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| | would guys date a female cop?Page 3 of 33 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33) | There's one I know I would if I had half a chance! lol Then again my dad was a cop when I was a kid, so I know how they are... I'd be fine with it... even if she could out shoot me! 
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/17/2008 1:17:31 PM | | Absolutely. One of my best friends is a cop, and she is the most amazing person in the world. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/17/2008 1:44:57 PM | I really doubt the coments about using handcuffs is because of the job. The guys that make coments like that would make similar coments regardless of your occupation. Myself, I woudlnt have a problem with it.
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/17/2008 1:56:26 PM | I'm not really sure where you were going with that .. but ok lol. I never said that I looked up to female cops and who said that their badge and gun is what makes them sure of themselveS? All I was saying was that it would be hot to date a female cop.. as a female I would. I like people who are aggressive and well cops tend to be. Excuse me  | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/17/2008 2:48:23 PM | Funny to sit back and read some of this. Fact is, I understand every bit of it, from both sides. The gun thing doesn't bother me- I'm licensed to carry a couple of different ways. As stated earlier, I dated one for a couple of years and we had a great time together. I'm not straight-laced, and she isn't an angel, either.
I know there ARE some who are stuffy, holier-than-thou bungholes, and over the couple of decades of driving truck all over this country, I've run into all different kinds of 'em. There's still some agencies that have the feel of the good old days- I was out in Cheyenne Wells, CO a couple years ago, one of those little towns that are typically speed traps about 3am on my way from Colorado Springs to points east- we go that way to miss the state scales in Limon, CO, learned that back in my cow-truckin' days, lol... I passed a cop, looked in my mirror and the guy was flippin' behind me. Dammit, now what? Big old guy, lieutenant, looked just like Brian Dennahy(sp?) in one of his assshole-cop roles. I went walkin' back with the logbook, permits, had thrown my radar detector back in the bunk, lol... Turns out he saw sparks coming from under my trailer(10 car-hauler) and just wanted to let me know I was dragging a chain, before I cost myself some money and some downtime. Didn't ask to see boo!
Yeah, I've had them do some real pantywaist BS to me before, noth in and out of the truck, but think about how many asssholes you run into on a daily basis nowadays without ever seeing a cop? It always seems to work best if you don't do things that call attention to yourself.
My experience has been that cops are just as human as the rest of us. While it may be true that some of them gravitate to the job for the wrong reasons, which are namely personal in nature and manifest themselves as the controlling, macho jackass cops- you learn to recognize those personalities when you are confronted with them and just kiss their butts to get the traffic stop over with, as the courts know these particular ones, and chances are if you handled things well on the side of the road, you'll get a break in court...
They put their pants on the same way I do every morning, and they just don't intimidate me like that. Just don't think you're gonna put a notch on your belt with a lady cop, and you won't end up with a bad one, having used them(or each other) for the wrong reasons. I say that from a male perspective, but it works both ways. I think it was a LEO earlier who mentioned badge-whores. That crap works both ways...
The worst thing that happened to me, she was still on a beat before making Det., and I was waiting for her at her home... She came in from work, one of those hot, gotta do the nasty-right-NOW moments... That damned belt full of handcuffs, gun and pepperspray dropped off and the butt of her 659 slammed right on top of my foot, driven by the weight of all the other crap hangin' on that thing!
Date a cop- just make sure you both can pass the same psychological battery...
