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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:55:09 AM | | I could be completely wrong here but, maybe it's because there's more to a person than a photo in a profile and some people (men & women alike) appreciate that. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:55:52 AM | Every man I have dated...I thought was extremely attractive...none of my freinds would agree with me though. LOLOL
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
You can post a pic, and get a zillion different descriptions of that pic, we all see things in our own way. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:56:05 AM | This reminds me.....a friend of mine used to date a woman that worked at a gentleman's club...she wasn't a DANCER....but she was the "front door clerk"
But, as with those establishments, if you're going to hire people they probably have to be 10's to work there.
Anyways, she started being a real piece of work...inviting strippers to his place almost on a daily bassis (she lived with him) and they'd empty out his liquor cabinet rather frequently....it ticked him off that they'd dirty up the place as well....partying at his place.
Any how, he brought this to her attention, and she cops an attitude and says, "You had a choice between 'hot' and 'nice'.....you chose hot!"
Needless to say, he ended it right there. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:56:17 AM | If that were true, they'd be dating you!! Just kidding.
It's too much of a generalization. Maybe he's really a great guy, funny and/or has a massive penis... who knows. The good thing is we all have different tastes so there's someone for everyone. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:05:33 AM | Uh.... Huh-huh.... she said "massive", huh-huh...
Uh.... Hey, Baby.... Huh-huh..... Huh-huh..... | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:08:10 AM |
Happens all the time. Just goes to prove that men are more shallow than women. Why don't good looking guys date ugly women??? You never see that.
Hehehehe You obviously haven't seen the people I've seen. Trust me, good looking men date "ugly" women. But then again, who cares? It doesn't affect me in any way, if they're happy, then hey, great for them! As for reasons a woman might date a guy someone else thinks is ugly, he might have a sexy brain, sure. He might treat her exactly the way she wants and thinks she deserves to be treated, maybe she was looking for someone who was great in bed... Who knows? In any case, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and OP as far as anyone knows, maybe she thinks he's the hottest thing in the universe. Just because she looked at you, doesn't mean a thing. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:10:35 AM | | Hmmm did anyone think that maybe the reason some attractive woman date less then attractive guys is because they may feel safer and secure. I mean in the cheating department, maybe she feels like she could trust a less then hot guy, the guy may think "wow shes sooo pretty I would never mess this up". Im not sure how many "ugly" guys with a hot babe would want to be playing the field or looking elsewhere. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:19:31 AM |
I mean in the cheating department, maybe she feels like she could trust a less then hot guy, the guy may think "wow shes sooo pretty I would never mess this up". Im not sure how many "ugly" guys with a hot babe would want to be playing the field or looking elsewhere.
Yes, studies have shown that lesser attractive men, make better husband material in the loyalty dept. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:24:09 AM | Why would a babe date an ugly guy?
Could be insecurity. Maybe she's afraid that if she dates a really attractive guy, then she won't be able to hold on to him.
Personally, though, I don't have the problem of babes knocking down my door. | |
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eazk
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:26:00 AM |
Why do girls date ugly guys?
Boy, you guys don't really get it...I'm not sure why, but with this much info out there, how can you not?
Girls don't judge based on looks. In fact, the really, really unnerving thing for you to understand is, In women, attraction is not a choice. Almost any guy has the capability to make himself attractive to girls. It comes in packages called Confidence, Humor, Fun, Interesting, Interested, Intelligent, Communicative, Adventurous, Edgy, etc., etc.. But instead you focus on developing pecs rather than personality, abs rather than attentiveness.
Listen, dating is so freakin easy it's stupid. Check my profile, I'm obviously not photo-shoot material, I'm older, and have more than enough spare pounds. Yet in the last couple of years I've been on easily 100 first dates, and a fair number of seconds (like maybe 20ish), and enough 3rds and beyond that I've had some great relationships, with women 20 or more years younger...and with some of the ex-g/f's, we still have a great friendship beyond the other relationship we had once.
And 'no', I wasn't a natural who got older. I was just like you, an Average Frustrated Chump...wondering how the heck guys did it...not understanding much about dating. In fact, when my divorce stuff started a few years back, I was pretty much thinking I'd be dying a lonely, old and bitter guy. But there is an incredible body of knowledge out there that you just have to start looking at, and use it to help align the thoughts and energies that are racing around inside you right now but which are lacking direction, focus and understanding.
