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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/24/2009 7:03:05 PM | Whoooh, slow down lady!! You need to learn to read his body signals. Relax and listed to how he responds with his breathing, rhythm, and movement, drifting or driving (which ever the case may be) nearer orgasm. If you can't get a read on it after you've shifted your focus to listening for physical signs, then ask him for help. Ask your partner to express what pleases him more vocally so you make it better for him. This will give you the result you want (not having prior warning) and make him feel good rather than making him embarrassed or feel uncomfortable.
It doesn't sound like you two have been together long. He's only being inconsiderate if you've brought it up before and he continues without awareness. COMUNICATE. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/28/2009 3:41:33 AM | | This is pretty basic. what do you like, what do I like. I mean if you don't communicate these things what do you expect. If your sucking****well your gonna get something in your mouth. Maybe after the first time tell him why didn't you tell me you were going to cum. Pretty simple isn't it, maybe this is more a lack of communication and acting, than consideration. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/28/2009 4:03:22 AM | Actually, the best gals at BJ's realize their man is about to pop and Deep Throat him while he fires off.
Solves the whole taste issue, and makes the gal seem like the Best They've Ever Had.
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/28/2009 9:20:51 AM | | um. well if you had him by the balls...like you did and didn't know he was about to blow a load...then I hate to tell ya things happen. If the grunting and sudden omg didn't give it away maybe a simple request from you to tell the guy NOT to cum in your mouth would work next time. Not always the first thing on the guys mind since most of the blood is rushing to his other head !!!! | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/28/2009 11:27:12 AM | | Hey with me, if she doesn't swallow she doesn't stay. Whats the difference when we go down on you.... we take whatever comes our way..... so learn to swallow and you will make your man enjoy it much more. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/28/2009 12:03:55 PM | He definately did that on purpose!! or is a def dumb blind mute...lol...stupid male games...thats so highschool...and why would you do that to someone who is doing u a favor...do u ever want another BJ from this woman??? I think not...lol | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 6/1/2009 5:54:25 AM | | For some guys if they are enjoying the blowjob sometimes telling you that they are going to cum makes them lose their orgasm. When you get to know his****well enough you will know by body language or the sound he makes. I'm sure he didn't mean to piss you off. :) | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 6/1/2009 9:14:24 AM | I'm really surprised at the responses here. I guess if it's an accident then fine but not giving warning is rude. My boyfriend knows how I feel about comming in my mouth so we always decide ahead of time wheather or not it's cool for him to cum in my mouth. It's not exactly the most plesant thing to have in your mouth so if you're not expectung it you might gag and spew it right back into his lap. For him to go against my wishes makes it seem like he doesn't care about me. It makes me angry and I'm hesitant to do it again. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 6/25/2009 6:25:25 AM | | What the hell is the big deal if your out to please your man..And if you don't know when he is about to cum..Then your not paying attention to your man..Your just going through the motions. Close your eyes concentrate on what your doing pay attention to his body and member and in time you will know when its that time.. Enjoy knowing you have pleased your man. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 6/25/2009 10:09:24 AM | Um...isn't that kind of the point of a blow job? I don't think it's rude at all that he didn't give you any warning. You knew what the end result was going to be right? Maybe just politely ask him to say something next time.
Besides, why pull away at the end anyway? It sounds like you are treating it as a chore to please your man - loosen up a little bit and try to enjoy yourself next time. It will make it a far more pleasurable experience for the both of you. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/9/2009 5:46:09 PM | As a guy I'd say he should have at least given you the heads up and the chance to decide what you wanted to do. But as others have said you should say things like that before, or during sometimes, what you like or want, or make a joint decision where you want it.
As for the not being ale to read it, not all guys are easy to read, I'm apparently not an easy guy to read, and my girlfriend has had a whole years worth or practice, after all not all guys are vocal and or spasm/shiver/tense before hand. | |
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