| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 7/16/2008 6:18:12 AM | | so, you ever double post something and you just go back and write something inane in one of the posts because you can't delete it ... yeah, I'm there! | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 7/16/2008 6:18:22 AM |
I heard of the blindfold . it's highten your senses . You and your partner wear a blindfold , and the other one must guess where they are and what they are using . foreplay is one way for the two of you to bring eachother closer . I wish I could try this again . been so long I saw it . Marco?
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 7/16/2008 5:18:08 PM | | Kaylie; that's what's so wonderful about the Football Mums; the petals ARE heavy enough for you to feel and enjoy them. Like I said, I like to feel them on the palms of my hands; which are certainly way less sensitive than your face, breasts, belly, etc. I tried every flower I could find with petals; dasies, roses, mums, etc. before I found the Football Mums. They feel like heavy raindrops, but without the wet. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 7/21/2008 10:02:58 PM | Lol something else only men have to do for women.
Anyways someone once told me that nurturing men make the best lovers/partners and strong women make the best lovers/partners(whereas society would tell us vice versa). What does this even mean? | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 7/21/2008 11:20:57 PM | Geez, the amount of cynical posts here illustrates why Im having such a hard time meeting anyone. This is a wonderfully romantic & sensual thing to do for your partner, and I applaud the OP for his creativity. I only wish Id have thought of it first!
True romantics may be a dying breed, but this proves there are still some left. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 7/22/2008 4:19:40 AM | | It sounds like a very sensual experience to be savoured. Edible petals, now that would be nice. I made love in the rain once, it was quite the experience. I think that everyone should try it. You are definitely a romantic soul, I love it. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 8/4/2008 8:24:13 PM | | Kindred; I don't know about edible petals; but I have tried the edible body paint; and that can be extremely erotic, and a really fun blast, at the same time. Obviously you don't "eat" all of the paint; but it still leaves licking, nibbling, and kissing available as options; whereas an oil massage kind of screws up the taste and sensation for your mouth. Also, I don't think clean up was that big of a deal either; I think we just cleared the area; and used old sheets. However we did it, it was a blast, and highly recommended. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 8/4/2008 8:39:43 PM | Reading this thread has given me erectile dysfunction for days.
I would need viagra to even pretend to have sex after something like that. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 8/4/2008 8:52:43 PM | Your flower petals fantasy night sounds cool. A long slow hot oil FULL body massage is a must too but maybe it should be on a different night than the petals cuz they'll get stuck / glued in places she won't find for weeks! Overall Chicks diggit, obviously.
I also recommend contrasting this with something wild and wickedly erotic like the GSpot Technique AND a bit of a frenzied spanking.
NOTHING like having them dripping in anticipation but not knowing witch (ha) one you're going to subject her to.
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For anybody who has tried the GSpot Technique and found that it works AND likes a little spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.
A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.
Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub.
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 9/29/2008 10:30:16 PM | Windloverr, thanks for a lesson learned. Like you, I'm a romantic. Just haven't been in the physically company of a woman to experience a moment like this in a while. But, a method of romance like this something worth waiting for the right person to try this with.
Many thanks again. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 9/29/2008 10:59:51 PM | I tried to do the whole flower petal thing before and two women laugh at me and one ask if I was gay. Needless to say I haven't done that kind of thing in a long time.
However, one thing that I found is really good - if done sparingly - is to blindfold the girl and give her a full body massage. The key to this is not to use your standard massage gels; find out what smells the girl likes and invest in some good quality essential oils. Needless to say you should also know something about massage. Of course, you run the risk of the lady falling asleep (this happens quite frequently, actually), but usually they'll make up for it at a later time...
My favorite, though, was taking a girl on a surprise trip to a honeymoon resort. I didn't tell her where we were going, invested in a good bottle of wine and her favorite bubble bath, and made sure that the room had both an in-suite jacuzzi and fireplace. Made sure the fire was lit, the room filled with candles, and fed her cherries while we sipped wine in the bubble bath jacuzzi. Except to eat, we didn't leave the room for three days.
The key is to know what your lady likes, what she'd never expect from you, and a subtle plan to make her fantasy a reality. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 9/30/2008 6:14:56 AM | OOh I'm still stuck on the sex in the rain remark... I think the water falling on our skin would be even better than rain petals!!
And hey, wouldn't even need the blindfold. Have to keep eyes shut to keep the water out of them!
I don't know about the full body massage. I think I'm too impatient for that before sex. After sex, yeah, it would be wonderful...kinda a send off to dream land. Plus I really like the caresses between lovers after sex, such a nice time to touch.
Foreplay is one thing. A one hour massage (or even 20 min massage) would just frustrate me when I"m wet and horny and wanting sex!!!!!
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 9/30/2008 6:33:21 AM | | windloverr I realised as I was reading your opening that you meant flowers but honestly, football is the most popular sport in Australia - so when you say get yourself some footballs mums it really did sound quite kinky and very blunt. Too funny........OMG | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 9/30/2008 7:08:45 AM | | Techniques for lovers of a bygone generation. I don't think most men even plan on doing anything like this. The blindfold idea is cool, though. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 10/5/2008 10:58:22 AM | Geogdude: You are an obvious romantic; so I'm going to recommend another try. To pull this off she has to be somehow worked into a soft warm sensual mode. Whether it's candle light, light jazz, a glass of wine, running your fingertips, or lips all over her body, etc. Just get her totally relaxed (NO OILS) sensual, warm and trusting. Then, while she's laying there feeling wonderful, all of a sudden this totally new, incredible sensation is introduced.
The take home tricks are that the flowers MUST be FOOTBALL MUMS! No other flower will work. They are the ONLY flower where the petals are heavy and numerous enough. The second trick is the blindfold. That way she has NO idea anything different is comming until she gets this incredible "warm velvet rain" sensation.
You might want to just pick one up someday and drop the petals on yourself; on your face, arms, etc. to give yourself a better idea of what you need to prepare her for. I'm telling you, it's incredible.
If you have any ideas or questions, please feel free to email me directly. I had tried this same technique many times with many different types of flowers; and nothing else even came close. | |
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 10/5/2008 11:04:41 AM | I have a technique I shared with a special lady the first time two nights ago.........but I think I'll remain "mum" on it for now..........(pun intended).lol
anyways, she was like..........OMG!!.........OHHHHHHHHH....... MYYYYYYYY........ GODDDDDD!
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| Guys; a technique for the true lovers Posted: 10/5/2008 12:09:16 PM |
I'd be laughing way too much - cheesy!!....To contrived for me!!
Me too. I don't mind the blindfold, but the flower petals, meh, not so much. | |
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