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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2008 11:59:17 AM | | There is no such thing as an "ugly" person ,it is their bad character/grooming that makes them ugly. I dated a bald,fat average looking guy ,what attracted me to him is his intelligent, ambitious,moral values and his kindness..We losed tract to each other because of unexpected circumstances.. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2008 12:24:54 PM | who knows?
it could be because he's fun, kind, considerate, sexy, sensual, intelligent, likes the same things she does, shares similar tastes/hobbies/attitude, because she feels loved by him, because she loves him, because they make each other laugh, because he knows what to do when she cries and allows her to care for him in return, because they enjoy being with one another, because he's tender and passionate, because he's loyal and faithful and honest, because he's non judgemental and empathetic, because he's masculine and smells good  because he has *the touch*, because he's respectful and strong, because he's confident and enjoys learning about new things, because he's gentle with those who have *less* and not intimidated by those who have *more*...
ummm.... where was the "ugly" again? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2008 7:02:27 PM | I read a pop-psych newspaper article awhile back, which said that attractive women who date average-looking men often enjoy better sex. The justification was that a plain man will work harder to satisfy his cute girlfriend, in the face of increased competition from other males.
I cannot recall who made the study or how they compiled their data. Sounds like something Darwin would agree with, though. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2008 7:58:28 PM | women never since to amaze me, most of the replies from women disagree with everlast....
It appears that most advertise for the "hunks" especially the ones with money and "things."
Very materialistic. I know several guys who are chronic liars, players and are not sincere about the women they meet and regardless of how bad they treat a woman the more they are "loved."
If looks are not important then why are so many men who are not "hunks" not given the chance to get to know a woman.
Women set their standards too high when it comes to meeting strangers unless they have the looks and throw money around.
That is why I favor foreign women especially ones from poorer countries or countries that still believe in the old world family value system.
American women are to vain and materialistic, and if I am wrong then why is so much money spent each year on cosmetics, jewelery, and restructuring their bodies?javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 4:38:23 AM | Any man can have any type of personality. So I cannot say that this rings true for everybody. Looks are not a priority to me because I know that looks fade over time. It has also been my experience that the attractive guy is too stuck on himself. All he seems to know how to do is "look good". I found Mr. Hunk is too busy maintaining his image to spend time just being himself. Mr. Hunk seems to want to go out more so he can parade his appearance. He looks nice on my arm, but that seems to be as far as it ever goes. He doesn't seem to take a sincere interest in anything but the mirror. Pretentious is not where it really is and someday those who enjoy the pretentious lifestyle will find that out. Usually it is too late but still that day will come to them.
Mr. Average is more compassionate, caring, attentive, communicative, sincere, faithful, and settled down with family and life. He has outgrown the "party harty" lifestyle. He found out going out with the guys and getting smashed is not what it is all about. I think usually Mr. Average has his life together.
I have one foundational issue that I look for in a man. Once I find that, I build on his ability to communicate with me. I want someone I can talk to and who is not afraid to be vulnerable and show who he really is. He is also not afraid of the opinion or expectation of his peers. He is secure in who he is.
It is enjoyable to me to spend time with someone and get to know them. Mr. Ugly might be a FANTASTIC guy if you get to know him and find out who he is. Mr. Ugly and Mr. Average seem to be more capable of a conversation that has to do with someone besides themselves.
Ladies--you know we have all been out with the cute guy who can talk the whole night away and never once inquire anything about you. Then the next time you go out with him, once again, it is all about him. Pretty soon-enough is enough. I am definately not all about me, but I do enjoy a two way relationship.
I don't think women look for Mr. Ugly or even Mr. Average--they just look for Mr. Right and unless the woman is really vain--she doesn't care if he looks like he walked off of a catalog or not.
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 7:56:26 AM | I will repeat some of the things that I mentioned in a earlier post. Some women will claim that looks don't matter to them. But in my experience, very few people ( men and women ) would date someone that they think is ugly. When you do see an ugly man with an attractive woman, it can be due to a variety of reasons.
1. The man is rich.
2. The man became less attractive after they started dating.
3. A woman is attracted to men that many other women would consider to be ugly.
4. A woman has low self esteem about her looks and thinks that she couldn't do any better in terms of looks.
5. A woman thinks that she can "control" and manipulate an ugly man.
However I do agree that many women and men would date an average looking person due to personality, intelligence, shared common interests etc. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 12:26:50 PM | | The same thing you see the bodybuilder with the big chick or the big chick with the really skinny dood!! You can't help who makes you happy! | |
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ml456
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Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 563 | |
| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 1:36:40 PM | 2. The man became less attractive after they started dating.
