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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 8:44:18 PM | very funny.... .....when I go down on my woman..she will press her inner legs on my head and place her hand on my forehead..her body tences and she moooans...everything is just right,then I gonna stop and ask her r u gonna have an orgasm..and or let me know ..OK.. .... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 8:50:11 PM | | Personally, I think it's very rude if done without knowing in advance if it's ok. I always give a warning. On the other hand, I ultimately want someone who doesn't need the warning. It would eventually be a deal breaker for a long term relationship, but I expect to told one way or the other instead of assuming it's ok. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 8:59:55 PM | | Perhaps at one of the points where you stopped for a breath and worked it manually you should have just said "tell me when." If he still didn't tell you then that would be very inconsiderate. My experience is that most girls simply say whether they want me to come in their mouth or not at some point before I come. Some women like it so it's up to you to say what you want. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:04:35 PM | Everything LaughingLibra said...
Dambit, LaughingLibra...you made me mack for some cumsicles, darnit!!
PS...if that post doesn't result in some dates, then the dudes in your part of the world are waaay stoo-pid! ;) | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:09:31 PM | | Yes, maybe it was rude on his part but then again................where in the hell was your communication at??? If you wanna put all the blame on him go ahead, but the reality is your as much at fault as he is. I mean really, communication is a two way street!!! Either talk to the man or suck it up like a real woman and swallow it all!!! | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:14:31 PM | Laughinglibra..................Hell yeah, it's happened.... but then, blowing his load in my mouth is the result I'm hoping for, so for me it's more than welcome.
You are one sexy woman!! Damn shame there aren't women around here like you
at least I haven't found any yet............... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:17:06 PM | | I would have taken it as a compliment if I got a girl to do that. Maybe it was an accident? Maybe he didn't feel it coming? It could have been anything? Maybe had has a pre-mature problem? Could be a number of things. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:21:43 PM | | okay if you're giving a bj and expecting not to get a taste of cum, then aren't you missing the point? almost as ridiculous as giving a bj while a guy's wearing a condom. if you're going down, expect to taste...hell i doubt that you're supplying him with saran wrap or a dental dam for when he goes down on you. he tastes you, so return the favour and don't make such a big deal out of a mouthful of cum. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:25:59 PM |
You couldnt tell he was going to cum? I mean was he dead??? Thank you.
~OP~ The mere fact that you ewww and ickied the topic tells me you should probably refrain from impersonating Monica Lewinsky. Just a thought.  | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:44:39 PM | | Find it rude? Really quite crude of him. Personally, I'd feel quite used by such a person, he knew he was going to come and wanted to be certain by not telling you he'd give you a mouthful whether you liked it or not. Quite selfish - wouldn't you say? | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 10:42:52 PM |
Personally, I'd feel quite used by such a person, he knew he was going to come and wanted to be certain by not telling you he'd give you a mouthful whether you liked it or not.
Jeeez... Just because someone is rude, lacks a sense of decorum or is just a plain idiot doesn't mean you were used. It means you made a bad choice for a sexual partner, in which case, part of the fault is your own. If you're going to have sex, then accept the risks that go along with doing it with someone you don't know very well or get to know someone well enough to say, ``don't cum in my mouth,'' before giving him the opportunity. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 11:17:02 PM | | A stealthy ninja ejaculator. Was he by any chance wearing an all black outfit with a mask and a suspicious looking sword on his back? These are usually good giveaways you may be dealing with a ninja. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 11:58:06 PM | Heck yeah! I give props to Mr. No-Warning. I do the same thing. Except I lie and make a point of telling the girl, "Don't worry, I'll give you fair warning." And I get a kick out of watching her suddenly choke on liquid nastiness.
Why? To be mean. Because I get off bigtime on the whole domination thing. Same reason I call women names that would probably get auto-deleted if I listed them here. Because I don't want to be Mr. Nice Guy ALL the time. 'Cause I'm just a kinky freak like that.
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But seriously, though. Maybe the guy's never been with anyone who asked for warning. He's probably never had anyone blow their load in HIS mouth, and has no idea what it's like for you. Heck I've never had a dude blow his load in MY mouth; if I did it would probably cure my bad habit. That's one area where I'd rather not learn the "hard" way, though, tyvm.
Sometimes it just kinda hits you (from the guy's point of view), and there IS no fair warning. By the time you can say "I'm gonna..."... oops. Too late. Sometimes we get spooge scares, where we THINK we're gonna pop just any second, but then after a minute it goes away. (Those are kinda nice, actually.)
So, @ OP - I think you just need to get over it. Support him in his need to feel manly and powerful, even if he manifests this by "being a jerk". BTW, learn to massage his dangle-sacks: when they suddenly tighten you've got about a 1/2 second, or maybe a few seconds, before the gland finale.
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 12:35:33 AM |
Hell yeah, it's happened.... but then, blowing his load in my mouth is the result I'm hoping for, so for me it's more than welcome
^^ I agree with Libra's entire post on this.
OP- it really sounds like you blame and are upset with him for having cum in your mouth. I understand not everyone enjoys that but if you didn't communicate with him about it, how did you expect him to know you wouldn't know when it was coming and wouldn't want it?
I'm going to guess if it was your first time, you were maybe so focused on your technique or nervous so didn't pick up the physical signs that he was going to cum but to be upset with him seems rather unfair. I would definitely talk with him about it so you're both comfortable and know what is desired and to be expected next time. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 12:48:14 AM | Communication is key.
"Don't cum in my mouth." Just 5 words but it tells him.
1. You don't like the taste. 2. You don't like to swallow. 3. You might like to visually see it. (I know alot of women that are turned on by that.)
That communication allows him (if he's not a selfish lover) to warn you.
Personally one of the best things is warning a woman and hearing her say "uh huh." Then keep going. That to me is . | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 1:36:55 AM |
A stealthy ninja ejaculator. Was he by any chance wearing an all black outfit with a mask and a suspicious looking sword on his back? These are usually good giveaways you may be dealing with a ninja.
This is hot.... I wanna give head to a ninja!!
.... maybe I can get someone to role play for me  | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 2:26:17 AM | | hi what a woman you must be great in bed,for i feel that a woman who swallows your jizz is paying me the ultimat comliment of love for her to do that wow ad she gets fantastic sex from me ! | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 2:26:32 AM | | Well yes I do think it is rude but on the other hand I am a better safe than sorry girl. I have to make sure for my own self to let the guy know if I am in the mood for it in my mouth....some days yes...some days no, so I tend to tell them where I want it before we start to go at er thats just me though | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 5:36:51 AM | | I have always been able to tell when the man I am blowing is about to cum! Although I do like some vocalization (it's a turn on) I don't require a warning! However if the warning is something you do require -tell your partner before you visit putting your mouth on his penis! | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/13/2008 8:05:41 AM | Eeeewww! How nasty! To me this borders on the sadistic. Talk to him and let him know this bothers you. But you should be able to tell when he's about to come; the penis gets even harder just prior to ejaculation, so that's the time to stop and maybe finish him with your hand.
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