| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 7:20:58 AM | damn... its been my experience that it does not happen half as much as you may thing. I have been on several web sites and attempted to communicate with hundreds of females (truly). only 3 or so have continued a conversation. so if females are not as superficial as males then i have not meet any. I think its all a crock. I think they want to think its the inside that counts but its the out side that will get you in first.  | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 7:46:07 AM | Why does it even matter that the guy drove a Civic hatchback ( rolls eyes) Unless you're 19, immature and think its the type of car you drive that attracts women...you should know by now, that is totally irrelevant. How do you even know she was checking you out??? Ever thought that she just happened to look because she caught you staring at her?! I highly doubt she was dating this guy out of pity!
And BTW beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The majority of men I have dated have been in decent shape...although not a model by any means. Sometimes I end up going crazy over a guy simply because we have great chemistry. He probably treats her good and they have some commonality. Not ALL women date average joes for money! Give me a break! And it is also common to see attractive men with chubby or not so attractive woman....yes, beleive it or not...some people actually go for personality! Confidence can make someone more attractive too. Not all women use men for money nor do all men use women for sex! | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 9:05:50 AM | Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. (It's not just a cliche.)
Or was that beerholder? I get the two confused sometimes.  | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 9:37:39 AM | | IMO very few people of either gender would date someone that consider to be ugly. Maybe a woman is attracted to men that many or most other women would consider to be ugly. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 1:18:46 PM | Well, I have dated both average looking women and women who would put Helen of Troy to Shame. I married an average girl, because she was fun and intelligent and even though we are now divorced, it was a good choice.
Not in every case, but most of the time, the more beautiful someone is, the more shallow and selfish they are.........that goes for men and women....... | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 4:02:47 PM | | why do babes dig ugly guys? ... what makes you think these guys are 'ugly' to 'these' babes? ........ you are not looking through the same eyeballs ... | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 6:51:55 PM | | I'm still trying to figure out why a guy is walking around calling other guys ugly. I usually thought women did this? Not women, but the little tween girls girls that think boys are yucky hahaha. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 6:58:26 PM | | What business is it of anyone to pass judgement on a couple based upon how they perceive their appearance? I work with a woman who is very beautiful and very nice. She has a great marriage and tells me about the places she travels with her husband and how much they both enjoy it. I've seen a picture of her husband....he is much older, balding and pauchy....and she loves him. I'm frankly envious of them BOTH. | |
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Joined: 9/1/2007
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/7/2008 9:58:16 PM | | I have never read such a shallow posting in my life. Not everyone in this world rely on looks alone in a relationship. As it was mentioned in previous posts, looks fade over time. Everyone has different definition of beauty, and I think perhaps you need to watch Shallow Hal again!! | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/8/2008 2:31:15 AM | Women DON'T dig UGLY guys. If all a woman had to go on was a photo then a lot of relationships wouldn't happen. Ugly anything is not attractive. 'Attractive' meaning the ability to draw someone to oneself.
Other aspects--attractive aspects override appearance if they get a chance to be experienced.
I met someone once who, if I ONLY had looks to go on, I would not have gone out with. I'm NOT saying I'm a BABE. BABE category is neither here nor there in respect to the issue.
The first thing was communication--conversation. He would open his mouth and SPEAK. There was MUCH talking. It is not the only thing. We had some things in common. There were attributes of caring. He was romantic. He had a spirituality. But if the talking hadn't happened no relationship would have happened. I fell in love with him. In fact one day I looked at him and he looked 'handsome' and I wondered how I how I hadn't noticed before!
Different girls might have different needs/ wants which are really important to them. If these or some of these are satisfied or have the potential to be satisfied, a girl will be open to the guy. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/8/2008 6:17:00 AM | | I look at the inside of a person instead of the outside. You can be good looking on the outside and so ugly inside. Some people are so stuck on themselves that to find a good person from the inside out is very hard to do. I have dated very good looking men and not so good looking men and to me its whats on the inside that counts, not what they have or who they are. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/8/2008 6:27:18 AM | Aloha,
tell it to em one more time. Confidence comes from you and everyone's got there own preferences at the end of the day, personality always shines out. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/8/2008 6:52:53 AM |
OOh you know what! this is like if a fat person makes fun of a skinny one it's ok but other way around is mean? SAME DIFFERENCE HERE..It's ok for you to say a decent looking person has a greater propensity to be shallow or selfish? If I say some unattractive pple have a greater chance of trying to make attractive people feel miserable about what they look like can you fathom that? I tell you the truth same reason men have stuck with some of the average or below averagely attractive woman ..and I am just gonna leave it right there....Ugly shmugly ..I don't give a rats ass if ur unattractive I'm certainly not going to feel bad for ya..are you gonna feel bad about the negatives in my life? shoot...AND NO I DON'T THINK I'M ALL THAT & a bag of chips ..plenty women here got me beat..and I am not gonna be a catty twit t.w.a.t. to them just because I am not as attractive..this could just go on & on & on...BUT I WANNA DRIVE THIS HOME...FEELING BAD FOR THE 'UGLY' PEOPLE when they may be just as ugly if not uglier than attractive people are on the inside? is just wrong!
