| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/9/2009 1:16:37 AM | 41 and 23, if you can rock it, ride the wave until it crashes on the beach.
Why guys that are 41 want a 23 yo old ....
No kidlets (specific example, your results may vary)
No ex spouse with an ugly divorce and bitter baggage (again see above caveat)
No sexual hang ups with a long list of wonts, donts, cants, and will not evers
No immediate plans of settling down and 'nesting'
And usually rounded and tight curves w/o surgery or work.
Again your results may vary, but this dirty old lech is quite happy to be exploring the other side of that coin. 41 & 23 Full of win. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/12/2009 12:22:00 PM | | I am actually surprised that younger men would like women who are so much older. While I understand the MILF thing and/or young men wanting to get with older women because they are usually (not always of course) more mature and play less games than younger women. However, I don't think the young men have thought about how older ladies can have or have had a lot more horrible experiences with men than younger girls have had. Meaning, that the older ladies have probably had more player experiences, jerk experiences, stalker experiences, abusive relationships, and divorces than younger women have in a sense which can almost ruin them to an extent. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/14/2009 2:04:40 AM | The answer to your question is: A 23 yr. old guy knows that an older woman is going to be really good in bed, as compared to a girl of 23. He also knows that an okder woman will show him how to please a woman in the bedroom, whereas a girl his own age would be more likely to criticize him for not knowing" what to do".
Also, older women aren't needy, or as expensive to date, they are independent, and have their own money. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:41:39 AM | "I am actually surprised that younger men would like women who are so much older. While I understand the MILF thing and/or young men wanting to get with older women because they are usually (not always of course) more mature and play less games than younger women. However, I don't think the young men have thought about how older ladies can have or have had a lot more horrible experiences with men than younger girls have had. Meaning, that the older ladies have probably had more player experiences, jerk experiences, stalker experiences, abusive relationships, and divorces than younger women have in a sense which can almost ruin them to an extent."
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Well, older men have always dated younger women and it's been accepted more or less everywhere. The other way around however, never has and never will. It's sort of taboo and that's what makes it "attractive". Both know that it's not going to last and without even exaggerating, 8 out of 10 cases are going to crash right after taking off so to speak. It's all about getting fuc.ked in the ass by someone who's half the age. It's also a sort of phenomena right now, a trend like any other. When you think about it, it really makes no sense either - how lack of experience can appeal to these people - seen from a cougar's perspective. But then again, it's the taboo thing that gives them a kick. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/23/2009 2:43:22 PM | It has been always said that a man in his 20's and a woman in her 40's are a perfect sexual match, because they are always horny. I know it's true for the guys, not so sure about women but it seems to be the case. At any rate, my vote go to MILF fantasy. For some reason that I still don't get, at that age is 'cool' to score on older women.
Take your own decisions, keep on  and you can always let go the ones you don't want  | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/25/2009 3:21:35 PM | The "older woman" thing is a lot like a teacher-student thing. It has sexual appeal to many people, so just accept that.
Also, they're not pursuing a long-term relationship with you per se... you're attractive to them and single. That's why they like you. Simple as that. They're not measuring long-term pluses & minuses as to the probability of things working out. Heck, they don't really know you at all anyway. They go after you because you're attractive and cool to them. People don't necessarily go after ONLY the ones who seem to have the long-term-relationship "stamp of approval" on their profile. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 11:20:00 AM | I remember Once a upon a time there was a 43 --y-o woman & a 23-y-o man -they were together for over 4 years - I think
think of the phrase that includes 'book' and 'cover'
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 11:53:12 AM | Ready for what?
Don't feel too special or flattered. Guys in early 20ties on free online dating sites only go for one thing...Sex...lots of sex without any responsibility or commitment nothing more or less than that.
I'm pretty sure most of the women here have same experiences being chased by much younger guys. Just don't take it seriously. You are just another warm body to them. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 3:11:31 PM | | You couldn't have said it better. As a twenty year old, I'm find it weird that I am solely attracted to women over 35. But I am who I am, and I'll suffer that. I have found it hard to find cougars in Seattle, though. Could you give me any tips? | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 4:45:12 PM | I have found it hard to find cougars in Seattle, though. Could you give me any tips?
a tip?............stop calling them cougars for starters | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 5:06:32 PM | hey vitog, I did some research for you.
