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 Seriouslytaken
Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 101
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No watching Pornos!!!!!
Get a real woman.
3 guys together? They must have felt desperate.
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 102
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:35:40 AM
maybe it was a new tv set, a very large screen? they just wondered what a porno would look like on something that large, i know men who buy very large tv's just to watch sports or play their video games, why not see what a porno looks like on a massive scale. now if everyone started to chant "free willy" then i would have left.
 corindan
Joined: 7/13/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2008 1:18:09 PM
Straight guys do not watch porn when other straight guys are around and no women are around. You may as well ask if cows fly low in the winter. Watching porn is-for guys-a prelude to sex. Your friends are gay...at least enough to be bi. Since there were no women, they are probably full blown gay and wanted no women.
 alicia60
Joined: 12/10/2006
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/16/2008 4:07:50 PM
Nothing wrong with it. It is entertainment, men doing the guy thing. Watching the forbidden.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/18/2008 3:18:29 AM
OH OH OH...the absolute best...Rebel, you reminded me of something when I was younger. There was a bar in Oklahoma City years ago that had male strippers one night a week. No men allowed in the bar until 11PM. At 11 they would open the doors, and we'd walk into a bar FULL of horney women! .....and the tables were turned.......They'd be grabbing us on the a$$; and buying us drinks!
 2yourhealth
Joined: 1/11/2008
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/18/2008 7:42:55 PM
if they want to but if guys go to strip clubs with girls i hope its a guy stripping
 IT-Guy
Joined: 10/25/2007
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Posted: 7/19/2008 1:52:44 AM
Man up! Accept who they are and what they do...even if it may be with each other. I have found that the most homophobic people have homosexual desires themselves. Or they were molested as a child. I know of a guy who beat gays as a teen and young man. He has told me a couple of times that enjoys being on the receiving end of a good time. It's funny how men think women should enjoy anal sex, but men should not. I still think, in general, women are the better sex. They are more honest, caring, open and accepting. (Disclaimer: I do know there are exceptions...hopefully as few as I believe) If you are having issues with what your friends doing, you better pay closer attention to what you are doing and what you need to deal with. When people have sicknesses, they think if they can avert peoples eyes and attention to someone else, their own problems no longer exist. I say this because I think everyone can go astray when they are not aware of what's going on...get some help, you won't regret it.
 LSebastien
Joined: 7/7/2007
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Posted: 6/1/2010 11:54:00 AM
I would be very uncomfortable. However, I'm gay and have no attraction to my straight friends whatsoever, so hence the uncomfortableness.

Now, if I was straight, I would be neither attracted NOR repulsed by other guys so I would be indifferent to them being in the same room. It would be no different than playing video games together or watching sports. If anything, it would be just another bonding activity.

If a 'straight' guy feels uncomfortable being in the same room with other guys watching porn or even jacking off, then they are insecure in their own sexuality and need to be more honest with themselves.

It's one thing if you're just not a sexual person (not into porn much) and would not participate because you'd be bored but it's a different thing altogether if such activity actually makes you uncomfortable or squemish.

Judging from the responses on here, I'd say there are lot of bi curious guys on here who are repressing that part of themselves.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 6/1/2010 1:47:26 PM
I've done it with my guy buddies before. Nobody seemed to have a problem with it. There definitely was no masturbating going on though. Hell, when I was living in the dorms, we were likely to have porn going while we were playing video games.
 corrour
Joined: 1/15/2008
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Posted: 6/5/2010 7:04:35 AM
No issues here. We used to have porn on and some tunes before we all headed into town on the lash no matter whose house we started at!!!!! What we supposed to watch ..... friends (Well maybe if Jennifer Anniston got naked). I think the wierdness depends on how sheltered a life you have lead. When i was in the military we had it broadcast round the accomodation 24hrs a day.
 goodone4ya
Joined: 10/12/2004
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Posted: 6/12/2010 8:10:00 PM
No its not ok--thats like riding in a car on a rainy night listening to slow music wit male friends ewww
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 6/13/2010 4:26:03 PM
So long as the porn you are watching is between two
consenting adults then of course it's ok for two men
too watch it together.

If they also happen to want to masturbate while watching
it then why would that be wrong? Heck if they want to jack
each other off then there is nothing wrong with that either.


Nothing sexual that two consenting adults do with each other
is wrong.
 passionteman
Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 113
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 6/13/2010 5:18:57 PM
I don't see anything wrong with that. I have gone to my friend's place where he has played some porn and everyone has enjoyed watching it.

But..................

There is no masturbation circle or anything - just commenting on the action and how the boobs look or the **** lips or ass. :)
 anonymouslyme
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 6/13/2010 8:02:30 PM
Not really all that strange.. (unless it was GAY porn?)
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 115
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Posted: 6/15/2010 2:59:53 AM

naturally i see nothing wrong with two or more women just hanging out watching dirty movies) .


Naturally? why would this be any different from two or men watching porn together? Aren't they the same sex too. Women are as visual as men and get horny too.

I don't see the difference here? Except if I was invited by a female friend to come over and she and her female friends were watching porn and I was the only man...of course I would stay....lol.

But a few things to consider...was this a regular event like playing cards on Thursday night? Did they initially meet on Craigslist? Did they give you that look when you came in? Were any of them dressed as females? Did your friend charge admission? was there popcorn and drinks for sale?

I probably would have left to, not because I would have worried about these guys getting horny and getting out of hand, but because I have better things to do than sitting around watching porn with other men.