I have thought ugly shoes are cute..didnt make em the least bit better a shoe..pffft
Hey Newsflash attractive pple can be good pple too....Just because ur esthetically challenged doesn't mean your some how deeper emotionally...Matter fact I Out of the few atrocious looking pple I have tried to have relationship with? they were all bitter angry lil trolls on the inside..trying to show off how wonderfully CONFIDENT they were on the oustide with shallow B.S............YOU HAVE TO BE A REAL SIMPLE ASS HUMAN BEING TO THINK THAT ESTHETICALLY UNAPPEALING people are always going to be more cerebral...It's asinine and untrue...personally I'd rather have negative experiences with an attractive person than an unattractive one..at least the fact that they appealed to my brain..via my eyes..would be a plus to the whole negative...DON'T FOOL YOURSELF UGLY OR PRETTY..WE ARE JUST PEOPLE.
It's all preference. and by the end of the day? who really gives a sh!t about this elementary topic..I t just applied to me at this moment because I got duped by a chewbaka looking ahole..so there u have it.. nice day now.
yes, these twin "rants" really show off your 'inner beauty'..NOT..to be up to the same level as you apparently think your 'outer beauty' is?? LMAO..  | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/8/2008 6:56:38 AM | The OP must be alittel insecure if he has to go around calling other people 'ugly'.
If he is as 'all that' as he thinks he is, and women are attracted to his 'gorgeous good looks' then I question why he is on POF at all to find 'dates'?
maybe a decent personality would be an added asset, to go along with his (in his mind, anyway) 'movie star good looks'? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/8/2008 9:11:48 AM | | I would guess that this pretty woman is digs this ugly guy is because at one point he asked her out and so far she's had a good time. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/9/2008 4:31:06 AM | Hmm....lemme think. Ok, can you say TRUST FUND? Or perhaps Huge Penis?
Seriously Bro. The ONLY guys who ask "why is that hot chick with HIM??" question are the ones who rely on their looks to carry them through life.
Perhaps the lady see's something deeper in him?? Perhaps she's dated one too many pretty boys who have used and abused her? Who the heck knows.
Truthfully, a woman who can "be with" or date a man that doesnt fit societies mold of handsome or pretty is a woman that I WANT TO MEET! It means (to me) that she has more substance about her than flash. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/9/2008 6:47:59 AM | | Well for me personlly, I don't date people I am not attracted to....b/c I think attraction is very important. However, maybe this girl saw something wonderful in this guy that she was attacted to that you don't see. Maybe he treats her like a queen. etc etc. Or maybe he was a little overweight but had a cute face. I think she saw the beauty in him that others didn't see and I commend her for that! Also, don't judge someones wealth by the car they drive...there are alot of millionaires who live modest lives and drive modest cars. U don't know their situation! Also, you stated "cause he has a great personality? again, that goes for a little while, but long run?" You have gotten your theory mixed up my friend. Looks fade with age....personality lasts forever! | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/9/2008 9:35:37 AM |
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
I would venture to say that this blatant generalization is as false as any other generalization.
As far as pof is concerned, from the majority of female profiles I've read.........
I'd say that most babes DON'T dig ugly guys.
For those women whom judge more on personality than appearances........I'd say that the ugly guys may pay more attention and treat her better than the pretty boys.
Also, maybe they don't like sharing vanity with their men?? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/9/2008 12:36:24 PM |
When did anyone think we like ugly fat chumps...?
oddness
Holy shit... I hope you meant that sarcastically. Otherwise... fail. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/12/2008 8:47:23 PM | She must not dig ugly guys that much. You think you are hot and she was checking you out!
It bothers me also that you automatically assume she belongs to him. Have you ever heard of someone settling until they find someone better. Some woman do it also, I know it's shocking. Some men out here will date or be friends with perks with a girl that he thinks is not that attractive or attractive enough to be his girlfriend.
There are also women that do the same thing, but for different reasons. Sometimes it could be money, or someone to hear all of their problems. He had a regular vehicle as you said but she might not have no vehicle at all. The worst lie that most men assume is that most women have vision problems. There are nothing wrong with your eyes just like there is nothing wrong with mine.
I can't believe im the only woman on this forum that finds this posting to be an insult. He is not even taking into consideration that black, white, blonde or red head beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Also, most of these people are full of crap if unatractive people are such a catch emotionally, financially and education wise. There would be no homely people on plenty of fish or single in your hometown and America would be a paradise.
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/12/2008 8:54:25 PM | The truth be told...So called ugly guys know that they are not all that physically but they know they can make up for it in personality and therefore they do the one thing that " I'm gonna fade out one day..." good looks can never do for a woman...They make her feel like she is the Queen of the whole world and that never loses its glory. Besides if a man is hot then every woman wants him and acts like competition but the one that no one wants is the man that knows everything about getting and keeping a womans heart forever and he doesn't create an insecurity in her so she worries and wants for nothing simultaneously and that is priceless.
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