocery store and homegirl is kickin with teh sex vibes... I would rather go there.
Even if we just hang out, and nothing physical ever happens, I bet she can give good conversation. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 2:20:46 PM | as long as you click with the person and it's mutual, forget age enjoy your life  | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 2:31:20 PM | | well age matters but im not talking about chronological age...im talking about mental age.....some ppl arnt the age they are....according to my date of birth im 25 but in terms of what i want to do and life experience im about 18 or 19...some pl cant be with ppl their own age because theyre at different places...im not ready to settle down...most women my age are meaning i need to date girls who are 18-20 kinda thing. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 7:00:18 PM | Who cares? The people who trip about this have too much time on their hands. As hard as it is to hookup at all, why criticize people who DO get together?
I'm older, but I would like to have a kid, so I have to date younger. If someone has a problem with that, why would I care?
I happen not to care much about what people think.
Not that i don't care about people, but that I live my life doing the best I can with the cards I've been dealt.
From what I have seen, many young men are extremely immature, especially these days.
This the ONLY country in the entire world where there are people who think that you must date and mate someone your own age.
Who cares? | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 7:07:26 PM | | I don't think age really matters. I know that is cliche. But, everyone matures at such different rates depending on mentality and life experiences. I do perfer men just a slightly bit older than me. We tend to have more in common. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:01:51 PM | I think it is between the two of you I don't think age is a problem. My sister dateing a man that was 20 years older then her. thay got mared a few years ago and are doing grate.  | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/18/2007 2:04:34 AM | | When I was 22 I had an affair with a 52 year old woman. IOt was great, we went out to fether for about 18 months. She was blonde and slim and had the best legs. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/18/2007 3:06:56 AM | | I don't think age is a big thing at all. Except I have never been with anyone younger than me, always been interested in older guys. I was 18 and going out with a 28 year old, and he was cool with that, i was cool with that and my family were fine because they seen our attraction, it never ended up working out because it ended up being a lost distance relationship and I am now in a relationship with a guy only a year older than i am, and we have a baby due in 12 weeks, but I definately think that that age difference really works for some people! | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/18/2007 3:32:47 AM | | I think that it really depends on the guy for me.. I used to think that a huge age diffrence would not be compatable.. but depending on how much life one has lived and where a person is headed... on how much an age diffrence would make. I would consider a few years not a big deal when your in your 30s and 40s etc.. but in your early twenties... um.... well... I think that I have issues.. once a person hits 25 and on.. things start to change perspectives on life start to change.. or at least they should! LOL! | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/18/2007 6:59:42 AM | | Check it out. I am 35 and the average age for the men that I date are around 23. I don't mind an older man but sometimes they just aren't fun. I am just not ready for a rocking chair yet even if some days I feel like I'm 80. | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/18/2007 8:48:22 AM | | Ive got a question... about age. Ive chatted with so many 30s 40s women who claim that 20yr olds are hitting on them. So if 20 yr old males are after 40 yr old females who is chasing the 20 yr old females? | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/18/2007 10:10:17 AM | | I don't want to date anyone too much older or younger than me, maybe 5 years either way but the closer to my age the better for me. | |
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jg65
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Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 121 | |
| age differance and dateing
Posted: 8/29/2007 2:08:24 PM | Age Shmage
if there is a connection, it does not really matter
been with 51 yr old woman when 33
been with 22 year old when 39
last was 5 years older than me (her 46, me 41)
if it works, feels good, ok | |
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nmwjmw
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Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 122 | |
| age differance and dateing
Posted: 8/29/2007 8:10:14 PM | | I get hit on by younger men a lot... I havent dated any of them simply because of the conversations before a date... It always veers towards sex and since I am looking for more than just a bump I usually thwart the whole thing... However... sometimes a bump is good for the spirit... smile... but you are right I like to play with boys my own age because we have had more experience.... less party time more wandering and wondering time.... Now thats fun if you ask me! | |
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| age differance and dateing
Posted: 8/29/2007 8:13:18 PM | | well, i just got out of a relationship with a 17 year old, we met when she was 14, and I was 17, and were just friends for a long time, 3 years later yea... here I am and I don't want to be with her either right now. | |
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| Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 8/29/2007 9:34:37 PM | | I have been all over the board on age. One girl I really liked was a lot younger than me and extremley mature for her age- and very hot!! I just didnt want a girlfriend. I think you just click where ever you click. I have found great women can be any age and so can wicked crazy ones. I do think the 18 is too young emotionally, unless you want to goto prom again | |
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| Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 9/9/2007 7:55:38 AM | Did you know that in poor nations--age has never really mattered. IN the world today--we're not ptromised a life that goes to 75 or 85 years. We have to grab the love when we get it. Just think if you are 31 and the Woman is 41--whats the matter with that? What if she is 50 and a very good lover and loves you dearly--why sweat the technique??
We are a nation with so much technology and we are lost in the ways to have a decent relationship. We let age be a factor for blocking anything in this world that is beautiful. Now I think the Woman should be at least 21...then you have see the maturity factors too.But--don't freak out over the age thing---Let the Women hit on you and become friends. Why not?? It can prove to be adventagous in the long run...Lee | |
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