3. A woman is attracted to men that many other women would consider to be ugly.
IMO these are the most likely reasons although there are other possible reasons. A fair amount of people pay less attention to their physical appearance after they get into a serious relationship. Also people have different tastes and are attracted to different physical attributes. A man that I think is unattractive could be very attractive to another woman. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 6:36:10 PM |
2. The man became less attractive after they started dating.
3. A woman is attracted to men that many other women would consider to be ugly.
Doesn't hold water. That's the same logic behind the Mother-in-Law Diet. You know the one: "Have more, have more, you're skin and bones!"
The premise goes: "If I make everybody around me fat, I'll look thin by comparison". | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 7:28:24 PM | you know what made this 23 page thread ugly to me was the word "babe" i cringe everytime i hear it! the word babe
this has ran for 23 pages but my threads talking about REAL things in life,like bad hygien an cheating and,an EX is an ex for a reason,gets deleted i really wonder whos playing favorites here,,
either way here my $1.99 cents worth
maybe the woman/man was content an happy with the guy or girl because of how they treated them an they gave them the love,affection an attention they deserved an it was given back to them 3 fold.. she or he became #1,not number 99 or when ever it was convient for them.
an didnt treat them like a booty call or some prostitute off the street or was exspected to babysit them an pay for thier every little exspence etc etc gas bills food liquor etc etc,
an then turn around an them have to pay for thier own cost of "thier" living an bills etc..
hey i'm just saying an maybe i'm not too far from the truth on this one..an the reason why a lot of people not just women may choose the not so good looking or not very popular person..
personality an looks do go hand an hand but sometimes an mostimes 79% when it all comes down to it.. you want the genuine an real, not the fake an put together.. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:33:17 PM | I hate to say it but there are some out there that can see past the physical human shell for the person they truly are.
Just because this person was ugly in your eyes physically, it doesn't mean they are ugly in personality, attitude, and love.
I know a lot of people that are beautiful to the eyes but in reality, are just downright****, elitist, 2-faced, gold-digging, players, . | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 4:06:32 AM | Most likely because in most cases, an "average" guy is more willing to work harder to make a relationship work, whereas a piece of eye candy thinks he only has to "show up."
I'd rather be with someone who treated me like I was "his universe" (to quote someone I know) than be with some pretty boy who thinks I should just be thrilled to be SEEN with him. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 4:14:12 AM | That is why I favor foreign women especially ones from poorer countries or countries that still believe in the old world family value system.
These kinds of posts crack me up to no freakin end. Some delusional man saying that American women only want money, and that foreign women are not materialistic, they just want babies and someone to tell them what to do.
Foreign women from poorer countries are after American men for ONE reason and ONE reason only...the almighty dollar. They can stay right where they ARE and have "Family Values." And you don't have to be "rich" by any real standards to get one, because to them, you are ALL rich.
There are enough posts from people with actual experience with this on these forums alone to know that they are really good at putting on the "Family Values" show for American men, and really good at pretending to be the subservient little mouse until they GET here, and then it's a whole other story. You are expected to send them AND their families money before they come here, (if they ever plan to) and then once they get here, you'll be sending it to their families, if not paying for them to come here and live with YOU.
So you just keep that little delusion, at least it's keeping you out of the dating pool of decent American women. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:18:12 PM | | Ugly guys who know they can't rely on their looks but have confidence, aren't that self-conscious about what they say. In their world, confidence takes the place of looks. People no matter what their gender, love confidence even more than looks. You really can't help what you look like but you can always improve your ego, attitude and personality. How do you think Billy Bob Thornton got to sink his teeth into Angelina Jolie before Brad Pitt? That's a heck of a jump, don't ya think? Not like she has any reason to be hard up so Slingblade musta been doing something right. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 2:01:13 PM | | Some of us look deeper into a man than just his looks. A not-so-good-looking man can be funny, intelligent, talented, and he becomes beautiful to us. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 2:05:22 PM | | Unattractive wasn't so hard to type, was it? I am not a television face, by any means, so I'll add a few lines. I have managed to date a few attractive women. I wouldn't be caught "dead" in a Civic, though. Personality, attentiveness, enthusiasm, great sense of humor, being nonjudgmental, "plays" well with others, etc., may be a few of the attractive qualities of the unattractive male that "babes" seem drawn to. Girth, stamina, etc., may be added...did I mention great sense of humor? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 4:22:44 PM |
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Probably because those ugly guys don't refer to them as "babes." | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/6/2008 5:15:07 PM | | This is the difference between men and women, while a woman's choice in a man especially as they get older is influenced by emotion, insecurity, vanity, desire for wealth, and even the sort of relationship they had with their fathers, for men its simply raw and primal; we simply look for 3 qualities, legs, cleavage and face. If you score reasonably well on at least 2 out of 3, you can get any man. lol! | |
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