| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 6:54:37 AM | Oh OP, its so obvious that you are giving your "all" to your marriage... I mean, just look how obvious it is in your "divorced seeking man" profile; I quote: "Iam currently in a relationship with a man who is spending way too much time out of town. I love attention,and am looking for someone who likes to give it! I'm looking for someone who can fill in the gaps when my lover can't be here. You must be open minded and not have a problem with sharing me with my lover. If your still interested than message me." Really, you are obviously a considerate, generous person - willing to share & all that... let's see, you've got this husband (or is that someone else) who spends way too much time out of town & you're wanting to share the booty (see how generous she is people) with someone who can fill in the gaps (is that the booty? lol) when you're lover can't be there... oh my head hurts, are you currently involved with 2 or 3 men? 5 or 6?10/12?
I wonder, while you've been so busy "giving", how many std's have you given to them?
Can do nothing but shake my head at the stupidity I see here in you & your ideas but can better understand why so many men think women are selfish, inconsiderate, lying whores... you not only do ALL men a great injustice with your blanket statement of "oh poor, poor me, the bad men won't do what I say" but you also do a great injustice to ALL women, who are sincere, caring & honestly seeking a "one on one" relationship without stupid games like you obviously like to play.
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 10:00:36 AM | First of all OP, everyone knows you lied on your profile. I think your man should spend even more time out of town. Who knows maybe he'll find someone decent. As for you I hope all those men your f***ing on the side are all using protection. Women and men like you should be reported to the World Health Organization.  | |
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 10:16:43 AM | OP....
You have on your profile deivorce why would you put that KNOWING you have an ole man who is always out of town and you make a thread about why do women give all in a relationship" when you, wanting SOMEBODY else on the side knowing your already in an commited relationship with your boyfriend"....Sorry to say this because i'm all about FAIRNESS and HONESTY and TREATING others with respect but, your "boyfriend" is better off with somebody else because who acturally wants to stay in a relationship when there is no trust...and if trust is "sleeping around, on your loved one" than makes me wonder what this world has come to. | |
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 11:15:36 AM | "Why do we give everything to keep our relationships going? And still end up alone? I am married to a much younger man, and have done everything for him. Now our relationship is falling a part and i don't know what to do to save it. any help?"
If you cannot see the fallacy in that question, do the rest of us a favour. | |
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 11:43:27 AM | Im a bit lost...Im sorry (sammi4luv), "Are you married"?..On a dating site...Married a much younger man...Your 48 years old...How much younger (younger man)?...You did everything for him?... How does one help you?...The answers are right in front of ya, "hopefully"... Any help?...Im really sorry... Im sure you gave everything in your relationship...But did he?...Sounds like you picked a real winner...I apologize, for saying (possibly the truth)...Ive been where you at..."Younger woman"...I knew better...But I made the stupid choice...Never again (knocks on wood).. Good luck...Hopefully time will mend your wounds.. | |
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 12:03:38 PM | | Stupid me...I should have read this persons (profile)...Damnit...Geez...Dumb...Ah well, "internet dating is full of all kinds, cheats, attention whores...Need I say more... | |
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 12:04:59 PM | One of the first replies asked for more information but without knowing any more about the actual circumstances of your particular train wreck, your profile is scary in light of this post. Unless written with farcical intent, I suggest that the first thing you do to save your marriage is stop trolling the Internet for sex.
Or perhaps the post is trolling for people to read your profile and respond to what you are so obviously offering and seeking. | |
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 12:35:59 PM | Self Esteem Self Esteem Self Esteem Self Esteem Self Esteem
I hope you raised your children with more of a sense of self than you have. Sex is not the answer to happiness.It does not prove anyone likes you for you.
And women give everything in a realtionship because they feel worthless...................
relationships are a 2 way street
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| why do women give eveything in a relationship Posted: 7/7/2008 12:46:02 PM | | i had that moment, "i gave him everything"...everything i can possibly give him. it ended, it sucked, but then life goes on. we got back together, but i've learned my lesson. NEVER give him (any man) your all. | |
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