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 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 76
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I never said guys watching porn were gay, I said it's something that i would never ever think about doing. Personally i don't watch porn for the acting, so discussing it with friends is not high on my to do list.

I watch porn to get excited, that's the only reason i watch it. Why then would i be watching it around a bunch of guys?
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 PiNkLaDiE
Joined: 6/3/2005
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:42:44 AM
Personaly my view on this whole thread is that there is nothing wrong with two men watching porn together. We are heh emmmm in the year 2008. lol :)
Newsflash....TONS OF MEN DO IT! (I am not saying everyman does) but if it is something your pals like to do hey...go fo it. Exactly how do men get to see different sexual ideas...?. Could help! Does that mean that people who like threesome's are all gay?, or better yet what about sex conventions??. LMAO Noone said that they were turning eachother on...also if and only IF they were going to MABEY have sex afterward...lol. Would that not be thier decision?. As long as they were secure with thier decision. I think that sometimes people need to encourage healthy sexual appetites...! I am very much pro-choice when it comes to what people want for themselves. We are all human and there really is not a wrong or right way to having mindfull sex! It all boils down to what you are comfy with....they must be secure with thier sexuality....! Also, Im sure everyone has a friend who is gay, bi-sexual...etc. we love our friends because they are friends..! Again not trying to offend anyone with my opinion..this is just my opinion. :)
 dp96021
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 78
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:19:28 AM
it's ok for straight guys to watch porn together. hell, they'd all pull it out and masturbate, that way when they go out with girls and make fun of the sizes of each others**** in front of the girls, you'd notice the "smaller" of the bunch wouldn't say sh*t.lol
 dp96021
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 79
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:24:09 AM
this opinion by pinkladie is interesting. yes, a lot of people, (not just guys) LOVE to masturbate. i do even if i have sex daily, i love my "alone" time. would you like to watch a dude jack off sometime in front of you live? or would you rather have sex with him
/ does that kind of thing turn you on or no
/ just a personal q. i know a few girls that love watching me masturbate in front of them. some can't hold back though and wanna f**k. some just watch. do girls get turned on as much as guys from watching that kind of stuff
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 blueeyedgirl42
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 80
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:16:30 AM

the giggleparts - could you describe the ruckus, sir?


Classic! Judd Nelson is awesome as John Bender..."Impossible, sir. It's in Johnson's underwear!"
 RainbowValley
Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 81
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:29:27 AM
I totally agree with wildman, i'm not one for watching porn with other guys, heck i don't even talk about sex with guys,i know most do but its a personal thing with me.
 imsickofthegame
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 82
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:29:39 AM
Bender. That old softie.

I've watched porn with my male friends before. It just wasn't for sexual purposes. It was like we were judging the quality of the performers and the directing. Kind of like "wow, she looks pretty nice, might have to borrow this when you leave" kind of thing.

Watching porn with friends is like being at a crowded strip club. You enjoy what you're looking at but you don't necessarily hope an orgy breaks out with your comrades. At least in my experience.
 imsickofthegame
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 83
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:33:00 AM
I should point out that isn't an activity that takes any preference- we don't plan dates to do it- someone will usually just say "Hey I got this great new porno" and someone will say "throw it in, lemme check it out".

There's nothing wrong with guys who DON'T like to do this, but to make it gay is silly. Some of us are secure in our masculinity and friendship to not be so uptight when porn is onscreen or the topic of discussion.

As for finding it pleasurable? You BET I'm going to be with a woman, or by myself, if the porn is being enjoyed for its actual purpose.
 usmc67
Joined: 4/4/2008
Msg: 84
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:11:26 AM
its fine I did it in college wtf why is everything 10 fold now..like getting into a fight everyone sues and goes to jail.. get OVER IT... THERE IS PEOPLE DYING IN IRAQ FOR A GREDDY ASS PRESIDENT.. I LOVE PORN..LOL
 Smile-Hello
Joined: 3/21/2008
Msg: 85
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/12/2008 1:51:02 PM
There is nothing wrong with men sitting around watching porn - that has gone on since porn was made. They are entitled to their fantasies and dreams! Who knows, if it wasn't crude hard core porn when they come home you just might have a very enjoyable evening putting the fire out!
 voodoo_doll
Joined: 6/13/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 8:26:18 AM
well, I wouldn't say it was wierd. In my experience when guys get together with a few beers watching porn it's more of a laugh than anything. They don't watch it with the same intnsity as alone or with a female. I'm sure guys out there would agree with me !
 TheStefano
Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 87
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/13/2008 8:34:32 AM
Men sharing erotic experiences together is called homosexuality.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 88
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 3:41:50 AM

I should call this my rules for straight guys.


