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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:22:06 AM |
And this is exactly the reason why I have given up on men and dating. You are saying women who don't 'give head' (what an awful phrase) don't deserve to be loved and made love to. How sad.
No, Ninki~, what he said was that was a dealbreaker for him. Giving up on men and dating is your choice and probably has some roots that would require a couch and many sessions to get to the heart of.
Think of it this way...what if every time you were having sex, just as the thrusting and penetration is getting oh so just right and you feel yourself starting to cum, that he pulled out and left you to finish things on your own...think you'd mind that after a while...like a few days...??
This is the exact reason we engage in dating, including intercourse...to find the one who reasonates with us the best. Sometimes it doesn't work on on the first email, sometimes the subject of BJ's kills it...it's a dance, dating is simply trying to find the rhythm and steps.
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:24:15 AM | What a thread!!! I'm not one of these guys that if a woman does not give me a bj then its bye, bye. But at the same time I'm not going to turn it down either.
OP ~ this was the 1st bj, there is something called communication. I thought only men (according to most people) had this problem. Here's a thought if a girl giving a bj don't like to swallow why not say this "lover when you get ready to cum, why don't you spray it all over my breasts, I just love that." Even if you "don't" like it, its better than having a load in your mouth. You can always wash it off after words. Also it would "encourage" us to do something you like also. We'd be more than happy to "please" you.
If there was no communication on "what you liked" how do you expect the man to know. Because there is no definite one thing that all women like when it comes to bj's. Some women like it some don't. But I'd be happy just to get one, if you don't want it in your mouth to swallow then tell me and I'd be more than glad to "pull away" and do it somewhere else.
Best of luck to everyone
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:45:17 AM | That certainly separates those who are into it only for their own sexual pleasures - I'll bestow upon you the greatest gift a man can give a woman - a mouthful of cum! If you don't like my great gift I'll take my manhood and balls elsewhere!
In foreplay oral sex is the norm. Nothing to do with a 'nice' girl or not - that is one of the normal actions in foreplay with both giving oral sex. However, if a woman doesn't want the greatest gift a man, in his mind, can give her - a mouthful of cum - so what? | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 5:37:07 PM |
And this is exactly the reason why I have given up on men and dating. You are saying women who don't 'give head' (what an awful phrase) don't deserve to be loved and made love to. How sad.
I didn't say that you, or women that don't like to give head deserve no love, I said it's not something I would give up. Love doesn't replace sex, therefore, you could be the best person ever and it won't make up for the fact that you can't satisfy me sexually. With all due respect, the fact that you can't stand the phrase "give head" suggests your immature view of sex. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 5:45:10 PM | | Oh my goodness. OK, first of all you really should have spoken with this guy about your preferences. I am sorry, but if I think there is even the slightest chance that a guy even has an inclination to do that, I would make it perfectly clear. Then again, I see that as a pretty sacred thing, so I am way past the talking about it stage well before the "act". I do believe it to be disrespectful. He kind of assumed you liked that and it was ok. But, then again you never told him it wasn't. I am in agreement with the others on here that the communication needs to be better. But, yes, he should have warned you or had the courtesy to ask how you felt about it. Lesson learned though, I guess. I am sure you will make it VERY clear from now on. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 5:48:54 PM | ^^^^There's nothing immature about my views on sex at all. I'm just not into oral sex, either giving or receiving. I'm not going to let people bully me into believing that I must conform to the norm in order to 'get some'. I'd rather masturbate than be with a man who can't live without having to screw my mouth and/or throat. IMO it just doesn't belong there. I am entitled to my opinion.
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 5:53:18 PM | Listen to Laughinglibra, she's got the right attitude.
Here you are whining about the guy blowing his load in your mouth w/out a warning. First clue, when you put some guy's wang in your mouth and start moving it around in your mouth better than any real vagina could perform, don't you think there is a real possibility that he could squirt in your mouth? It is a hazard of the activity or, as we say in law, you assumed a known risk when you took him in and you should not know be able to come forward and complain.
Do we now all have to announce ahead of time when what we are going to do before and during sex because our partner might be offended? Do I have to tell the girl I might slip two fingers instead of one in her vaginal orafice because she might not like or does she have to tell me she will drip on my face when I give her oral because I might not like it?