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/17/2008 5:40:31 PM | No I would not date a cop ever No offense to you personally, but don't like cops in a general sense simply because every one of them in this political town I live in is crooked as hell. not that I think their crooked I know they are crooked and most of them are ego maniacs and break the law themselves all the time hell we had 5 people killed in our jail here in 3 months they sent specially trained officer to deal with a guy that was mentally ill armed with a steak knife and they shot him 3times another guy on New Years shot his pistol in the air right at mid-night the cops said he pointed the gun at them and that why they shot him 4 times 1 in the 2 in the side and 1 in the front.... And all of the people that die in jail oh nature causes. but the police did their own investigation and found no wrong doing. Don't get me wrong there are some great cops that are great people but they are usually rrupted by the others and they turn a blinde eye ...... Good luck to you though hun | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 12:00:02 AM | | I agree. It would be quite hot to date a female cop. They can be strong, aggressive, leaders, confident but at the same time be graceful, feminine, pretty, and soft/emotional. Very sexy combo. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 1:35:44 AM | | Sure!............Why not date a cop? But I seriously doubt any LTR would be in the cards,for me at least! | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 2:14:29 AM | Well I think you kick-ass and if I was a guy I'd date you! Don't worry, you will find someone who is man enough to not be afraid of your job. Thanks for doing what you do - it's an important job.  | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 2:28:09 AM | | yes i would years ago i used to date a female cop and i thought she was great! she never brought her job problems to me she left that mess at work so if i had the chance to do it again i would ! | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 4:11:28 AM | | Another generalization coming; sure, 'some' guys will date lady officers. Some won't. I would, but I've found that even women who go into macho professions are only looking for macho guys. I used to think that those women might understand guys in female dominated professions, and maybe they do. But even if they accept it, they're not attracted to those of us who appear in any way less masculine. Double standards live on. We're expected to still be attracted to you, but not the other way around. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 5:00:10 AM | | ah another age old question that i am familiar with, put simply IMO if they are a bit skiddish after you tell them your an officer, then perhaps a little suspicion should be raised, why are they reacting this way? is it they have prior records? is it they are abusive? do they have a warrant? (sorry, old mentality from my days on the force) face the truth of it, you are an officer 24-7 can`t afford to think like a civilian. there are those of us who are ex law enforcement, and a few civilians that can handle the fact you have a career in law enforcement, probably been meeting the wrong type of man, someone who has nothing to hide and is a true gentleman interested in getting to know you shouldnt have any problems with your line of work, again JMO. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 5:31:40 AM | | I might date a female cop, as long as she doesn't bring the work home. If it works out it works out if not I'd move on. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 5:54:45 AM | Very timely post... just me a female officer for a drink Thursday......she seemed a little out there but I do understand due to the nature of her job.
Will go out with her & see what happens.
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 6:12:25 AM | | Im sure lots of men would date u .... i imagine being a cop is a lifestyle , not just a job ,, hard to close ur mind off from all the happenings of the day ,,, etc hi stress , men aren't after drama in their lives ,, excitement yes ,,,, maybe date a fellow officer , or someone with a hi stress job also ! ,, u can enjoy relieving ur stress 2 gether | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 6:56:51 AM | | Sure, especially if she had access to the evidence room. Filled with goodies to delight any mans Christmas wish list. The question is, would she date me after a search on the NCIS? | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 7:01:53 AM | | It's always been my dream to meet a lady cop. If you have any single lady cop frends, would u get in contact with me? rolandap@hotmail.com | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 7:15:39 AM | | Sure, why not? It all depends on the person behind the job. Would guys date a female firefighter? How about a park ranger? Bus driver? Zoo keeper? This is 2008, not 1958. Silly question. Next. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 7:58:32 AM | | I wouldn't. I have a couple of friends who are escorts and that would cause a few problems, at least if the female cop was doing her job. If it weren't for the fact that I'd have to avoid people who do things I have no personal issue with, even if I don't, I wouldn't care one way or the other. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 8:23:37 AM | Hey nebula22
<div class="quote">I would not want to date a female cop because they swear to uphold unjust laws that were passed by crooked politicians due to accepting bribes from lobbyist.... These laws are against the Constitution and the Bill of rights!! The Police swear to uphold the Constitution but turn a blind eye to whats right and wrong.
How many times have you heard another cop tell someone that the Bible says to give unto Caesar what is Caesars? Caesar is DEAD and was killed for good reason. We are supposed to live in a free country that does not uphold victimless crimes. As long as a person is not doing harm to another or someones property , they should be left alone to live in peace. Cops were supposed to be PEACE OFFICERS. Not a bunch of barbaric NAZIS that work for a crooked government... Cops are supposed to work for the people and so is the Government. Hitler started out building a police force that did things the same way our police are doing things now.
Cops live to throw their weight around because the badge and power that comes with it makes them feel like a Big man or woman as the case may be..
I agree with almost everything you said EXCEPT I do know ONE cop who really tries to do good for the people.....still even he tells about some of the crooked stuff he knows about and can't report. (well at least if he wants to keep his job that is) So I think some of police fear fighting the system....As a rule you generally don't want to tick off a whole bunch of people with guns. | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 8:49:32 AM | Considering this is going to be my profession I HOPE so! yikes....hadn't thought it would be an issue:( | |
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| would guys date a female cop? Posted: 7/18/2008 9:06:21 AM | I would date a cop. I even asked one out not to long ago but she was married. The only problem I have is every male cop that I have known lies 9have know any female cops). I guess its part of the training since they lie when they interrogate people, they just learn to lie. So if I dated a cop I would worry is she going to be honest with me.
How many times have you heard another cop tell someone that the Bible says to give unto Caesar what is Caesars? Caesar is DEAD and was killed for good reason. I have never heard a cop say that, but it is in the bible that Jesus said it. SO what does that mean? | |
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