But I am who I am, and I'll suffer that. I have found it hard to find cougars in Seattle, though. Could you give me any tips?

Yeah it actually. The older you get the more out of youre prime you get. I always laugh when some older women say "they are diliberatetly single, they havn't found what they want and who will be worthy of them" ... as any smart logical person knows we KNOW that is totally not true. That is they're actually saying is, that they have been constantly turned down and rejected by men in their age group. Now when bitterness sinks in, they try to get revenge on the men, by doing some of the things he has been doing, dating younger of the opposite genders has been one of them. It's unfortunate that they age so disgracefully (these specific types of "women" I am talking about), they had years to mature, which they should have, instead it appears like they blew it totally (many of them it seems have anyway), and now they are hatefull bitterness, and gossip, insult men and maybe more so at older men, and this all reflects their hate and their bitterness and frustration etc, in the process making them a disgrace by their words and actions.

There comes a time when you have to admit that you are not where you onse were and to humble yourself and just be try to yourself and not live in a fantasy world. People talk about this on other sites all the time how bitter many of the older ladies on Plentyoffish are. Like 80% of women above 40 seem to have some resentment and bitterness and anger in them. They can't think straight and thats really what I happen to be seeing alot on here too. As opposed to sending alot of apologies to people they put down, both men AND women, they just keep making this worse by being in denial of this and to be only thinking of themselves.

I beleive in making the best out of everyday in life!!!No body is perfect, but we all can be as good as we can be with what we have, and make the most of it.

In many ways, I am a paradox in many ways, because I am very spiritual and free-spirited, and I think and feel VERY broadly and with incredible depth, this has been and always will be who I am. There is no shallow thinking, or narrow minded thinking or as I like to call it "cave thinking" with me. To me, shallowness, superficial thinking, narrow minded, lack of depth thinkiing and attitude is the total opposite to true Spiritualty and realizing the infinite. The sky and the Universe is the limit, and there is infinite potential everywhere and infinite worth in everyone.
Shallow minded people cannot be spiritual. I also am a deep thinker.

P.S. Be the best you can be, beleive in yourself, and live everyday to the fullest, help others when they need help, be cool to others and treat them the way you yourself wish to be treated, spread more love, and always remember, smile!!... you never know how much you can lift up a person with just a smile!!

I have checked many profiles, and I am amazed at how many guys shave off all their hair. When they do that I immediately think, "so much for them getting a date". Maybe since I was brought up in another culture, I see things maybe alittle different. I don't know what woman would truthfully date a bald man, when there are guys that look way better and are way more datable then the baldies.

Yeah it actually. The older you get the more out of youre prime you get. I always laugh when some older women say "they are diliberatetly single, they havn't found what they want and who will be worthy of them" ... as any smart logical person knows we KNOW that is totally not true. That is they're actually saying is, that they have been constantly turned down and rejected by men in their age group.

Most ladies look good with long hair. Only if the lady has a beautiful face and absolutely beautiful eyes and smile can they look good with short hair. This by the way is not discrimination, this is my observation. Long hair is on a woman (most of the time) what being tall is on a man (most of the time) it's something that we just naturally like, it is what makes a woman that much more feminine and attractive.

Ladies, just grow your hair long, come one now lol it's not going to hurt at all. It will only help you in the physical department!!!!!!!

Probably that guy you found attractive and then he found someone else and better, it was for his own good. You would have just wasted his time and you already were apparently, and so he found someone eay better, because he could. Also be careful not to aim too high, don't try to date men who are clearly out of your league. Alot of women on this site need a reality check and need to humble themselves more and realize that alot of them sure many guys would just have a one night stand with them, you know, to have find with them, and then when then the night is done, just dump them, because they are not long term material at all.

Message: ^^^^ thanks you two above me for posting. I didn't want to double post lol. But I just have to say or rather ask one thing from shorty that made that cute little comment about me lol "arsenicandoldlac" or whatever. I'm going to be real gentle here ok?, but, why don't you post a pic up of you and knock us guys here off our feets?

To all of you saying it's just about sex, I beg to differ. I'm 41 dating a 25 yo.. and we've been together for almost 2 yrs. So it isn't always just about sex.

To all of you saying it's just about sex, I beg to differ. I'm 41 dating a 25 yo.. and we've been together for almost 2 yrs. So it isn't always just about sex.

Alot of women on this site need a reality check and need to humble themselves more and realize that alot of them sure many guys would just have a one night stand with them, you know, to have find with them, and then when then the night is done, just dump them, because they are not long term material at all.