You should consider it a compliment to your abilities and hotness because your such a hot chick that he did not have time to let you know and he blew w/out warning. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:09:34 PM | | Ninki, I think immature is a bad word; and nobody should ever let anybody bully them into anything sexual. From reading this, and other posts, it is obvious that there are lots of men out there who would make great lovers, who do not "demand" a blow job. There is also NOTHING "selfish" about allowing a guy to go down on you, if he wants to, even if you don't want to go down on him. He knew the rules up front. However, assuming impecable hygiene, an aversion to any part of your lover's body is a learned belief/feeling, and has its basis somewhere in your past. Any aversion of this nature lends itself to anxiety, frustration, and anger; and overcoming any of these can only enhance the sexual experience for both parties. Your avoidance of men in general is ample evidence of a huge level of anger and hostility; and it's causing you to miss so much. I really would recommend talking to someone, discovering what the roots of your anger and hostility are, working through them, and enjoying every aspect of the rest of your life. If it means living the rest of your life without ever giving a BJ, so be it; but be comfortable with that, and do so without the frustration and anger. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:21:12 PM | | this tread is goin far and alot of funny stuff on it lol but truth be it is everyones own preferance as to what they in a couple situation want to do or how to deal with these isues..communicating to each other about love making and oral sex etc..i can see the point on both sides..there for point bein that you should tell you lover what it is you want and ask he/she what is prefered..also the time you have been together you get to know how to approch each other,find the pleasures of your mate and always be adventrous to try something new..it keep the love life interesting and spotanous!!always try to please your mate as well as yourself it is very important!!!!lol damon your killen me here..what kind of puppet show that would be..do you by chance have a name for it haha comein to a theater near you lol | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:31:11 PM | | I can't believe how many people are basically telling her it's her fault!! What if she had never been with a guy tacky enough to cum in her mouth without telling her??? Geez it is just flat out disrespect for HIM not to communicate HIS intentions!! Fault with both, but HE was the one who disrespected and/or assumed. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:56:29 PM | this whole title jus sounds like a very bad porno..an then all of a sudden O wait dam opps my bad..ha well guess i'd better get going.
seriously tell these fools up front what you want an what you don't want..an if they aren't listening or are pretnding to not listen then let your actions speak louder then your words..just like they all of a sudden an then bam,, that's when you all of a sudden get up an leave not a word said just leave...
don't do it an quit doing it.. an if u've slept with the guy atleast twice then you should have some kind of a warning of when he may cum.. if not then tell him to warn you or just quit foolin with him all together.. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:00:21 PM |
I can't believe how many people are basically telling her it's her fault!! What if she had never been with a guy tacky enough to cum in her mouth without telling her??? Geez it is just flat out disrespect for HIM not to communicate HIS intentions!! Fault with both, but HE was the one who disrespected and/or assumed.
OK...IF she had cummunicated (intentional pun spell there!) that she dislikes swallowing...then he would have been a rude mother fvcker for doing such. But since orgasm IS a typical result of oral sex....duh oh!
So when a guy is eating pvssy...are we supposed to tap him on the shoulder with a warning?! | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:04:29 PM | Harleykat~ said: So when a guy is eating pvssy...are we supposed to tap him on the shoulder with a warning?!
when a guy cums an when a woman cums it's not the same,, a woman don't gush out seman an a woman can't get other women pregnant..ya true some women are 'wetter an gushers" but it anit the same as a man with his the taste an texture...everything is differant when it comes to men an women..
same catagory but
it's 2 differant things... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:54:36 PM | Well,apparently some woman are turned on by this behavior and some woman are disgusted and very mad about this...so now then the answer to the OPies problem is to stop giving guys blowjobs and start finding guys the will treat her right and lick her puXXy..I for one would not even allow this woman to blow me..cause I would want to shoot it right down her throat with no warning just cause if I have to stop what I am doing to warn a woman,I might lose the orgasm and have to start from the beginning of the blow job,that could take an xtra hour...nor would I go down on this woman,cause apparently no guys are... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/14/2008 11:30:16 PM |
...a woman don't gush out seman... OK...so you've never heard of or seen squirting orgasms? I've had my face flooded, I mean to the point where were not talking a wet spot, we're talking changing beds.
Women can ejaculate, too. And when it happens, while it's not a direct shot down the throat, I can pretty much guaran-damn-tee you I'm not pulling back at this time.
You don't want the taste, make plans ahead of time. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/15/2008 2:01:14 AM |
But since orgasm IS a typical result of oral sex....duh oh!