But why you are doing is wuss/jerk whining. Forget about it...or go ask her out...but for god's sake, be a man about it.
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:27:50 AM | she likely does not dig ugly guys in general , there is some reason as to why they are going out. maybe they are good friends with the same people , went to same college program and meet there , have some common interest that keeps them together or they have been dating for a longtime .
but admit i had a simialr experience last summer , meet this amazing / cute / attractive blonde who was studying to me a message therapist or sort of allready one . first saw her at a bar when she was with her gf's and tried to pick her up but failed and then found her on fb .
but was surprised by how average her bf was , mean he was nothing spectatualr , her friends said he was a nice guy and they had been dating for a while/ couple years . but for how spectatular she was he would have no chance of picking her up now that she has got this hot . so sometimes really hot girls end up with the most average guys maybe its luck or something ? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:37:47 AM | | Uhmmm..so out of at least 100 first dates, you've still not found that "ONE" person!!..not sure you've got too much right to start "name calling" the OP!!!...sounds like you're a bit too fussy yourself !! | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:42:41 AM | Oh, dear goddess--the nice men complain that they can't get any women; the young women complain because the old women steal their men; the fat people of both sexes moan because they can't attract anyone; the old men whine because they can't get young chicks . . .
. . . and now, someone can't understand why an attractive woman would be with an 'ugly" man.
I dont mean disrespect. I dont mean to sound shallow with this question
That might not be what you mean, but wait! Asking why a woman would pick an ugly, bald man over an attractive man IS disrespectful and it IS shallow, so you do sound that way. You continue to be shallow, stating you can see why a woman would be with a man for money. There are names for women who hook up with men for money, and men consistently call them those names in these forums.
cause he has a great personality? again, that goes for a little while, but long run?
I really want to believe that your whole post is facetious, but in case it isn't, have you ever stopped to consider how long good looks last? Personality and intelligence will last a lot longer than a pretty or handsome face and a nice body.
OP, I might be wrong (it happened once before) but I think your real question is why this pretty blond woman didn't immediately leave her ugly BF and come with you. There are a plethora of reasons why she might have been with him: Maybe his personality is fantastic, maybe he has an animal magnetism that you can't detect because you are a man, maybe he has a huge penis, maybe his sexual prowess is breathtaking, maybe he isn't shallow, maybe he makes her laugh until she pees her pants, maybe she is shallow and insecure and thinks she can't get an attractive man, maybe he is rich and drives a Honda Civic for other reasons.
Maybe beneath his ugly exterior, he has a heart of gold, is compassionate and kind, and is not only a nice guy, but smart and generous.
Maybe he is all things that you are not--just in a plain package.
Maybe it is because he can spell "bald" correctly and doesn't judge people by the cars they drive.
Who knows? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:48:37 AM | Eazk, I am can appreciate your commitment to the Mystery Method, but there is one thing you said that's completely inaccurate.
Girls don't judge based on looks.
This yard stick of judging based on appearance is always present. It might bend a little for some other really great attributes, but very few (men or women) can date someone they aren't physically attracted too, even if it's only a little.
What I would agree with is that it may not be there primary motivation or a long lasting one, but it's still there and it's not really any less critical than it is for men. Choice or not.
Most of what you said is pretty accurate-- but I don't know of anyone saying, nor do I believe, that looks don't matter, or that you won't be judged on them. It's not insurmountable if you don't have them, but it will make your life a lot easier if you do. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:50:19 AM | Well to be sure of your premise we'd have to round up all (or a good sample) of these beautiful babes with ugly guys. Then we'd have to have them judged by a carefully selected panel of judges to deterrmine if these babes are beautiful and the guys are truly ugly!
On the other hand, it might just be sour grapes on your part. In other words, your current babe isn't as hot as you feel you deserve? Well my advice is to keep trying.
