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 pnayplayr
Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 26
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i thought this was a typical guy thing. i know some guys have watched it together just cuz. they usually would be like, "whoaw...hot tits!" i don't know, it's just for entertainment, like watching action movies...not necessarily to jerk off to. isn't it the same concept as guys going to stripclubs together??
 lateef7842
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 27
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:21:55 PM
This whole thread should be re-named, " Is it ok for straight guys, who are insecure about there manhood, to be watching porn together with no women around?"

Is it OK for straight guys to go to a topless bar without bringing women with them? Of course it is. It's the same principle for some guys. They're just siting around watching a$$ and bits. However, you know what they say, "The smeller is the feller."

Lateef
 night501
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:23:55 PM
Back in the day i used to hang out with this guy named zeke.
Whenever he had more than 3 guests over he would pop in a skin flick and we would all just sit around talking. it was more like background noise. I felt it was weird but you know what they say "Diffrent strokes for diffrent folks"(pun totaly intended )
 LinesvillesFinest
Joined: 7/1/2008
Msg: 29
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:54:29 PM
Back in highschool, I used to go to the pre-game varsity football parties and eat pizza and watch tv. After a few parties, we started getting into the party hosts' father's porno collection. I can remember quite vividly classic Ron Jeremy flicks on his living room couch next to 15 year old JV players with wide eyes and gaping mouths. It wasn't a sexual thing, it was the guys... watching pornos. I guess it would be kind of like when guys go to strip clubs in a group or attend bachelor's parties. Anyway, we had to stop the porn-a-palooza's because the youngsters were lining up to fondle themselves in the bathroom... and that's just gross.
 pen city guy
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 30
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 2:12:09 PM
Total splits ville dude.. You did the right thing.. But then is it ok for a couple guys to sit together and watch stippers in the bar.. hum tough one. I like to watch the strippers when I go with girls, but I have gone with my buddies too.. Porn NO!!! strippers is ok but better with girls.. Porn NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 31
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 2:51:12 PM
maybe it's just me, but how is a bunch of buddies sitting around in a living room drinking beer and watching porn that different from those same buddies out in a bar full of other men drinking beer and watching strippers? i mean it's a room full of men getting drunk and sexually excited over women they can't touch or f*ck. same deal as far as i can tell. ...and i'm guessing that the latter scenario wouldn't seem "weird" to the OP at all. *lol*
 imablast
Joined: 3/20/2008
Msg: 32
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 3:11:25 PM
Ok the problem here is the number of men in the room! 2 is just wrong. If there had been say 8-12 then thats ok.

Now to defend this stance.
With 8-12 you have enough men there that no one will be even thinking gay thoughts. all comment will be on the ladies doing the deed!

2 is just not enough dudes to watch porn.

One more question was this straight porn or gay porn?!?!?!
 night501
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2008 3:13:59 PM
its diffrent at a strip club because even though you cant touch the girls, at least there is a girl in the vicinity
 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 34
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 3:18:13 PM
^^^ i disagree. while physically there are women present in a strip-club, they aren't being interacted with as people, rather they are commodities, objects, and fixtures. quite different from how guys might interact if they had a few women sitting around in a private home watching porn with them. so as far as i'm concerned, my comparison stands.

male logic and this whole straight boy paranoia about appearing "gay" is pretty amusing to me sometimes.
 Osobluewithoutu
Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 35
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 3:25:09 PM
I love your "Rules for Straight Guys!"

that's funny stuff!!
 sxyvirgo
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 36
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 6:35:07 PM
Exactly how is that different from a bunch of guys going to a strip club together?...same thing but cheaper!
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 37
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 7:39:20 PM
"But how is a bunch of buddies sitting around in a living room drinking beer and watching porn that different from those same buddies out in a bar full of other men drinking beer and watching strippers?"

You really are comparing apples to oranges. When i go to strip clubs there are plenty of women around, I don't know what strip club you go to but the ones i used to go to, The women there were available if your game was tight enough. Getting excited in a room filled with naked women is totally different that getting excited in a room full of men and the only available women are in your tv screen. HOMEY DON'T PLAY THAT.
 75october09
Joined: 4/18/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 7:43:57 PM
OP,

Your not weird for thinking it's weird for a group of grown guys just to be sitting around watching porn together. If I walked in on that I would get the F outta there too and wouldn't' stick around for any explanation.
 Whataboutbob1
Joined: 7/17/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2008 7:56:10 PM
aaaaaa...NOPE...unless it is running at a bachelor party.
 75october09
Joined: 4/18/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:08:40 PM
Wildman46 wrote:


HOMEY DON'T PLAY THAT.



