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 ManicMelanie
Joined: 7/10/2009
Msg: 173
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Let me put a positive spin on this. Younger men and older women are NATURALLY very compatible. Similar energy levels in general and of course, that means sex, too. There are numerous reasons for interest other than attraction, of course, just as there are for younger women who like older men. It takes open minds to be willing to entertain the idea and even the person.

There are great men and women of all ages and even though huge age differences in LTR are unusual, they DO happen. People should simply go with what they're comfortable with, what works for them, what makes them happy and respect the choices and preferences of others.

 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 174
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/13/2009 12:02:52 AM

Similar energy levels in general and of course, that means sex, too.


Younger men and older women are NATURALLY very compatible


this is a new one...Naturally..really?...so is it natural for me to want to bang a 19 year old?

Please state your source where it states that older women have the same energy levels as younger men.

Are you saying that me, a 37 year old man cant have the same energy level as lets say a 24 year old?...OR, I dont have the same energy level as a 37 year old woman?

look...EVERYONE has one thing in common, and that is sex. Would I like to bang a 23 year old chick?...of course I would...would I have a LTR with her?..probably not.
 scenicgirl1
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 175
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:24:22 AM
The older the lady is, the more chance she will be accepting and she will overlook any physical flaws you may have

so wrong, the older we get the fussier we get, we are happier, more confident more secure in ourselves and more independent and solvent, therefore will not settle for anything less than what makes us truely happy. You really dont get how womens minds work do yo? You are full of assumptions and untruths, and a lot of negativity, i sense real issues with women.



I don't beleive about that sexual peek for ladies at 40 propaganda.


And you dont believe this because? How would you know what a woman is feeling sexually internally, and how that feeling compares to how she felt when younger?. I'm mid 30's and it gets better and better, and because of all those quailities I listed above, confidence etc we are more open, more adventurous and less self concious. its no myth, its not propegannda. Again another untruth and ignorance from your part amillo-bello.
 scenicgirl1
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 176
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/13/2009 6:33:34 AM
the older they get the more experienced and the more they realize what matteres most. We all have standards, beleive me I do, but I am talking about as ladies and guys get older, they are expected to mature more and that is the assumption


that is partly true, but it does not mean we are easily pleased which is what you implied initialy, we go out with a lot less men in our 30's than our 20's because we wont waste our time with unsuitable people, that to me means fussier and pickier about all aspects physical and personality. So you are still wrong about us being less fussy about physical defects. Its much harder to get into our pants no matter what age the guy is. I personally only date 5 years + or 5yrs -.
 scenicgirl1
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 177
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/13/2009 12:35:47 PM
well if you are not generalising you should in your posts say the word SOME. and reiterate, NOT ALL.
 DruidXpuppyboy
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 178
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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:16:31 PM
I just prefer older women straight up. Give me Sharon Stone over LIndsey Lohan anyday. I have no idea why I just do and I generally get sad if an older woman turns me down.
 Forums001
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 179
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/23/2009 8:27:06 AM
These days when men hit 40, women are usually turned off by the age. I have met women in thier 40's over the past year and all they say is that we old men are useless, no fun, set in our ways and unattractive.
Younger women do not date older men nowadays. So when a woman is in her 40's and up, go after the under 30 guys. You will enjoy it, like it and see that we old men are not as good as them.
 4gotnsoul
Joined: 9/24/2009
Msg: 180
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/23/2009 11:56:59 AM
Is it insulting to ladies having younger guys find em attractive????? Thought they'd like knowing they still got it.....lol. Listen, I was attracted to many ladies 10 to even 20 years older than me.....like I say, ladies view the age thing much harsher than most guys....
 sexyn60
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 181
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 1:54:41 AM
Thank u scd! I thought MILF was mature intimate lovely females. I needed that clarification since I'm new to this site and dating. I was contacted by a much younger man and he made it very clear that is was all about sex and being a cutie. At first I laughed, then I was flattered. I've had so many rotten relationships I'm at that point where I just want a boy toy to play with and no commitments. If the feeling mutual why not go for it? It would be a totally awesome experience for me and if I son't give it a chance I will never know.
 ghostryder1970
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 182
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 8:36:47 AM
sigh...I wish I was someone's play thing :(
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 183
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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 10:56:01 AM
"41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!"
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Exactly. You're too old for a kid.
 sexyn60
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 184
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 5:20:15 PM
All sexes can offer something . Life is a learning experience. Some young men are very mature while others act their age. Even older men go thru a second childhood.
 Forums001
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 185
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 8:33:18 PM
The thing is, us older men act younger, we are called immature and told to grow up by women our age. Yet women our age can act younger, look younger and feel younger and yet get away with it.
 cinsav
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 186
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 9:08:44 PM
Isn't that truth? I went out and bought Call of Duty MW II and I'm suddenly "immature" - yet "she" can go out clubbing (three times a week) with all the teenie boppers and she's just "blowing off steam."
 Forums001
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 187
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/28/2009 11:33:56 AM
The women over 40 complain about how men thier age seem to act old etc. So she says that this is why she finds younger men attractive and dates the guys 10+ years younger, going out to the bars etc.
Now me being 40, if I am seen hanging out with, going on dates with women 10+ years younger, that same woman will say "What a pervert, why doesn't he find someone his own age" and then if I show I am young at heart as well that same woman will say "He needs to grow up, he isn't in his 20's and 30's anymore."

Why is this?
Also ever notice women in thier 50's say men in thier 50's are set in thier ways, boring etc, women in thier 40's say the same about men in thier 40's, women in thier 30's say the same about men in thier 30's. What gives?
 jenava
Joined: 8/10/2009
Msg: 188
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/29/2009 8:22:23 AM
I have quite the opposite happen to me. Older gals hit on me. I don't think that is a bad thing, but at the end you have to think about them as well(future wise) can you really be there for them later at that big of an age difference? Sure there is no drama that a young woman brings, the sex is better and if you are the type of guy that's not really the party type then maybe things could work out, for a bit. I believe that at the end you have to stop and think and be realistic, it is a beautiful thing to have someone by your side at the golden age, and even better when you have someone who has appreciation for the experience that you both have lived. So I don't think a woman should get together with a younger guy an expect a true life partner..
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 189
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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/8/2010 5:09:42 PM
^^ That's complete bull$hit and you know it. You have fetish for this subject judging by your posts in every single thread that deals with the same or a similar topic.
 24suburbs
Joined: 10/8/2010
Msg: 190
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/12/2010 7:41:19 PM
I know the OP is gone. But if this bothers anybody, then put an age restriction on your profile.
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