Google cougar dating surprised too many sites coming up!!! but those seem not FREE like here you have some money for membership? LOL | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 5:13:48 PM | Quote (Obviously a 24 year old will never to ready to get into a serious relatioonship with a 41 year old.)
At the school I work at, one of our male 54 year old 5th grade teachers is seriously dating (for 3+ years now) our 24 yr old librarian. He has kids her age. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:28:33 PM | | sure let me enlighten you...you're looking for someone to say it's okay because at 41 you are in your prime before your reproductive system shuts down forever...that's why you're so dam horny and you want these guys. be very, very careful i know lots of women around 40 that go insane because of this and screw every man they can get their hands on. not a bad deal for men but may be for you.... | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/27/2009 9:31:52 PM | | Don't know why you ladies want to overanalyze this. Maybe to make yourselves feel better, i don't know. It's simple: It's about easy sex with NSA. A young guy ain't gonna marry a 40 something, but he'll hit it. Don't fool yourselves in believing a young guy can't tell you sag, have stretch marks, etc. You may still look good, but you don't have a 23 year old body, guys are the same way. If you want to do it, do it, just remember that's what it's about. It's the Desperate Housewives syndrome. They see it on tv, in the movies, and hear their buddies stories at college or work, so they feel they can get them a coug too. Men like easy nsa sex, they say goodbye, then go do what they want. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/28/2009 3:25:28 PM | Ick! I DO NOT see the attraction in dating a younger man, especially those in thier twenties!
OP; Either raise the minimum age requirements and/or just block 'em. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/29/2009 2:08:14 AM | | indeed you're not ready for this. you should ignore them and take up knitting or raising cats. C'mon, do you really think you're up for dating again at your age? | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:35:47 AM | | obviously airconditioninginthe summer, you have not been to any bars etc lately. There are tons of people in their 40's, 50's, and 60's out dating/socializing. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/29/2009 11:26:57 PM | girls their age DON'T MAKE ANY SENSE. they are too hard to understand and perhaps a mature women will make more sense to them..
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/29/2009 11:37:07 PM | OP If I was 23 I'd be contacting you too...you're a dead ringer for Rebecca Howe (Kirsty Alley) of Cheers!
Rebecca: How could you take advantage of a lonely, older woman like that?
Sam: Ohhh... sweetheart... When the lights go out, everybody is the same age and NOBODY is lonely.
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:27:44 AM | I hate to say this but you`re considered to be a MILF( Mothers I`d like to F***) .. These young guys want to experiment and take you for a test drive!They keep hearing a woman in their 40`s is sexually peaking and requires alot more sex.
Guess what?! In many instances it`s very true...:)
These young guys liken this as a rite of passage into manhood..
Good Luck... | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/30/2009 9:41:00 AM | | They under the impression we are horny and desperate. A great combination for guys. They think we just fall in bed. That is cool if that is what you are looking for. | |
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/30/2009 11:51:46 AM | This has been very interesting for me to read. I am now entering that age where I am still getting young guys after me, but the age difference is starting to get bigger and bigger.lol I am weird in that at 36, almost 37 I have never been married, divorced, baggage, kids of any sort, and have lived most of my life as well, a young person might. I am in school now again, and have had jobs where I could pursue my career and ambitions, so I have not been laden down with older women's responsibilities much nor know how that feels. In fact, I feel I relate more to young guys than guys my age! That's what makes it so hard, cause guys my age have had divorce, kids, and all this stuff that is so foreign to me, so I find it even harder to resist the young guys! Does that make me weird? LOL
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| 41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:20:17 PM | well actually there r young guys around 20s whore more attracted to older ladies over 30s n im 1 of them and im 19, its not that we cant get girls in our age , in fact girls r very much easier to soften up, but the fact that hot older women turn us on better than the younger ones do is just a natural feeling that some of us younger guys have towards older women, but honestly in the end, its just about sex for us ...
n yea u mightve heard about Milf Hunters... | |
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