If you know you're straight why do you need rules reinforce it?
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/14/2008 4:01:48 AM
Wildman, you've got too many rules. Have you heard of the book "Real men don't eat quiche" Well, here's the alert: Do you know what a real man eats? Answer -- Anything he wants. It sounds to me like your sexuality is a lot more threatened than anybody doing anything you mentioned.

Here's my question:

If a man yells in the woods, and there isn't a woman around to hear him; is he still wrong?
 Yellowglen
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 90
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 4:24:55 AM
I guess the OP would never attend a "porn and prawn" night down at the local footy club..............no women allowed
 1samrap
Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 91
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 5:52:07 AM
Hey OP...

this post made me laugh. as i've often wondered why men would do this as well.

once i walked in on my then husband and his friend watching a porn video. they got all embarassed and acted like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar and were going to turn it off. i said no, leave it on let me grab a drink i'll watch it with you. his friend was pleased and said i was awesome...

needless to say, i still don't understand it...maybe it is to compare notes with each other and learn new moves for their female partners...who knows. to each their own i guess....

just cuz i don't understand it doesn't make it wrong...no harm no foul i guess...

as always, just my opinion
 cupcakegirlmn
Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 7/14/2008 8:42:49 AM
this kind of thing has been going on since the invention of film. hell, even before that. it seems pretty normal to me to have guys gathered around a dirty magazine (or drawings, if you want to go back 200 years), looking at naked women. progress that into guys sitting on a couch watching a DVD. same thing.

i wouldn't worry too much about it. and no, it doesn't mean they are gay.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 93
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:00:28 PM
" just cuz i don't understand it doesn't make it wrong"

Actually i don't think it's wrong myself, it's just something i would ever think about doing myself.

These guys are still my friend, but i will be sure to ask the name of the picture if i am invited over to watch a movie.
 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
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Posted: 7/14/2008 9:08:42 PM
maybe they were gettin ready to go out on the town to pick up some babes..ain't nothing like watching some porn to get cha all in the mood for some serious..hardcore action...first porn,then nudie bar..then wherever the horny woman are that night.
 open minded 1
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 95
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:18:34 PM
Its fine to be watching porn together especially if you are a confident heterosexual. If it gives you the creeps you most likely doubt your own sexuality!
 Fun Exec
Joined: 6/13/2008
Msg: 96
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:25:34 PM
Just 2 guys having fun, like 2 women watching chick flicks...how does that make them gay?

The list (of what str* guys should never do) displays a one track, narrow mind; why can't people accept the diversity and direct their discriminatory ways towards a communist environment?
 mick2521
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 7/14/2008 9:49:08 PM
I think most men enjoy the idea of bonding with their buddies. Sports, drinking, voyeurism...it's all in the mix of friendship between men. Men often turn each other on with comments about a sexy woman - it's a form of mental mutual stimulation.

Keep in mind that male sexuality is heavily under the influence of adrenalin. Men often get an incredible high by being constantly elevated to a point of near-orgasm, their adrenalin levels being kept just at sub-orgasmic level. When straight men get together, it's a coming together of these elevated levels of adrenalin. Watching porn together gives them the release without the hassles of a nagging girlfriend.
 fire_chaser
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 98
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:52:45 PM
Not gay at all. why do you think its gay when two guys are watching tits bouncing around on t.v. i think your the gay one not wanting to watch the T and A. Have you ever went to a strip bar before with another guy.....i think your more than a homophobe...
 thatswhatshesaid
Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 99
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:57:52 PM
Some guys watch so much porn they are totally desensitized and may as well be watching cartoons or daytime tv. They don't even concentrate on it that hard and it's not a big deal, just on in the background while they chat.

It's not like when the game is on. Then they're REALLY watching.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 100
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:53:43 AM
" Some guys watch porn so much they become totally desensitized and may as well be watching cartoons or daytime tv"

God i hope i never become one of those guys. The day i stop being excited watching porn, is the day i stop watching porn.
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