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| Security & the Single Girl
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:47:15 PM | Toomuch, I misunderstood your post related to the movie. I concur, I also must say I cannot for the life of me figure out why someone selects a movie in the first 4 dates. How are you supposed to get to know someone in a dark movie theatre watching a movie? Picnic's, coffee, dinner, outdoor street festivals there are litterally dozens of things to do that will allow you to walk, talk, and find out who it is your dating.
I also changed my previous post, as I thought it should be general at the end. I was not trying to single you out. It is just that it has become very trying to guys, just to get to a first meet. Weeks of emails, IM's and phone calls then no shows, or worse, the hide and peek, where they hide somewhere and watch you, as though you don't recognize them. I get safety, I get make her feel secure, no one wants her to feel it more than a man trying to make a good first impression. I'm sorry you had those coffee incidents, there are probably 200 guys like myself who would like nothing better than to slap the sh*t out of those guys as they ruin it for the rest of us. Just like the other wacko beadonna had. I can only assure you I know alot more fella's think like me than them. Bob | |
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| Security & the Single Girl
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:05:03 PM | "I get safety, I get make her feel secure, no one wants her to feel it more than a man trying to make a good first impression."
Well, I do not do endless e-mails and phone calls. I meet within the first week to see if I want to take it further. Maybe it is just me, but I cannot become invested in someone via e-mails. I still consider them strangers until I have smelled them in person. That may just be me.
If I have a weird or bad experience, I do not lump all the guys together. I have enough trust in my gut to believe I can make safe decisions when meeting a guy for the first time. I can say I have never felt threatened on any of my dates, but I never put myself in any scary situations either and am always vocal about what works for me. | |
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