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LukeNineteen80

Joined: 4/1/2008
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Women In Turmoil Posted: 7/11/2008 5:17:15 PM
i would probably not pursue her, there are so many single women my age not currently falling apart emotionally from getting a divorce. It's not my responsibility, it's like dating a woman with a child - just an unnecessary hassle in my view. I wouldn't be attached to her at this point if she had been married/separated - so it would be quite easy to just move right along.

ClassyfiedAlly

Joined: 4/3/2008
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Women In Turmoil Posted: 7/11/2008 5:58:25 PM
I personally would not pursue her romantically in her current situation, but if there was good conversation and I liked her as a person, I would offer to be her friend. You never know what could happen down the road, but I wouldn't want to take advantage of a woman who was vulnerable. This is exactly the answer I would have predicted from you, Mr. Blue. I just hope the guy in question has as much scruples and respect.

HDynasty81

Joined: 3/10/2008
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Women In Turmoil Posted: 7/11/2008 6:31:13 PM
I just hope the guy in question has as much scruples and respect. Guy in question? who do you mean? Sure this isn't about you?

ClassyfiedAlly

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Women In Turmoil Posted: 7/11/2008 6:35:54 PM
Guy in question? who do you mean? Sure this isn't about you? Quite. If I were speaking of myself, I would have said so in my original post. I don't play the "So I have this friend...." game.

camp63

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Women In Turmoil Posted: 7/11/2008 6:39:06 PM
Firstly, my heart goes out to you, divorce is a rough experience. My preference would be to heal before pursuing a relationship, I've been there myself. Personally, I'd not date a person who's separated for a couple reasons. First, I think both parties during the separation need clear, objective thinking before making the final decision. Another person in the picture can complicate or facilitate that decision. Secondly, I wouldn't want to be the 'reason' for that decision. Third, during times of weakness/fragility, it's easy to make an emotional decision. As a friend, I'd rather her be on solid ground & have the luxury to make as objective a decision as possible. My $0.02

Summerwinds77

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Women In Turmoil Posted: 7/11/2008 6:52:38 PM
I would give her my phone number and tell her to call me after her divorce is final. Who wants the drama?

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