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| Women,would you ever date and have a relationship with a virgin?
Posted: 7/14/2008 4:19:43 AM | Hiromi I very much get where you're coming from.I do in some ways do seek someone that's a virgin too but idk if I could find someone like that plus for all I know I could really fall for someone that isn't a virgin.I know if 2 were a virgin then one wouldn't feel out of place or something like that if the other wasn't a virgin.
I was also thinking about one thing and that is if you were a virgin and you had like a best or great friend who was the other sex and weren't a virgin and they said they would be happy to be your 1st,would you do it knowing you 2 aren't together in a relationship other then being friends,would you go through with it or no?
To everyone that reply so far,thanks for your honest answer,too bad some of you aren't close by or I would ask you out.    | |
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| Women,would you ever date and have a relationship with a virgin?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:41:49 AM | Just go with an escort and feel no shame in paying for it. Im 27 and realize that I don't want to wake up and look in the mirror at forty and still have to think about this.
I mean I do want a relationship for things other than sex. Sex is not important but I hate having to live with having to tell women I have never been with a woman before or feeling horribly inexperienced and feeling im going to goof everything up.
If I feel at least I know what it's like to be with a woman I'll feel better about myself and know what I have to offer a person that I finally meet that can see eye to eye with me and enjoys my company and wants to get to know me.
It really sucks having to feel like you never did something when all the people you date have been experienced in that area for a good part of the years that you have not even been on so much as a date.
You feel out classed and are scared you can't make a woman happy. I mean what good is my happiness if I can't make another person feel good. I also just can't live with it anymore. It's not like im desperate that a woman has to have sex with me. I just can't look in the mirror and say hey if im never going to meet anyone at least I can finally simply get something I feel I need and have it out of the way until I meet the right person to have an actual relationship with.
I honestly do feel that sex is something that should come when the woman your with is ready to take that step and that it should be about pleasuring your partner. How can you yourself enjoy it if you don't know the other person is. It's about feeling like someone wants that gift from you that gives the feeling of contentment. I mean when someone is smiling and is happy that you have made them feel good that is the most valuable thing in the world to be honest and far more satisfying than any pleasure sex itself can bring.
Any guy could easily satisfy themselves at any time if it was really just about the pleasure they feel sexually.
So yeah don't feel bad there are good women out there that will go with a man who is a virgin even respect a guy for it. Just as much as there are those that won't. The thing is though you have to think about your own confidence with women. For me it nags at my confidence because I have to know whether I could make someone feel good and have to have an idea of what it's like. Do what makes you healthy so that way you can be a better man when you find the right women.
I feel I have to do something so I can be better for the women that actually do deserve my attention or love. So don't feel bad about the idea of something like that. Unless waiting until you find someone whos right for you to be with has to come first. | |
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