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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/20/2009 4:59:32 PM | Really? if you don't want cum in your mouth, why are you blowing him? Do you warn him when you are cumming, or do you grab his head and pull him in? If you really dont want cum in your mouth and want to blow him 1) ask him to warn you 2) watch his body signs
My experience has been if you don't want my load in your mouth, you probably didn't want to blow me in the first place! and if that's the case, do us both a favor and don't bother. I like going down on a women, and I love her juices! I don't half ass eat the kitty, and I damn sure don't pull away when she is cumming! If you have that issue, stop giving BJs. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/20/2009 5:07:55 PM |
when a guy cums an when a woman cums it's not the same,, a woman don't gush out seman an a woman can't get other women pregnant..ya true some women are 'wetter an gushers" but it anit the same as a man with his the taste an texture...everything is differant when it comes to men an women.. This is why preferences should be discussed before the act, I've been lucky enough to have mostly been with women who've loved the taste of my semen, and I was glad to go down on them too.
All of these women varied in taste.
With regards to the OP, both parties were at fault, but I don't think I would last too long if I was dating her, she obviously had serious issues with the taste of semen, giving a blow job as a 'sacrifice' instead of something that gave her pleasure too. Way to kill the mood by making it so obvious his sperm was so disgusting she had to spit it out.
I could imagine the OP's howls of indignation if her man stopped performing cunnilingus on her just before she orgasms because he was put off by her juices?
When I'm involved with a woman I want to enjoy all of her, and want her to do the same with me, and I couldn't be with a woman who was disgusted in some part of me. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/20/2009 5:18:15 PM |
Do you find it rude or is it just me? Men, have any of you done this before? why not alert the lady? Communication is really important. In a new relationship, you don't have any idea what a guy is like when he is ready to. You may have wanted to have had sex after the oral and it surprised you as you didn't know.
There is a thread on here now where the guy says she did it to make him get off. How does he know? She may have wanted him to go down on her or slow him down a bit. You need to talk to each other before, sometimes during...if you can, and instead of being pissed or confused about something after, talk to them about it. If you can get naked with someone and be as close as two people can be, how can you not talk about important things?
Funny thing on these threads is how many people claim to use protection, but you read they came in their mouth, ummm that isn't a dam or condom... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/20/2009 5:25:35 PM | | isnt that the whole point? if you dont liek the taste. spit... or just have a glass of water or watever handy and swallow.. its like like its a big deal .. doesnt him having to think and pull out.. diminish the experience? | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/21/2009 5:56:13 AM | to dave632 im not against having a guy cum in my mouth.. what i was saying was thats the whole point of a bj....if he has to try pull out... thats just.. then he has to think about what hes doing and not enjoy it to its fullest... totally think you missunderstood me.. but.. oh well.. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/21/2009 6:19:41 AM | | Usually we do this as foreplay or part of sex. Seldom have been with a guy that only wanted to cum in my mouth. Actually it has been many years since that occurred. Usually it is preintercourse. My bf really prefers the touch of my hand or body. I had a fiance millions of years ago that liked it before sex every time just about. I think every man as well as woman is different in their likes and dislikes. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/21/2009 7:21:19 AM | How can it be rude? If his penis is in your mouth and your sucking it, the end result will be him unloading in your mouth. You should have been able to tell by his body language and the vein pulsing, that he was getting near, no?
I always tell my partner that I like to know when he's nearing the end so I can prepare myself before swallowing it. When there is no communication you end up with unhappy people. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/21/2009 9:41:56 AM | | um yeah, who cares if he blows his load in your mouth? I mean, that's what guys do. You have the choice to either spit or swallow. If you didn't want to taste him, then keep your mouth off his**** Next time put your big girl panties on and get over it... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/21/2009 4:03:40 PM | First, if he's anything like moi, he will start bucking and moving, which is a pretty big clue. There are extenuating circumstances, such as ball-gags and restraints, which would prevent a normal man from crying out at the peak of orgasm. Is he asleep, by the time you get him off?
OH Cummon! Have you not sucked enough****to know when a man is about to blow? The secret is going deep, right before he goes, if you do not taste it, it is like eating raw oysters. You get over it and get that thick sausage into a wet, slow simmer. Climb on top, and I guarantee that you will get a ride that lasts for more than "eight seconds."
If your man is taking care of himself, with nutrition and exercise, it will not be incredibly nasty.
I do admit to preferring to finish in the pink, however, a nice BJ is a great way to get things stirred up and savory.
You may ask, "How the F*(% does this guy know what it's like to give a blow-job???" If you are that interested, strike up a conversation with me. If you are disgusted by the thought, spit the****out and go find a tasty beaver to occupy your oral obfuscation.
Think of it like eating a tootsie-pop... You don't lick on it for a minute or two, then cover it back up do you??? If you do like the Owl and give it three licks and a bite, then you DO NEED LESSONS, or you will not be asked to perform oral sex on him again... Unless he is a sadist, who enjoys varying degrees of inflicted pain. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/23/2009 4:25:50 PM | | I just laugh when it is always the guy's fault. Maybe before doing the good deed you should tell him, don't cum in my mouth. There is not reason why you can't talk to him about it before hand. I have women tell me that, in the past, not always the most fun but I still respected her wishes. | |
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