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:52:56 AM | I am ugly and good looking guys ask me out. they love my sense of humor and caring heart..
maybe she felt this way about him too | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:56:47 AM | | Not sure why all men think "gorgeous woman/men" are a catch. I mean yes they look nice on your arm and nice to show off but.........I've know many gorgeous women/men who have personalities of a "wet dish rag". So when she ages, her boobs sag, she has more wrinkles due to stress of trying to look hot and trying to be eye candy, and no personality, are your going to keep her still. Makes me go hummmmmmmmmmm. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:16:26 AM | Sexy has little to do with physical appearence. Some of the sexiest people I've met were average looking but had that magnetism made you want to touch them.
In my experience, Time Life men (vs GQ men) try harder in a relationship and are sex gods.
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:18:28 AM | wow, people can get very excited.
I just asked a question. I had that experience of seeing this babe with this less than everage looking dude, and asked a few of my buddies afterwards why a babe would date an ugly dude? but they dont know.... its a discussion topic, why do people feel the need to defend and attack? lots of people wonder, I think its normal to wonder... people normally get together with people who are averagly the same in the looks department, for the most part...
Pepsi76 - tred to send you a msg but I was restricted. tks for your comments, I do appreciate it and take it positively. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:25:13 AM | | Women look for other things in men like respect, hygiene, trust, manners, the list goes on. Women are not as visual as men. We use other senses, touch, taste, smell. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:28:04 AM | | OP...the guy is rich. He drove the civic because he didn't want to park the Ferrari in the Blockbuster lot. Kidding, he probably has a great personality. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:33:02 AM | everlast toronto, I didn't look at your profile before I posted my first response, but I was VERY surprised when I looked at it afterwards and saw your age as 34. The thumbnails often give no clue as to how old a person is, and truthfully, by the way you write and by the question you asked, I thought you were in the late teens to early 20s range.
If you haven't figured out some of life's mysteries--one being as to why an attractive woman would be with an ugly man--you need to start thinking beyond the end of your nose and consider the deeper meanings of life. Here are some logical fallacies based on your post that you might want to consider:
1. How many babelicious women are really with ugly men?
2. "Ugly" is entirely subjective, and what is ugly to one person might not be ugly to another.
3. Beauty fades: barring Alzheimer's and a few other diseases, intelligence and personality don't.
I am truly surprised that a man your age would even wonder about something like this.
its a discussion topic, why do people feel the need to defend and attack?
You called us ugly, fat, and bald people useless. Obviously, if we are not raving beauties, in your world, we should slink around, climb into our Honda Civics and drive off into the sunset, back to our ugly spouses and ugly kids. Did you honestly think that spouting off about ugly people would NOT get you a backlash?
A handsome or pretty face without a mind behind it is boring. It is like receiving a beautifully wrapped box only to opening it to find it empty.
And if you really want to know, why didn't you ask the beautiful blond woman why she would stoop to be with an ugly man?
I wish for you the beautiful woman of your dreams, but for the beautiful woman, I wish a man who will satisfy and fulfill every need/want that she has, even if he is butt ugly. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:37:29 AM | They don't dig ugly fat guys. I bet you anything no matter what this guy was driving he was paying for her in some form or another. Most hot girls will want to go with a hot guy. If you take a look around you at people you will see most people are pretty evenly matched. Rarely will you see a 9 with a 4 .
did anyone think that maybe the reason some attractive woman date less then attractive guys is because they may feel safer and secure. I mean in the cheating department, maybe she feels like she could trust a less then hot guy
This is actually really unfair to the person they are dating, but it could very possibly be one of the reasons why you see some hot people with ugly ones.They don't want to get hurt and know that the chances of the ugly person finding someone who wants to cheat with them is not much of a chance. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:42:41 AM | | Well maybe your going for people out of your league? What you think maybe ugly isn't exactly what woman think. You see it as looks and money for things right? Or so I take from reading this...there are people out there who doesn't care about looks or money, they are actually only looking for love. If there is a connection there then why does it matter what other people think right? Not that my 2 cents is going to be noticed I'm just saying not every views things as you do obviously. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:52:19 AM | | not all woman do base on looks, yes I agree there has to be a physical attraction, but womans are not as bad as most men. Wanting thier models with blonde hair, tan, and only 80 lbs. I don't think all woman base on looks as you say. | |
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