I agree with you wildman46, a strip club is totally different. A strip club is a public place I don't ever ....EVER,EVER, EVER..want to be in a private place full of grown men getting excited watching porn.
 ottfwb
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 41
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 8:48:01 PM
Back in my highschool days, we had a party over at a friends. Lots of drinking, though I don't know if there were any females, but we had some porn playing. None of us are/were gay. With that said, part of the night I was talking on the phone with a female, and when asked I'd say we were having "phone sex"

Fast forward several years, and this time we got satellite porn on the tv, on several occasions there was a female presence.

In none of these situations, did we sit down to watch it with the intention of getting aroused. It was not the feature entertainment of the evening. More like background music. If anyone did get aroused and needed to take care of it, they could either leave the room or get booted out.

What I'd consider weird is going camping with a bunch of guys (although I didn't make it that time), and one evening one of the guys sat out by the campfire in nothing but his boots, and did the one-handed shuffle. Let's make it clear that he was a little odd, edging on the bi side, but the rest of the group of friends are very clearly straight.
 ottfwb
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 42
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 9:04:31 PM

i disagree. while physically there are women present in a strip-club, they aren't being interacted with as people, rather they are commodities, objects, and fixtures. quite different from how guys might interact if they had a few women sitting around in a private home watching porn with them. so as far as i'm concerned, my comparison stands.

male logic and this whole straight boy paranoia about appearing "gay" is pretty amusing to me sometimes.


I agree with Crazycurlz. For those trying to claim that a strip club and a porn video are two separate things, is arguing semantics.

You wouldn't mind being around being drunk and horny guys as long as the female entertainment is 3d
 AgelessWonder
Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 43
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 9:23:15 PM
Oh good grief, of course they were there without women. Their wives were at a chippendale bar the same night!

Wonder what is next? So straight guys have to watch porn alone. Maybe if they are in the same house, they could have 2 DVDs and separate rooms, that would make it more straight?
 *JustAnotherGirl*
Joined: 6/18/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 9:23:40 PM
You know, if I walked into the same situation I wouldn't have even blinked twice. Straight guys like looking at naked chicks. Porn has naked chicks. Seems like a logical mix to me.
 dcamnc
Joined: 8/14/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2008 10:17:01 PM
We used to do this when I was younger. Sit around drinking, porn on one tv, sports or video game on another, drinking games going on, etc.. Just part of the background. There were ususally plenty of girls there too, they didn't seem to mind the porn.
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2008 11:17:44 PM
Nothing wrong with that.I was in the military when I was younger.A lot of us guys would set around drinking beer talking about some sexy women we would like.Of course it is more fun to watch porn with a woman .
 Sardonis
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 47
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 11:34:39 PM
I once watched a really disgusting porno( crack head actors, bad skin, bad light, bugs flying around) with a female neighbor and platonic friend once while taking bong hits. It was part of the contents in a box belonging to another neighbor who had moved out and we wanted to see inside his mind.

It was no big deal.
 mick2521
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 7:52:03 AM
Of course it's normal for guys to watch porn together. It's an important part of the bonding process. Men bond through sports, through beer and through sex.

However, I do find it funny when heterosexual guys bond over porn scenes featuring female homosexual activity. LOL.
 fourletterfame
Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 49
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/8/2008 7:58:18 AM
Some years back I worked at a local video store, as a weekend opener. The friend of mine that I opened with created a ritual for every time we opened the store. He would put the new Porn DVDs into the player and play them through the stores multiple televisions, while the drawers were counted in and we put movies away. He would critique the movies as we worked and it was by far the funniest commentary I had ever heard.

Is it okay? Yea, I'm fine with it. It may not be every guys cup-of-tea, but among friends it's acceptable.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 50
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/8/2008 9:13:01 AM
" Wonder what is next? So straight guys have to watch porn alone. Maybe if they are in the same house, they could have 2 DVDs and seperate rooms, that would make it more straight?"

Yea that would be much better than watching it together in the same room. I need a buffer when i do anything with only another man, if i go to the movies with another man, there has to be a seat between us, can't be sharing popcorn or candies from the same package either.
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