Is this strange? Not sure...I remember when porn wasn't so availiable and sometimes someone would get a hold of some, and a few might watch it together, but nothing ever happened, but that was many moons ago....These days its so availiable I figure most would prefer to watch it alone or with a partner.
 Cat*Eyes
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Posted: 6/15/2010 4:13:29 AM
This is not a good thing to do. I thought porn was for guys solo moments.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2011 8:04:27 AM


This is not a good thing to do. I thought porn was for guys solo moments.

you obviously never heard what happens in all boys private schools.

the soggy toast game...last one to blurt has to eat it or get the royal flush.
little jerkoff cliques behind the the sports shed.

I worked at a xxx shop for a month, seen it all.
only time I was shocked was two well dressed manly fellas bought a blow-up sheep - okaaay you think it might be for a bucks night novelty......noooooo the two durtee fokkers went to the wank lounge at the back of the shop and filled it up.!!!!

guys in a small group..2-3 watching ass filling porn.. they watch it long enough they'll be barrin up and someone then lends a hand and the third guy says ahhh what the hell starts the oral schtick finaaly the least powerful of the three alpha males becomes the ersatz ****! loads are dropped prostates massaged clothing back on consumption of beer drinking and hoghunting conversation resumes.

jus goo 'ol bois!
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 1/3/2011 8:20:57 AM
Man, how times have changed...who knew. When i was a kid my dad and his buds did this on more than the rare occasion. Someone had some 8mm"French" films and a projector...and it was ON. when I turned 18 they started inviting me too. I never saw ANY kind of "gay" longings there. the mood was always kinda raucous and loud. Like "Wow! Did you see that!!!??" when did this come to be thought of as somehow "gay"?
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
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Posted: 1/3/2011 8:38:43 AM
Yeah, add me to the list of: why would they be homosexual, or have to be, in order to watch porn together? How stuck up.
I've done it when younger. We'd pick movies we thought were good. And it was a hoot because we were so darn picky. We'd reject movies most others liked! -based on the looks of the performers -

And even if you jerk off in the same room- so what?? One has to be full of all kinds of hang ups and fears of homosexuality to somehow feel uncomfortable. Going to strip clubs with other guys is ok but because you're locked up in a room with other guys it's not appropriate

oh, myyyyyyyyyyyyyy...
 bilby886
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Posted: 1/3/2011 6:13:32 PM
ok then........
consider being invited to a beer drinkin porno session with me and my two neighbours.

We'll all be in a small dark room, lounging around watching ass filling porn for .....ooooh I don't know maybe three or four hours? B** likes to jerk off while watching ...do you mind?
whaddytink?
we're friendly!


Naaahhhhhh! beh!

alternative version:
a bunch of sapphic syrens indigenous to the Island of Lesbos invite me to watch the soul intoxicating oracle of Delphi during the festival of Dionysus............
.hmmm let me think (1 millisecond later the penny drops) yeah baby yeah :banana:
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
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Posted: 1/3/2011 7:19:22 PM

ok then


Was your post for me? If it was, I'm not bothered by the first scenario but the second one naturally makes one feel like traveling to the Island of Lesbos...

if you put it that way, you leave me no room for dissent!
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 1/7/2011 1:54:29 PM
This is too funny! The "titillation thresholds" of some of you guys must be just dangerously Looooow! Is it that ya'll think guys wouldn't be able to do this without boners ripping through pants???? Or that the guys would get so horny that they'd just spontaneously start humping one another??? What? Tell us, What's the fear???
I gotta say, I've never seen so many young guys so , afraid of appearing, acting like, or being thought of as "gay". What is it with this current generation of guys anyway?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 1/19/2011 9:25:22 AM
If a 'straight' guy feels uncomfortable being in the same room with other guys watching porn or even jacking off, then they are insecure in their own sexuality and need to be more honest with themselves.

You're projecting. I'm straight and not only would I feel uncomfortable watching porn and whacking off with other guys in the room, apart from a woman I was dating or contemplating sex with, I'd feel uncomfortable doing that with other girls in the room. I can't see how masturbating in front of others would be comfortable unless it was tied to those others in some sexual way. I don't take a dump in front of others either, but that doesn't mean I'm secretly into scat.

Judging from the responses on here, I'd say there are lot of bi curious guys on here who are repressing that part of themselves.

No, you're just projecting your sexual orientation on others under the misguided assumption that because you don't find it weird to masturbate in front of men (to who you're sexually attracted), that straight people should feel the same way. Sorry, but I can't see the point of whacking off in front of people unless the intent is to sexually arouse them or I get arouused by them watching me. I'm not aroused by the thought of a guy watching me and given that I'm straight, I can't see why I should be aroused by guys watching me or want to arouse guys.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 1/19/2011 10:10:01 AM
As a boy, when sex was something shiny and new... And forbidden, I would take any chance I had to watch porn. Other guys being present just meant I wasn't going to beat off to it. (I was sure as hell memorizing it for later though.) As a grown man, I really don't see the point...
 arwen52
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Posted: 1/19/2011 9:30:42 PM
Okay with whom? Their moms? Their wives? Their girlfriends? Their other male friends who walk in and find them doing it?

I guess what adults want to do of their own free will that isn't hurting anyone is okay. Isn't this what some guys would do at bachelor parties? Watch "stag films"?

I don't get it but I've heard of guys doing it. It's not my cup of tea but I can't see where they are doing anyone any harm. I also think there's nothing uptight about a guy not wanting to participate in it.

How is this much different that a guy going to a strip club with other guys? I don't see the point of that, either. I mean, if I'm going to put myself in a situation to get turned on, I'd like to be able to *do* something about it. But some people like it. As long as they don't bother me, why should I care?
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