Well no sh*t! Reaeeealllyyy? And it IS more typical for a man to let you know when he is cumming. One thing i do agree on tho is when the ol' sex talk happens, thats usually one of the questions (so do you swallow?) thats asked. A man should NEVER assume a woman does. Hence,,he needs to let her know.
And no,,like i said in an earlier post,,,,you CANNOT ALWAYS physically tell when a man is going to cum. Each man is different. Just like women are. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/15/2008 2:43:36 AM | Hello Group!
I have read every post up to this point and admire many of the posts. I must say, I admire all who have posted due to the fact this stuff becomes immortilized in our profile. For some, the comments will forever inprove your dating lifestyle, while for others...well, who knows.
But basically, I am suppose to be courteous and politely tell a woman just prior to cumming if she is giving me a blowjob. Of course, there are those woman who could care less and just ride it out. But let me explain to some of you what happens to me during this wonderful sexual experience, and then you can draw your own conclusions.
So I am there with a lovely woman on her knees before me with her strawberry lips opening to suck on my**** For starters, this moment is like Christmas to a five year old for me (all woman should know this). I just cannot tell you how amazing that first few seconds can be for me and the rush of sensations that execute through my body. As she continues to suck, lick, smile, wink, and do the job that us men so enjoy my mind is becomming a jumbled mess. A few minutes into the deal and you can be sure I have lost all interest in the stock market. I could care less that the mortgage is due next week. I cannot wrap my mind around the fact that dinner may be burning. In fact, the only thing that is going through my mind is that it is getting awefully hot and maybe should I remove my shirt. All other thoughts quickly dissipate. During this time I might be able to speak a little and my breathing is getting pretty heavy. Soon however, my noises are becomming primal and although I still might be able to say some very brief comments, you can forget about very much intelligle conversation. As I am nearing my orgasm, all bets are off. I can't speak well at all. The noises coming from me are guteral. My legs are shaking, my eyes are spinning like the Wheel of Fortune, and my toes are starting to cramp from curling, I m a happy man. And right before I am about to cum I couldn't say an intelligent thing if you put a $100 dollar bill in m hand. For those woman that love to bring your man to this point...well, God Bless you! But the reality is that if you want to communicate with your man about this very moment you have to do it WAAAAY before Now, because if you are doing the job right...... He is up in the stars, tongue tied, and is in an eye spinning ephoric state of mind. Ladies, this is a crazy place for us to be.
Good luck with however you do it, but if your lips get on my****before you have a chance to say where you want it.....I apologize in advance! LOL | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/15/2008 3:51:23 AM | Anyone who uses the whole "it's not the same consistency for a man and a woman" argument really needs to sit down and stay out of the conversation. His fluids vs her fluids is an immature viewpoint.
Women, just imagine a guy licking you every which way. He's making you feel really good. He insists that you tell him when you're going to cum instead of having you just relax and enjoy. Finally, you get to that point, you tell him you're going to cum and he:
a) Immediately removes his mouth, almost in disgust, and finishes you with his finger at the very moment his mouth would have felt intense.
b) Let's you have an orgasm while he's still down on you, but he cannot wait to run in the other room so he can frantically spit you out.
Any woman who says she's ok, psychologically, with those 2 choices is either lying or really hoping she can use that excuse to not give her man head. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:48:10 AM | by the way ya i know women can squirt but,,the differance is seman isn't coming out of thier body..differant taste differant texture...
ok we all know most people aren't gonna jump up an stop you an announce that there all most to the big "O" but usually some an most people the giver will say "something like ya baby you like what i'm doing are you gonna cum for me" an the reciver may mumble or moan back ya i'm about to..or even when the person who is receiving oral sex, mumbles an moans an may say aloud o ya i'm about to cum o ya o ya etc etc.. or something to that exstint,, however everybody is differant an there are the real quiet ones that you wont even know until it has happened..
it comes down to communication an listening an watching how thier body reacts an soft erotic talking every now an then to them while the oral action is going on...
communication about anything,is important in any friendship / relationship or whatever kinda "thing" 2 people have going on with each other there are things that should be discussed before heading to the bedroom.. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:21:14 AM | | I think it would have been nice for him to warn you that he was going to cum. Whether you can tell or not isn't the point. It's called common courtesy, which he didn't show. I think it was rude what he did. I can't say that I would never give him a blowjob again but we would be having a talk about it, that's for damn sure. I hope if you're a squirter that it goes up his nose. That'll teach him. lol | |
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